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41-50,
*ixieGwen
writes:My ex and I broke up over a week ago. We're still attracted to each other - obviously and our break up had no real reason/ I think he just felt overly stressed w/ everything his life but neither of us were happy bout the breakup. We've been talking this whole time *friendly manner*.(in our relationship I was like a sex bunny* We had sex daily.. sometimes upto 4 times). Near our breakup he said "seems sex is all you care about" i told him thats def not true. I really enjoy intimacy/closeness.. and we did other things besides sexual stuff. Overall I enjoy his company and his humour* he knows this*. He's a great guy. I DO miss the intimacy and the last time I saw him we had an incredibly passionate kiss *after our breakup*.Today mentioned that "maybe we could come to a compromise - no sex but there are ways around it. Wouldnt want you to explode:) ".(I'm supposed 2 see him tomorrow for hanging out and a movie.)I mean without any intimacy - feelings can be involved or it could just be pure sexual awesomeness lol. I also dont like the idea of having sex without just anybody. Why wont he have sex with me. Why fool around/possible foreplay.. but no sex?
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reader, PixieGwen +, writes (21 July 2009):
PixieGwen is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeah i know too much can be overkill & would love to just spend time w/ him and get to know him better.I just have all this damn sexual energy.I just want to have sex w/ him occassionally lol not daily.Im glad he still seems interested in me sexually.Pleasing myself doesnt work as well as having a partner.He said that I was killing him *he'd jokingly say it* but was surprised that my sex drive was higher than his..cos his is pretty high.As for orgasms (w/ him)- I always have them...sometimes multiple.By myself..yeah for the most part.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 It sounds like you have really exhausted him. You seem to have a very high sex drive. Can you not find ways of pleasing yourself. Four times a day is quite a lot regardless of what age you are. Too much candy does make you sick.
You are right to stop for a while. You bioth clearly stil like each other. Get to know each other in other ways. Spend more time doing things together.
Just a final thought - do yo have an orgasm when you have sex. Sometimes this is way you always feel horny as you were not satisfied.
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