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writes:My girlfriend and I have been together for a couple of months. Not long but she loves me (im a girl too)Ive only ever been with men but i really liked her when i got to know her but now im thinking that i just need to be with a mani think im completely straight. But she really loves me and i do enjoy the company she provides....should i just tell her how i feel? she will be so sad - but i can't help my sexuality. I feel like ive led her on. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2015): What would you want to happen if you were her? Simple. Tell her that its not going to work out and you need to break up that you thinks she's a great girl but it's not working for you that you are more straight then you thought.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2015): Tell her in person not over text or call.
Be 100% honest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2015): Be honest, do not lead her on any further. You say she loves you, be gentle. Has she been too strong with you? Why do you feel you 'need a man', is she unable to give you what you need?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (13 October 2015):
 Well sexuality is not something that you can "wish" and "poof" it changes. You have found out that you think you are straight, so if you keep seeing her, you ARE leading her on. But at the time you met you weren't sure. Could be that you were a little bi-curious (by the way a bi-curious person isn't always Bi-sexual) but you have come to realize that you are not on the fence with your sexuality.
So tell her the truth. Own your actions.
Breaking up with someone is always hard, no matter their gender.
Chin up, and get it done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2015): Tell her exactly how you feel. You're worried about making her sad; while you're pretending to be someone you're not?
How are you protecting her feelings by leading her on?
Tell her the truth, and let her handle it like an adult.
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