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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:So lately I've noticed that my behavior has been odd. I wasn't that type of girl who likes attention from guys since i was very shy. But i worked on my self esteem 2 years ago, and now I'm a very outgoing, confident and a loud person BUT who likes attention from guys.NOT to be egoistic but im physically fit and everyone says im pretty. But lately I've been enjoying the attention that guys give me and i enjoy it when they flirt with me. I do flirt back and i always get approached by guys. My self esteem is lower when i don't get the attention i need and i start to feel that 'im not good enough' but eventually my sekf esteem is higher with all the attention. I can't control the feeling of craving attention from guys. And sometimes i feel that people think im an 'attention seeker' since i have lots of guy friends and mostly hang out with them. I have a tomboyish personality and i enjoy things that guys do,so maybe this might be the reason that guys enjoy hanging out with me? And how do i figure out if a guy likes me for my looks or for my personality?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 December 2015):
 Okay first off at your age it is perfectly normal to want guys attention, their is no harm in flirting if you are not putting yourself in any danger. Just make sure that you don't take needing attention to far and that you still have time for your family and friends and their needs, just remember that everyone needs attention to make them feel special so make sure that you don't always feel you need to be the center of attention.
I guess none of us ever really know why a guy is with us, my advice on this would be to take your time getting to know a guy, see how he treats you, don't rush in to intimacy, make him wait and see if he treats you well.
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