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Archived questions from: October, 2013 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Should I visit my old workplace again and try again? Or should I forget her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

29 October 2013 (M) - I was working at a company for about 8 months. There was a girl there who came from where I am originally from. When I started working there we had a long chat and she said she would love to talk more and really enjoyed it, but needed to get back...

Should I walk away from my jealous and possessive male friend? I have a boyfriend and haven't dared tell the friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4033 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - Hi, basically I am a girl and I have this guy friend, and he told me he liked me in that way, but I don't so I let him down gently and we continued to be friends. Then my current bf came on the scene, and if truth be told I still haven't told my ...

When Will the Rose Colored Glasses Come Off?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - About 2 weeks ago I posted a question about my son cutting his friends and family out of his life because of a new gf. The verdict was just to give it time and he would come around. Now, here we are, with something that is even more perplexing ...

Did he get an ego boost from rejecting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4034 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - Hi Aunties My crush is usually shy and quiet. I asked my crush out through FB but he said that he had no experience with things like this and that he loved talking to me. But now he is more sociable and louder. So my question is has be gotten an...

Am I wasting my time sending her presents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

26 October 2013 (M) - I have a childhood friend on whom I had a huge crush. I met her after 12 years on facebook.. she is studying thousand miles away from me... I proposed her on the 3rd day.. She said no.. Then after one month I sent an expensive leather clutch.....

Male friend has changed behaviour since we hooked up. What's his problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4035 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - Ok so I have a friend who is quite flirty and anyway we hooked up once a couple weeks but we don't like each other or anything. So anyway we used to talk like all the time but all of a sudden he just stopped replying to my messages and starts ...

He would never like me as much as I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4036 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - There us a guy who has recently transferred to my school, i am really starting to fall for him BADLY. I dont know what to do because hes the new popular guy and am just a quiet nobody, i have him in nearly all of my lessons and am constantly ...

He is quite confusing, he never seems INTERESTED interested!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

24 October 2013 (F) - I like a boy I met on a school outing last year. Call him Simon. I added him on fb and would chat to him about his/my school stuff (societies, prefects etc.). And coincidentally we both ended up as Head Prefects at our differemt schools. So ...

Do you think my co-worker will ever ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

24 October 2013 (F) - theres this guy I like at my job,im new there well since ive been there he been nothing but xtra nice to me, he'll ask me how my day is going,always smiling at me...he'lol wait for me to get off work if we get off at the same time and ride the ...

Could this be a sign of sexual tension?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

23 October 2013 (F) - Have I imagined signs of attraction towards me from him? I was curious to know why some signals from someone can be mixed. When me and him are alone, the conversation flows, there's a lot of long glances and smiles. It's almost like the world s...

I have a crush on best friend's hot roommate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

22 October 2013 (M) - My buddy recently got a new roommate, who just happens to be a really sexy, intelligent, funny girl, who does awesome shit like make pancakes and watches all my favorite movies. It's very hard not to be attracted to her. He went out and left us ...

Cute girl at the smoothie shop, how do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

22 October 2013 (M) - So for a while now I've been going to this smoothie place every sunday since its the only day I really have time to relax. Theres this oncredibly cute girl there who all of a sudden started giving me huge discounts on all my drinks. When I try n ...

Rejection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

21 October 2013 (M) - I just commented on a post by a guy who had a long history of rejection. The post tickled my memory all the way back to Junior High School (12 years of age). I was rejected a lot. I've got to say that out of the 15 or so girls in my class 10 ...

What topic should I use to approach girls? I'm shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4040 days ago

21 October 2013 (M) - hey... i am 17... i live in india.... and as you will see in my previous question how shy i am. I dont know what to talk to girls and all..... now i will explain you. Previous year i joined a class for studying and there were many hot girls ...

Should I consider marrying my best friend, even though I don't feel anything for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - I have a friend we have been really best buddies since 5 years and started to like me but i dont have feelings for him, he proposed me n i became mad and ended our friendship, after a year i contacted him because i was really falling apart due to my ...

I've developed a crush on my dentist!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

20 October 2013 (F) - I feel really pathetic writing this as I'm in my mid 30's, engaged and have developed a huge crush on my dentist! Please nobody judge as I'm not going to do anything but I do need advice. I have had to have some work done on my teeth which...

She has recently broken up with her BF. She is a co-worker. Should I ask her out on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4041 days ago

19 October 2013 (M) - Kind of a weird one here. I work with this girl who I have liked for a while, 5 months ago we got drunk and kissed at a party and it didn't go so well in terms of trying to develop a relationship. I came across too serious and dramatic. So we didn't...

Why would he flirt but never ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

19 October 2013 (F) - Was wondering if someone could possibly give me some insight as to why a man would constantly flirt with someone but, never ask them out. A particular man in question works with me but, on a higher level than I do. I have worked at the same plac...

Why am I so nervous that he wont like how I look?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

17 October 2013 (F) - I am a nervous wreck. I met this man in my work uniform, we hit it off. I am a chunky girl. He went away for about six months and we kept contact. He is back in the states, and wants to see me. Why am I so nervous that he wont like how I look? He ...

She ditched me to hang out with her ex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

17 October 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, Its been a long time since I wrote to you (I apologize), and now I am here again asking for help for more of my girl problems. In advance, I apologize for any grammar errors or fallacies since my english writing is not that great. ...

I've had dreams about my teacher crush and I'm confused now!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

14 October 2013 (F) - I have a crush on a teacher at my school, he's 25, friendly and good looking. Now, i have liked him since last year, and he coached my soccer team this year. Don't worry, I won't try anything and I've learnt that any 'special' attention he gives me ...

I'm confused as to whether or not he likes me as more than a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - So confused. A co-worker who transferred from one of our global and I have become very good friends over the past year. His wife was supposed to transfer as well to the us but they ultimately separated and are in the process of divorcing. A mo...

My question is did he like me or what is going on with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

12 October 2013 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles! I have a question about a boy. He’s friends with one of my housemates and last week he came to visit. I'm shorter than most people, just over 4 foot in height by the way. My housemate and me are like brother and sister a...

Would it be wrong to approach him once he's no longer my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

12 October 2013 (F) - Hi there, I am a 18 (soon to be 19) years old. This year, i decided to carry on an extra year at my sixth form to improve my grades, instead of going straight to uni. I have been put in a physics class with a new teacher, who i think i am reall...

Am I a stalker for sharing my crush's pictures on facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

11 October 2013 (M) - I used to have a crush whose pics I shared on Facebook and that person got angry with me for that very reason. Am I a stalker for that? ...

Am I too hopeful that he likes me? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4050 days ago

10 October 2013 (F) - So-- this guy is in two of my classes here at college. He is in my major. He sits by me in both classes. There is a group of 4 of us in the same major that stick together (all boys plus me). Anyways, I cannot explain to you how attracted I am to ...

I think my friend is flirting with me, but I'm not quite so sure. Opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

10 October 2013 (F) - So, I need your guys' opinions on this. So, I think my friend is flirting with me, but I'm not quite so sure. So, I'll tell you guys some of the stuff he does, and you guys give me your opinion. Please, and thank you. Oh and I do like him, i just ...

Should I try to start something with a crush that works at my school?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

7 October 2013 (F) - I'm 17 and in year 13 at school, I've had a crush on a member of staff that works at the school, however he's not my teacher, he just works in the school as a social helper, he's about 22 I think and we do talk quite a lot. I'm not sure on what to ...

Guy A or guy B? Why do I think of one when I am with the other? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4052 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - Hello. Two different guys that i both met a month ago, same age, have been checking me out. They both show interest of dating me. I'll call them guy A and B. So thing is guy A is so sweet, sexy, cute and a bit shy. Whereas guy B is physically s...

Have a boyfriend of 4 years but have a crush on someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

5 October 2013 (F) - Sorry for the long read, I don't know what to do and don't really have anyone to tell this all to. I love my boyfriend, we've been together for 4 years. We're both 23 years old and each other's second serious relationship. But for some reason I just ...

Is there any boy lingo in his actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4054 days ago

5 October 2013 (F) - So there's this guy at work who I really like. He is 8 years older than me. I'm 18 and he's 26 Every time I see him I get those high school feelings. Stop breathing, butterfly's etc. I do act casual though, I'm not acting weird. Haha. But he's ...

When/how is it appropriate to express interest in getting to know someone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

4 October 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid Aunts, The other day I checked out something at my university library which had not been checked out since 1978, and thus lacked a bar code. Since I could not use the self-checkout kiosk, I had to actually go and get a real person t...

If you were me, would you try and approach this girl and potentially harm a maybe happy household? Or would you simply forget about it and move on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

4 October 2013 (M) - For about five years iv always had a small crush on the girl who works in my local post office, we would often flirt and smile a lot when we talked, she is about 2 years younger than me at 24. I have never persued it though as I have always been in ...

I'm in love with her, but I can tell she's skittish about it. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

3 October 2013 (M) - I’ve recently fallen for a beautiful woman. Every single bit my type with all of my strengths and flaws. I asked her for her number today and she gave it to me. When I tried to make plans she was hesitant and we never ended up making a solid ...

I blew him off, now I want him.. what to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - I am almost 21 years old and I have the most typical high school kind of crush on this guy. The crush situation is generally simple.. but I want to explain why my situation is a little more complicated and why I need help. I'll try to make this...

Smiling thing happening. Should I approach him and ask him to be friends? Or will that be going too far?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

2 October 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, there is this guy who lives down my street, i like him. For sometime now, he's been giving me this kind of look that makes me thinks he likes me and wants to be friends with me. Anytime he sees me, he smiles at me and i dont smile ba...

My potential partner is showing poor judgement with a popular bank scam!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

2 October 2013 (F) - I'm lesbian and there's this lady I'm talking to, nothing serious n we r not dating. It's been a month now. Today she did something really stupid which got me now questioning her intelligence, I always questioned it which is why I wanted to develop ...

I have crushes on 2 friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

1 October 2013 (M) - OK, I have 2 really big crushes. Lets call them Rachel and Sarah. I’m back in college after over 10 years and find myself fallen for 2 of my classmates both in separate classes. Today as I’m in the cafeteria I find them both sitting together ...

I told him I liked him. He said nothing

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

1 October 2013 (F) - I told this guy that I had a crush on him. Before I was about to tell him I think he sensed what I was about to say. After I told him he just asked me how long I liked him and I said I don't know. I could not think straight my head was all over the ...

Should I wait or tell my crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

1 October 2013 (?) - I don't know if I should wait for my crush to breakup with his girlfriend that he's having issues with or if I should tell him that I like him now. I know he'll just reject me again because he's in a relationship but waiting for them to split is ...

My crush rejected me but now seems worried about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

1 October 2013 (F) - This time last year I finally came clean and told my crush of 5 years that I liked him. I mentioned a few times we hung out that were special to me. I also told him the reason why I waited - he was dating someone or it never felt right.. after my 30 ...