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Archived questions from: October, 2015 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Decided to take a break from each other. Will he think it's a permanent thing by April?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - Okay, firstly we've only been broken up a few hours so this question is more of a future problem solving one. We broke up because life schedules mean we never see each other. I literally have work 7 days a week and it clashes with his days off so ...

What can I do? I just can't handle watching her love someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - my ex-best friend / ex-lover and i had a very complicated 7 year bisexual relationship. I was her shameful secret and i always felt rejected, used and humiliated. she treated me bad and always flaunted different relationships she had with others ...

The question is, should I tell the lady how I feel after we've had 5 months apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

31 October 2015 (M) - The question is, should I tell the lady how I feel after we've had 5 months apart? All night having a good time with everyone, celebrating my ex's PhD which she achieved today. (ABC) ABC says things that stay with me "I missed my chance" - "This was ...

No contact since our breakup. Could we date again? And what does kissing on the ear mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Hi I had a boyfriend who kissed my ear the first time he kissed me. He was so concentrated on my right ear with his tongue participating mostly. We broke up after i found out he had a girlfriend somewhere else and was dating us both. Though he doe...

How do I cope with their arguing and nasty comments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - I have just had a massive argument with my ex and his wife and I don't know what to do. I split up with him nearly 5 years ago and we have two children together. We share custody and after they have been to see him I pick them up from a child min...

He wants our son to meet his new girlfriend. But he's imposing restrictions on our son's contact with my boyfriend. How can I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, ive got a question what would you do in this situation. I was with my ex for five years, we had a child together. We got back together but in this time I didn't realise he had met someone else. He had moved away and would...

Do I tell my LDR what happened (a date and a kiss) during the period we were apart? Or not mention it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi aunts. In a LDR of nearly a year Had some difficulties, especially of late, leading to us splitting up a few weeks back. I went on a couple of dates with an old friend, ended up kissing him. Spent the evening thinking of my man. Have told t...

My ex and I are back in touch. Will getting back with my ex work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, So, I split with my ex 7 years ago. We'd been together 6 years, not living together or anything but still spending a lot of time together whilst raising my son from a previous marriage as well as his two young sons. We spli...

Why now? Was it an excuse? Will we resume? He has said we need to take a break to focus on our children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - I am in love with a man, who loves me. I have 3 kids and didn't want him to get involved too closely with them so I made sure we started slowly. He has 2 children as well but from different partners (A little niggle). My question is he has sai...

After a six year relationship, how do I get over this breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

28 October 2015 (M) - I posted something a while back regarding my long time girlfriend wanting to "move on" so to speak. When we first met she was getting out of marriage, separated, and filed for divorce. Since we started out as lovers, our relationship never followed ...

Will I ever love a man again as much as I loved my first Bf?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - I just broke up w/my 1st "real" boyfriend for whom I wanted to give the world to, I eventually found out he didn't care for me that much (he told me how much he loved, but I could feel in my gut he wasn't that in love), so knowing this would tear me ...

I am afraid I will never be my own man if I stay at this job

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

27 October 2015 (M) - So here I'm finished with college , single , and thinking of leaving my job. It all started after she left me (and yes i get how stupid this is) she was with me for so long I "changed" because of her and now she's gone; my parents and closest ...

Do I continue on and hope he will grow up? Or is it time to end our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - I feel stupid even writing this. I have been with my partner for over 5 and half years. I have a child from a previous relationship. My child is 10. I do love my partner but he is so immature. He is 32, i am 31. I feel like i behave more like...

I am comparing every man to my ex. How can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - About seven months ago, my boyfriend of three years broke up with me completely out of the blue. There were no warning signs whatsoever so it really rocked me. We had been living together for two years and were about to move into a new house and he ...

Is there hope for us? Or, is she wanting a clean cut?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

26 October 2015 (M) - Hi. I hope that my question isn't too vague. I have been in a long-distance relationship for a few years. Though I never met the girl in person, I know she's for real, as we had quite a few webcam dates, and it was magical. However, she recentl...

Do I stand a chance of winning my ex back? if so, how do I win her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

26 October 2015 (M) - Me and my ex girlfriend broke up last year November few days after my birthday. Though the relationship lasted for just only one month but I must tell you that has been my best relationship so far. I felt love for the very first time and am sure ...

Verbally abused and hurt and confused and now he won't take my phone calls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3313 days ago

25 October 2015 (F) - hurt and confused,I been verbally abuse by my man sam,accused of everthing,Sam start argument and move out for two weeks,i secretly voice record him,what I heard sound like he was snorting meth or coke, when I ask him,he said he sick of this ...

I'm stuck on an ex..how do I get over it and realize we are over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Hi. I have been going through this since long and I just don't know what to do about it. I dated a guy for 5 years. He was my first love, first kiss, first everything. . We were really close, made each other so happy and had an amazing connection. I ...

How do I get this guy to listen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

23 October 2015 (F) - More guy troubles/ rant! Let's call his guy M. M and I have been seeing each other for a while now. For a while now, I've been feeling like I'm nothing but a booty call to him. I just want to hang out with him and everytime he initiates sex. Don't ...

We bicker so much. Breaking up is proving hard to do. How do I proceed from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

22 October 2015 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. About 3 months ago we decided to move out together, however we moved to a different town, not too far from home, maybe about 2 hours. At first I was happy and enjoying the new change, but within ...

My ex's new girlfriend is out to get me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

22 October 2015 (F) - Since my ex split up with me back in March and went straight with another woman, this girl has done nothing but try and wind me up. Ive let them get on with things, I never publicly slated her or tried to split them up even though on this inside I ...

I caught my girlfriend lying twice about where she spent the night

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

20 October 2015 (M) - Hello everyone, so i am currently on a break with my gf because she lied to me twice in a row. However, with all this halloweens parties coming up that we had planned to go together it seems like added pressure to end the break faster. What ha...

Why did my ex give up on me? Why does he do things with his fiance that he refused to do with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

20 October 2015 (F) - We dated for three years. He went through some tough times and I was always by his side, helping him and never leaving him. We went through a bad patch, argued every day. He said we needed a short break. He said he will always love me and be there...

Advice and Help or shall I give up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

19 October 2015 (M) - have recently separated from My wife and I did not want this she did. Due to a number of issues. Which are 1.A family member causing a Rift and I was not there for her properly during the 1st pregnancy 2. Me making silly mistakes 3. Not...

Opened up to him about my vulnerabilities about having sex and now he says he might leave me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - Hi! I have been here before but it was now some time ago. I met a very nice man about 2 years ago and things went fine for quite some time but then I started not wanting to have sex, even feeling very bad about having it. This had happened in ...

We went from 7 years of friendship to a very difficult relationship! Now he's blocked me, it hurts so much! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - I have been in this is relationship for close to 12 months now. He has been my colleague (and still is) and was my good friend for 7 years. There were various cues in his behaviour evidencing a romantic interest in me which i over looked ( i never ...

I broke up with her and have some regrets.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

17 October 2015 (M) - I will try to make this short. I am 28 years old and recently got out of 5 years serious LTR(lived in together for 5 years). Problem is I was never very much in love with her to start with. I deeply cared about her but never felt that attraction ...

How should I deal with this ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3325 days ago

14 October 2015 (F) - This one is a bit complicated, so I would call my recent ex Number 1 and the ex whom I am with now (my present bf) to be Number 2. Number 1 and me dated for a month and then were together in a relationship (quite intense, definitely non-Plat...

He hurt me so much, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

14 October 2015 (F) - Hi All, I need help.. Last June, I was dumped by a guy I thought was the one. By a guy I loved truly with my whole heart. He dumped me a month before our holiday to meet his family. It was a heart wrenching time in my life. Still, due to the fa...

My parents are splitting up and I need help to work out the best options for celebrating Christmas and where?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

14 October 2015 (F) - Hi, sorry if this seems a really petty comment.. So last December (2014) when I was in my final year of University my parents told me they were selling the house. When I asked where they were moving to, they told me separate places. That was...

Do I sacrifice the dream of an amazing connection with someone that may never happen or do I stay knowing that will never happen with my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

14 October 2015 (F) - I have been married 20 years and am feeling totally conflicted qs to whether to stay or go out into the world on my own now our Holden are grown My husband is a good man and we get on well. We also have sex that is ok but I would t call it passiona...

How do I walk away from my vicious boyfriend and stop myself from communicating with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I've asked a few questions on here lately because I'm in kind of a messed up relationship but today I know I have to walk away from it. Two years ago I was raped and my boyfriend was totally unsupportive. After he brought me home from the police ...

I'm falling for my boyfriend so why why why am I feeling like this about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - Thiz is a very stupid question but how can I stop feeling bad for dumping my ex? I'm in a great relationship now but I just imagine how bad he's feeling and get upset. He was trying not to cry when we broke up and so was I! We were on and off for ...

Finding another place to live before I tell him the marriage is over seems sensible but also cruel and underhanded. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I am planning on leaving my husband but unsure how to go about it. It was a semi arranged marriage and I have been miserable pretty much since we went through with it, I am miserable and see no future with him. Having said this, he is a kind goo...

I'm heartbroken over my married man!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3324 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - I have been having an affair with a married coworker for two years...the feelings are strong and even though we knew it was wrong we always kept going back to each other. I found out last month from a mutual friend that his plan to adopt a baby ...

Should I just tell her I think I'm straight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

13 October 2015 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a couple of months. Not long but she loves me (im a girl too) Ive only ever been with men but i really liked her when i got to know her but now im thinking that i just need to be with a man i think i...

What's the best way out of this situation? I feel like my kind husband doesn't deserve this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

11 October 2015 (F) - Ok so before I go into my problem I want to start by saying that it's all my fault, I've been selfish and now deeply regretting my decision. I'm a terrible person and I need to know the best way out of my situation. I grew up living in a tiny 2 bed...

I hate hearing about how happy they are in the bedroom! What do I do to get over this hurt and jealousy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

9 October 2015 (F) - What can I do? I hate hearing about their sex lives and I'm hurt enough! How do I stop thinking about my ex and his new woman? My ex boyfriend was very sexual - sex obsessed I would say. I didn't date him for long as he wanted to move too quic...

Is there hope of reconciliation, or is she just trying to soften the blow?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

8 October 2015 (M) - Hello. I have a question in regards to relationship reconciliation. I was recently put on break with someone I really do love and cherish. This girl, who will be referred to as Jane, told me that it hurt her to know I was hurt. Now, a mutual fr...

I just found out my girlfriend of almost two years is MARRIED! Now what?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

8 October 2015 (M) - Hey Aunts! I have been dating this wonderful younger woman for almost two years now. She is smart, ambitious, and beautiful and she is 10 years my junior. Our sex life has been amazing, but it was troubling in one way. She always pushed for o...

Why would he lead me on to think we would have a future together and yet now he's seeing one of my friends? I'm heartbroken

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

8 October 2015 (F) - Hey, can someone help me make sense of this? I'm heartbroken. I was meant to meet a guy out travelling really soon. He went out a few months back for a year and I was going to go meet him once I'd saved enough money. We have a lot of history ...

We never have sex and now another guy is interested in me! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

6 October 2015 (F) - In a bit of a dilema! i currently have a boyfriend and hes lovely hes sweet thoughtful and really in love with me, the only thing is we barely ever have sex, ive repeatidly told him about this and yeah yeah ill change i havnt brought it up for ...

I'm frustrated, hopeful and yearning for more! Help? Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

6 October 2015 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 46 year old gay male. I've developed a relationship with a 20 year old straight male (friends only) that lives across the street,that seems to be heading into a more than friends relationship. I've had a huge crush on him from the...

Do new couples usually have so many fall outs?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

6 October 2015 (F) - Is it normal for a new couple to split up and get back together on a regular basis? My ex can be quite controlling and self centred. He also can have a short fuse from time to time. I notice (from comments on social media and friends etc) tha...

He doesn't want to hurt the feelings of his ex?? Is that a poor excuse to give to the new Gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

6 October 2015 (F) - This is the scenario: Guy breaks up with his girlfriend of a few years. They remain friends. They start hanging out and talking on the phone as soon as a few weeks after break up. A few months later, he dates someone new. A new girl he appears ...

He feels there is no spark and he just wants to be alone to find himself. How should I act towards him? Has he moved on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - Hey everyone! I hope you could put some light into my situation. I started dating my coworker at work, in the beginning it was all perfect, i felt pursued he was so charming and really swept me off my feet. We went on many dates together and spen...

Dating a month, was I a rebound?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - This post is going to be a bit long, apologies for that. My boyfriend and I were good and it's been just a month together. Out of the blue, he texted me this morning that "Don't mean to be hard on you but I am not sure about this relationship. I ...

Question for men: is it really difficult to leave your wife if you've been having an affair? Or am I right - is he just offering me excuses?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - I have done the unthinkable for the last 8 years of my life. Please don't hammer me. I have been dating married man. No kids. He's much older than me and at first I was just having fun but it turned into love. He's taken me on many trips an...

He stopped texting me. Why? We did break up, recently, but we did keep on texting each other.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - He hasn't texted me :( So my ex boyfriend and I recently began talking. We talked great and had basic conversations. Before we broke up we would tell each other "i love you" but since we broke up I don't feel comfortable telling him that again. ...

I'm missing my ex although he was never the guy that would make me happy!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - I feel like my heart is falling apart. I broke up w/my ex a week ago. I was the one who ended it, I am extremely broken. I wanted so bad for the relationship to work. When I started having doubts I approached him in a mature manner and he accused me ...