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writes:I feel stupid even writing this.I have been with my partner for over 5 and half years. I have a child from a previous relationship. My child is 10.I do love my partner but he is so immature. He is 32, i am 31. I feel like i behave more like his mother than his partner. I can see no sign of him proposing, and he can't seem to save any money in order for us to buy a house together. I have been saving throughout our relationship. Do i continue on and hope he will grow up - or do i end this now so i can have a relationship with someone that wants a future with me. I know it's stupid - i love him but i am really annoyed that at this stage we are not engaged or planning a life together. I am totally fed up - and yes i have discussed this with him but it always ends up in me getting upset as his answer is always - i have no money, i do want a future and i promise next year will be different. I'm just fed up!
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (27 October 2015):
You have ONE CHILD and a second child aged 32.NO he is not going to change-You deserve a mature man in your life and to feel loved as a woman.DONT waste any more Time.Move on and find that special love .Best wishes NORA B,
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (27 October 2015):
 He is who is he.
You can hope that he will grow up ALL you want, but if you LOOK at it realistically you ALREADY know that he isn't going to change. He isn't GOING to be the MAN you want him to be. Instead THIS is the guy you got. This immature guy. The man-child.
If he isn't sure about you two after 5 1/2 years, it's not going to happen.
So you have to decide... Do you want to be a mother of 2 (a 10 year old and a 32 year old) ? OR what DO you really want?
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