A
female
age
22-25,
*ellarandom
writes: My parents have been divorced for 6/7 years now and my dad now has a partner who has 3 kids. Consisting of 2 boys (let's call the youngest A and the eldest B) and 1 girl (let's call her C), my sister (let's call her D) moved in with them 3 years ago and 4 years ago they had a son (let's call him E)... We all get along well... We live in a house of 8 people My dad, his partner, the girl C (who is 18 nearly 19) D (who is 17 nearly 18) B (who just turned 17) and A (who is 10) and E ( who is 4 nearly 5) and me (I'm 14 soon I'm going to be 15) ... When I visited them at summer i started to develop feelings for B... I had to share the room with the boys because C's room can only fit one bed and my sister sleeps on the sofa bed... One night I started to have sexual thoughts about my brother and I tried to not think about him... We are best friends and very similar one to another so we get along very easily... I'm going to visit them at Christmas and I'm worried about what will happen because I normally speak without thinking and in worried that I will say something I will regret... What should I do?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (21 December 2015):
I think you should talk to a female that you are close to. Are you able to talk to your mum? A crush is normal at this age, and there is nothing wrong with having sexual feelings for this boy. The only thing that makes it awkward is that he is your step brother. Your best to talk to a female about this that you are close to.
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