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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I'm so shy, I don't think that I will be able to start talking to him and I also have a feeling like he is also too shy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - It a very long story but I'll try to make it as short as I can. There is this guy in my college that I really like. He already knows it because my friend asked him on facebook what he thinks of me and he said he thinks i'm nice but he doesn't know ...

I feel love for my dad's cousin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

29 February 2012 (M) - What do i should if I feel love for my dad`s cousin and she is eight years older than me?...

Is this wedding invite a sign that he wants something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I have had a crush on this guy for sometime, and I have been invited to his family wedding. Its 4 months to go. It will be around 200 guests and very family orientated. We have been more than friends for a while, but not into a relationship enough ...

Does it seem like he is just very friendly or flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - so there's this guy ... (typical, I know :P but I really need input, so please bear with me). I started a new job a little while ago and during the first few days I was workin there I met this guy. He didn't have his membership card so I asked hi...

I am gutted that he's only looking forward to seeing me because he thought he was going to get his leg over!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - hello all, well i'm 36 and after a crappy divorce am back with my parents, had one disappointing boyfriend since but have been single for a good while and would like to meet someone now.. well i have and we went for a drink last night, hes 31 and a ...

Really like this boy, but don't know if he likes me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - I really like this boy but I don't know if he likes me back. I only have one lesson with him and at the beginning of the year I sat near him ( there was a seat inbetween us and only one other person on our table) and we talked and the next week he ...

I have no idea if he likes me or not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hello! I have a question about wether a guy likes me or not. We are in the same grade and have most of our lessons together. He is fairly tall, like me and we are both thin and have several things in common. My friends keep on telling me what a ...

Does my former teacher still like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Ok so I published a question like this a whole back when I was at college about my teacher.Im 19 and very mature for my age seeing things in a very adult way. The last question I posted was about my teacher and the response I got was that this tea...

Is he just scared of being gay or is he just messing with my emotions for fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - Hi, im not sure if im just going nuts or what but i swear my best friend is screwing with my head. he knows im gay and he knows im in love with him, but he has a girlfriend who he is on and off with constantly. when we're just chilling out o...

Should I pursue this beautiful girl who has a boyfriend? Wait and see what happens? Or run?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - I have been talking to this girl for a couple months. She is really nice and it seems like she likes me. The way she talks to me in person and when we text seems like she does. Its just really flirty.The thing is I did not start the flirting. She ...

He wanted to know why I asked him if he had a girlfriend, should I tell him it's because I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - l have been liking this guy for 3 months now, his actions seems like he likes me too. He finds excuses to talk to me, l catch him looking at me and he once asked me 4 months ago if l had a boyfrend of which l said yes because l was dating someone at ...

Is he gay? Is he into me? Why does he want to meet me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

27 February 2012 (M) - I met this guy on a random social network. I am from California and he's from one of the southern states. I am crazy in love with him. We talk so much. We text every single day. He leaves me audio notes and video notes on my phone. Now he tells me ...

Does my tutor like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have engaged a private tutor to help me with my degree, as it is a very tough course. He was not what I expected. He is about two years older than me and completed his degree the year before. We have met up twice now for sessions and I l...

Need to break up with my LDR. But how do I tell this other guy in a subtle way that we should be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for approximately one year and eight months. For a year now, it's been a LDR. I made it rather clear to my current bf that if he moved away, this relationship will most likely fall apart. I said this because I know myse...

I'm a guy and like one of my straight friends. What things should I do to manage this situation tactfully?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - Hello. I like one of my best guy friends, and I too am a guy. I've been close friends with him for 3 or 4 years. We didn't really talk to each other for the first few years, but became close as we had classes and talked to each other more. It w...

This is an Unwanted Love Triangle. How should I be reacting in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - My good friend, C, introduced me to a guy friend of hers, M. Apparently M started liking me. He would ask me out almost every week to hang out. I just go with the flow and went with him. Unknowingly, it seems that C likes M. I had that feeli...

What was he thinking? What was this kiss all about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Not sure if he was trying to kiss me or take advantage or what. My best friend and I were hanging out at his place when it happened and we have dated before, but it didn't work out and we were better friends than lovers. Well I was at his place a...

Which one? The one who likes me? Or the one I'm kind of into?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - There is this guy X who's in a class I'm in. And I’m kinda into to him. We talk in class sometimes but he’s extremely shy. We talk on Facebook at least once a week and he is the opposite of shy when we talk then. But I feel like I’m always the one ...

I don't understand why I am so caught on him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - What to do what to do... I met "Jeff" 10 years ago. We dated and had a good time. He dissapeared on me only to return a year later and we reconnected for a bit. Then he dissapeared, again. At the time both of us were party people and he espi...

I like him. he's nice. I want to know him better.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I could do with some rleationship asking a guy out kind of way. I go swimming all the time and a lifeguard there I know from school. We don't ever talk in a full out conversation. But we both know who one another are. A week ago my friend came with ...

If he wants sex he has no chance!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - *We made out a couple of weeks ago (drunk). Told me he had feelings. *I stayed at his place (didn't have sex) *It was awkward the next week in college oddly *He jetted off to France for a week (student exchange) where apparently he DID THINGS...

How to ask out a girl I barely know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - 1-2 weeks ago I was going home with a classmate and in the buss he introduced me to this girl.. we met one more time after that in school and talked a little. So 3 days ago I wgo inoin to school and when I entered the buss I saw her waving at me(she ...

Two housemates are interested in me- I have no interested in either perhaps because of my condition...What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I have a couple of problems I would like some help with. The first is this: I'm currently group house sharing with 4 people, two girls/two guys. My problem is that I think one of my housemates, an older man (he's 40, I'm 23) likes me. I'm no...

Can someone's hugs show how they feel about you? :)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Hello :) I'm friends with the boy I like and we always hug goodbye. Lately,his hugs have been different. When I hug him he holds me really tight and he grabs my head and pushes my head against his chest and puts his fingers through my hair. ...

Why is she flirting with me, if she has a boyfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - There is this girl in my class that I have a crush on! Shes so pretty and has the most amazing personality! I just met her about a month and a half ago. We talk in class and we kinda flirt. Smile back and fourth and she will complement me when I do ...

Should I jump ship for my old high school crush?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Ive been in a relationship for the past 8yrs and we have been through a lot. He is also 7 years older. i know im not the pretty young thing like i used to be but things feel like their going nowhere. No more spark. not much conversation. not too ...

Should my bf stop texting and meeting his ex crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Dear all, I decided to write a more complete story so that you all can have a better understanding. I am in a serious relationship for a year now. 3 years ago in 2009 I broke up with my ex and was very depressed. During that time I ev...

Should I take my ex back if she ever wants to come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - So me and my ex were together for 8 wonderful years. We started dating at 14 and ended at 22. We are also eachothers first real relationship and first sex partners. I always had my group of friends but she only ever wanted to be with me. She would ...

We are so different but I have a huge crush on him! How do I get the courage to talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - hey everyone I really need help,there is this guy in my school, he's soooo cute and adorable, i dont really know him that much i just see him around the hallway and in gym class but not in the same class. he's white and i'm black (weird right), ...

Is it really "no big deal" for married women to have crushes on other men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

22 February 2012 (M) - I would really be interested in hearing from married women on this one. What does it mean when your wife seems to be very smitten with a husband of a couple we are becoming friends with? Do I have a right to be upset? Or, should I just relax and ...

I've found out that I'm bi, from talking with this girl ... who has a girlfriend. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Hi agony aunts. Well I've recently found out that I'm bi.. Because of this girl. We met via twitter (we've like talked and skyped I know she's real don't worry...) and she only lives in the next state over. First we were friends, but now I really ...

Whatever happened to amicably breaking up??!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Hi guys. I have posted on here before recently. I have had a horrible time recently. Me and my bf broke up in December after I had a miscarriage in November. Basically he wasn’t really there for me and I was really going through it and I pretty much ...

I'm crushing hard on this teacher even though I have a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4652 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Okay, so for the past 5 months or so I have fallen very hard for one of my teachers. I have had little crushes on a few before and they always blow over without any problem, but this one hasn't. Right now I am 18 and only have three months left of ...

Why is he backing away from me! Help me understand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Basically, me and this guy, are close, and really good friends. But like, he's admitted that we're more than friends. And we both say we love each other and he calls me names like 'beautiful' or 'sexy'. And I say stuff back too. The other day he ...

He seems off with me...is it because I live far away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Well me and this guy have been talking for a while, the distance is a bit far (an hour), he seems so sweet and just so perfect! he also said that to me too! problem is, is that we've never met.. he texted me the other day saying 'i feel like we have ...

I need to tactfully deal with this situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I have known this woman for a few years as our kids attend the same pre-school and school. During pre-school this woman would never give me the time of day or even acknowledge me ( I didnt really care ) Then 2 years later our children start...

Do you think these are signs that he likes me?

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20 February 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I was just wondering as there's this guy I like as to whether these are signs that he likes me to we were talking the other day about when you are not looking for love you find it he told me when you are not looking it is staring you ...

I'm always there for him but he doesn't want me as a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - HI I used like to this guy and I told him when I told him he never told me if he likes me or not. Then a month later he rings me up and tells me that he likes soem girl for a year and half, this girls feels the same but she not ready to move on. He ...

Were these the actions of a platonic friend, or does she like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - I am 18 and have a crush on a girl a year younger than me at work. We are both part timers at a restaurant, and our boss owns the bar next door. There was a party in the bar one night and being a dishwasher in the restaurant, I was not needed, but ...

My Family are against me going to his country to join him. Should I do this? My family object to this LDR

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid Ok i am a student living in a east coast state in the us.. on break i met a man online on skype.. at first i was hesitant but then i just began talking to him..we have been talking to each other for almost 3 months now but are serious ...

My little sister is flirting with a guy I like. How do I deal with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Okay soo there this guy i school I hadnt really ever spoken to much before, but recently i started talking to him more because we have a class together this semester. He's a pretty cool guy, funny, really smart too. I also like the fact that he like...

Is it a phase, me thinking I could be gay? Could the suicide of my ex still be complicating my life right now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I honestly think Im gay. I've never been this is love with a girl. My mom says its just a phase and what Im thinking is love is really in need of friendship. My ex recently committed suicide and it took me a while to get over it but i smiled a...

Seriously ! I do have the biggest crush on a guy four years older than me. What do you suggest I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Ok so I'm almost 17 and very shy person. I have the biggest crush on this guy from work who is like four years older than me. I have really talked to him, like have an actual conversation with him. I really don't know what to do. Everytime ...

His ideas about sex differ from mine. He gets huffy when I don't want to talk about it. How to I keep him interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Short and sweet I hope:: I talk to this guy pretty regularly. Daily mostly. If we can't talk in person we talk on line somehow. The bad thing is we dont agree on sex because I'd like to think love happens before sex in most cases around my age rang...

How can I gain the trust and show her I care? She's been hurt in the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (M) - There's this girl I really like. I mean I'm crazy about her :) But she's been hurt badly in the past and so isn't willing to chance anything :( I want to help her understand that I'm not like other guys. I want her to believe this because i...

What does he mean? He's says I'm and open book with no writing in it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Hi I like this guy and he knows I like him but he never told me if he likes me or not so he started saying he likes some girl everyones saying he likes me and is trying to get me jealous. I didnt give any reactions and he goes Im like an open book ...

I know he doesn't love me but why is he treating me like that after all I been there for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - My case is with a friend. He and I were co-workers, his girlfriend worked in the same place too. He liked to flirted with me and various people commented on that I never wanted to mess with him and do not pick quarrels with his girlfriend. He began ...

I'd jeopardize my actual relationship if I allowed this infatuation to take hold. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I am almost 22 and I have a boyfriend and I know he loves me, he is so kind and sweet and caring and we have been going out for over a year or so. But about April last year, I met this man one day, and he was fascinating and charming and I have n...

How can I make him see that I've changed since then and that I am the right choice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - ModNote: The OP has implied that this question could have more detail added - the OP is welcome to add that details as follow ups to this question, herein, to assist others to answer this question. The reason for him not liking me was mostly m...

The girl I have a crush on keeps teasing me about a blonde girl I danced with. What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

19 February 2012 (M) - I am 18 [male] and have a crush at work [a girl my age]. We have gotten friendly before on a night out, but nothing has happened since. I have sort of fallen for her since then, and wish I had made a move at the time. Before we got friendly...