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30-35,
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writes:so there's this guy ... (typical, I know :P but I really need input, so please bear with me).I started a new job a little while ago and during the first few days I was workin there I met this guy. He didn't have his membership card so I asked him his name (let's say it's ...Jason). his reply, "Jason. Well actually Jay, but I think it says Jason in your computer." I had trouble with his order so I asked someone else to help me. He politely said thanks and have a good night before he left; nothing too out of the ordinary.He came back in last week, first thing he says "So you've been here 2 weeks now, right?" (he is the only customer so far to remember/mention it. I say, "This is my third." and I smile. He says, "So how do you like it here?" I reply with something kinda non chalante as I ring him through. He asks me to do the same thing that I had trouble with the first time I saw him, I must have looked kinda confused because he proceeds to say "I think you just have to use the numbers and return it then do the same to put it back on my order." He was right, and I thank him. He then starts talking about the weather, comparing it to where he grew up (I had said I was from a certain province and he was too, and he told me his exact city), listening intently as I gripe about our winter here this year, he said he likes snowmobiling. He stood there for a good 1-2 mins after he was rung through, talking, even though there was people behind him and I was the only staff out front. I didn't hear his parting comment as I was already helping the next person in line... but does it seem like he is just very friendly or flirting? He was quite attractive and around my age; but I always find it hard to tell if guys like that are overly confident in themselves and always flirt or if it's true interest. The fact that he continually asked me questions, remembered how long I'd been there and remembered what I had had trouble with before left me wondering... what kind of guy remembers all that ...?I hope someone can shed some light on things for me.thanks in advance :)
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reader, JazzedUp  +, writes (29 February 2012):
 I think you should try talking to him. If I liked a girl who seems as open and polite as you, I would definitely try and make conversation and return to see you. Many girls confuse attraction with overconfidence in guys, and I do admit that it is easy to confuse. I believe that you should try and return his advances, perhaps not strongly at first, but enough to let him know you feel some mutual attraction to him and let it go from there. That will make him keep coming back and staying longer and talking about you instead of the weather lol. I hope this helps, you seem like a very nice young lady and I hope you find the attraction in this guy you are seeking. =)
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