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writes:Ok so I published a question like this a whole back when I was at college about my teacher.Im 19 and very mature for my age seeing things in a very adult way.The last question I posted was about my teacher and the response I got was that this teacher seemed to like me and also he was doing wrong,for example his flirting and also giving me a teddy bear.Im no longer a student I left during the middle of the course And I visited there only twice and everytime I went he was happy to see me.Well I went today and my friend was there too.We was walking and I saw him and my friend knew by the look I gave her was to walk faster,but it was too late,I saw my teacher do a double take and then shout my name with happiness and walked over.He was talking to me for 3mins saying how beautiful and amazing I looked and that I must be driving the boys mad.He noticed I was nervous and asked why which I responded "I don't know" which was kinda true and a lie because he makes me nervous.Anyway my friend coughed because my teacher completely forgot she was there and he said hello then turned back to me and was asking how I was doing.My friend then said we had to go and he said bye to us.20mins later I was upstairs alone and that teacher came along asking if I was ok and who I was waiting for and I told him my ex teacher and he said if I don't have anything to do,come to his class if I wanted to.Welk I sat waiting for 10mins and he didn't arrive,so I took my teachers offer and went to his class.He was delighted that I came along.I sat next to a boy and during the lesson the teacher kept saying I should watch out because apparently this boy Kept checking me out and that,which he wasn't,this teacher just says that.my teacher kept saying how beautiful I looked and that which made me blush a bit.But there's one comment that stuck in my head all day,my teacher made a comment to this boy while I was next to him saying:"If I was your age,I would be hitting on her" it was then a bit of a awkward silence so I kept my face down and the boy just stared at the teacher in complete shock.So I'm just wondering,does it seem this teacher likes/or still does?Thank you for reading
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (29 February 2012):
 These student/teacher romances always get to me. It's SO cliche... and the STUDENT is the one who gets the short end of the stick.... and yet, time and again, students fall in to this trap and get burned....
If it's any consolation, boy-students do the same thing.... with the same results....
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 February 2012):
 It sounds like he was making a big deal about seeing you and commenting on your beauty. Not very professional, really, is it?
But to answer your question, he has certainly made it clear you are attractive. Does it mean anything else? Who knows? He's had many students, presumably, so he may make a big fuss over many of them.
To me, a teacher making a fuss of a girl's appearance is a bit sad really. I think if he had more integrity and common sense, he'd be talking to her about her career and life aspirations, rather than making a scene talking about her looks. My guess is that he does this often and is really a bit of a knucklehead, in the sense that he doesn't get that what he's doing could be a career-killer.
If you are very mature and see things in an adult way, can't you relate to him as an adult and tell him why you were nervous? I think you are still very much in the student/teacher 'forbidden love' kind of mindset which may be very enjoyable to contemplate but doesn't really hold a lot of hope for a viable, adult relationship springing from it, if that is what you are secretly asking.
He thinks you are physically appealing. Whether than means anything more is dubious.
Hope you aren't pinning too many hopes on this guy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2012): Well it seems that he more than likes you & if it makes you nervous or uncomfortable around him then you should avoid bumping into him.
Also his indirect comment about hitting on you borders on indecency. He's a teacher, he shouldn't be saying such things to his students & atleast not in front of the whole class.
But if you like all this attention & you also secretly admire him (that seems the case as you're asking if he likes you) then it's fine & you can bask in the attention & enjoy the compliments that he showers on you. But tread with caution. take care :)
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