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writes:I'm been seeing this married man about a year now. I just don't understand how he can sleep with me and then turn around and sleep with her. i think the best thing is to stop this relationship but not sure how. Does anyone have any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): i know you are baffled that he is still sleeping with his wife but this is what married people do - they have sex with each other. the life os the other woman is indeed a pathetic one, therefore you are questioning yourself. you know what you need to do, you just need the courage or push to do it. if you are satisfied just being his second best and waiting around for the crumbs then you know what is in store for you. i think you may have read somewhere on this site- someone said, if they don't leave their wives within 3 months of your affair starting, they aint never gonna leave. you know the score, now decide.plain and simple. if you want more from life and think you deserve better there is a way out. honeypie is right. you can end it and she has advised how. now it is up to you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 July 2009):
 How hard can it be? Call him and tell him it's over. Tell him you want 1 thing from him NO CONTACT! Then keep that. Don't call him, text or email. Block his number and move on.
Yes I'm sure 99% of married men who cheats have sex with their wives. That is pretty normal. Having sex with your spouse.
then move on, stay away from married men unless you like to share...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): Umm...not to be rude, but "newsflash": she's his WIFE: he's supposed to sleep with her. The person he's not supposed to be sleeping with is YOU. The best way to end it, is simply that: end it! Tell him you're through, forget his number & move on, this is not rocket science. The same way you would get out of a relationship with anyone else is the same way to get out of it with him! The only thing is you have to SERIOUSLY WANT to end it with him, cause if the only reason you want to leave is the "sex with his wife" thing, then you may just go back to him. Are there any other reasons? Do you feel bad about being with a married man? Do you know it's wrong? Are you tired of being the other woman? You have to have some other reasons besides the sex thing. Cause he can use that against you, tell you he'll stop being with his wife(even though it'd be lie) & you get back with him.
Make sure you're ready to call it off cause like you said "IT IS THE BEST THING"!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): ok umm i think that you should break off the relationship because he obviously wants you for lust not love. if he sleeps with you, then goes and sleeps with her then you should really leave him. the best thing i can tell you is just tell him exactly how you feel and see where it leads from there. if you didn't like this advice, oh well because i'm only 15 and i don't have much expierence =]
good luck
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