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writes:The guy knows I like him, but he always says he "hates" me. Although he's like that on the outside with other people when we text and stuff, he says he only says that because it's "funny". He acts like a complete a-hole, but I still like him and when he found out I like him he just said: "I don't really care", and he also called me a lesbian, because of some weird girl at our school. I don't know what to do anymore. I like him a lot though.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 December 2015):
 What you need to find courage to do, is to cut him off. Right now he TREATS you like dirt, because he finds it "funny", because he isn't emotionally invested in you and because YOU allow it.
IT IS NOT OK for him to treat you like dirt. And maybe you need to consider why you like him. Because I can't imagine liking someone who treats me like dirt and acts like an a-hole. That is not the kind of people I'd want around myself.
People don't treat other people like crap because they care about them. Don't believe that for one minute. It's not the whole playground scenario where little boys pulls little girls pigtails to get their attention. It's not cute at age 5 and certainly not at age 13-15.
You may have a crush on him, but he doesn't like you back. And that happens. Best thing you can do it SEE him for the a-hole he is and let go of that crush. He isn't WORTHY of your affections.
So stop chasing after a guy who doesn't like you back and definitely stop chasing a guy who treat you like crap.
And in the future - if people treat you badly, CUT them off. Stick with people who are good to others.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (2 December 2015):
 At this moment he doesn't seem that interested. Sorry to tell you that. Maybe things will change. Remember girls mature faster than boys, so perhaps he needs time to catch up and see what he's missing in you. If he is not the one there will be someone else for you. Christmas's coming and probably a few parties. It's a good time to find a date.
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