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Archived questions from: November, 2018 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I was sent nasty emails, how do I cope ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2174 days ago

28 November 2018 (F) - MOD NOTE: There are no "experts" just nice people that volunteer their thoughts and help. I have a question I would rather discuss privately. I have received two very nasty emails from people I once knew. I have sought solicitors advice and I'm ...

I'm lonely and need friends but I am worried that at my age the only friends I may make now will be "messed up" people.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2174 days ago

27 November 2018 (F) - I am nearly 50 and I am often lonely. I'm a 'high achiever' I suppose. Very highly educated, employed, fairly healthy but very low energy and a history of depression (which I've never told anyone about, but tended to hide, fearing rejection). I ha...

What's the optimum compromising point in a relationship? How do I balance boundaries and insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2189 days ago

26 November 2018 (F) - I'm doing a lot of soul searching, so I'll probably be on here a lot asking questions that to every one else sound like common sense. Please bare with me, I'm a lost person. How to i know the difference between being irrational or having m...

"Hello my friend" Who would you send that text to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2189 days ago

26 November 2018 (F) - Who would be the type of person you would send a text to starting with the words 'Hello my friend'. Would you send it to an old friend, a general acquaintance, a customer or another person....

I had to work in a different work area and everyone was so rude. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2189 days ago

26 November 2018 (F) - Yesterday I had to work in another area at work (just yesterday) due to their understaffing. Not 1 person but the in charge introduced themself, or said hello. why so rude? If I had a different person in my area for one day I’d always introduce...

What is going on with my psychotherapist? Is he interested in me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2116 days ago

22 November 2018 (F) - In the recent past, my therapist had said something to me that made me feel uncomfortable as well as uncertain about how he feels towards me. He has stated that I've always been his favorite client after I had told him that I liked him as a ...

New job but ridiculous ongoing hoops. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

22 November 2018 (F) - So I just started a new job a week ago. I was told my background check wasn’t completely back yet, but to go ahead and start on my scheduled date. Today, I’m called into HR and told that there was a date discrepancy with an employer from 4 years ag...

Is he interested in sex? Companionship? What?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

21 November 2018 (F) - I’m utterly confused and would love your help. A man I’ve known for years has been texting me with cryptic messages. We live in different states. He asked me to visit him. I laughed it off. But he asked again and nowI know he’s serious. He teases ...

My boyfriend's best friend doesn't like me and is trying hard to get him away from me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2196 days ago

21 November 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for around six months. I have a 16 month old son so things have gotten pretty serious between the pair of us. The relationship is great and he’s going to propose at Christmas. However his best friend never li...

Should I resign from my job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

20 November 2018 (M) - I work at a factory where machinery is etc. I’m aware of health and safety and what the does and do nots are. always let someone know I’m passing through. someone grassed on me at work which I wasn’t happy about and had a meeting with an assistant ...

Did my date make up this fake story just to get a reaction out of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

20 November 2018 (F) - ive got a date lined up for this weekend. The guy i have been speaking to seems nice and not fake. Weve seen each others social media and have spoken on the phone. Today he texted me with a very strange message. He said last night he got a call off ...

Waiting to hear outcomes of interview - too soon to follow up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2197 days ago

19 November 2018 (F) - Hi all I attended an interview for executive assistant on Monday which went really well. I was told a member of the panel was on leave straight afterwards until Friday so I would hear back then. It's now Monday and I haven't heard anything. ...

Why is the state taking so long to give my child what is due to him from his absent father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2199 days ago

18 November 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid I am a single parent and I have been fighting for childsupport for many years finally I am receiving it. But my children are grown the oldest passed away natural causes and I have a son he is grown. Their dad finally got caught after many ...

Should I pursue a different career?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2197 days ago

18 November 2018 (F) - I’ve been teaching in a public school for 6 years. While I adore the children and love making a difference in my community, I think I’m starting to get burnt out. I live in a high rent city but teach in a state that was recently ranked one of th...

How can I stop being so negative and worrying all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2197 days ago

16 November 2018 (F) - How can I learn to appreciate and be happy? I suffer from mental illness - I have been diagnosed with OCD and depressive episodes and overly just anxious. Although I have these obstacles it really is my negativity that is getting in the way and I ...

I've lost the people in my family that I was closest to and I'm depressed, anxious and low

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2198 days ago

16 November 2018 (F) - Over the last 12 months I haven’t been feeling myself. I lost my grandad 7 years ago, my mother 4 years ago and my grandmother almost a year ago. They played a significant part in my childhood, obviously, as my mother raised myself and my sister o...

My LDR knows all about me while I know very little about him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2203 days ago

14 November 2018 (F) - Hi! In need of some opinions on my long distance relationship. I'll give you the backstory: We've been together for almost a year now, meeting on a dating app but didn't date right away. At the time we were matched, I learned that he was just in the ...

I need to tell my family that I was duped!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2203 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - Hi All. Please bear with as this is quite complicated. So I’m 30 years old, had a few relationships before my current one. This time i thought it was never going to end. We have been living together for 4 years. He is of a different race religi...

Baby daddy is secure financially but I love a poor refugee.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2203 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - I am in a relationship with the father of my daughter and I live with someone else ...my baby daddy is okay ...he can provide ...he loves me very much ...and his financially doing fairly ...the guy I love with is a refugee and broke...but we love ...

She lied, is this a red flag or is it too early in the relationship for me too care.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2202 days ago

13 November 2018 (M) - I went on a date with a girl, it was great and we've been chatting a lot since. She asked to meet me again in a few days. The first date was friday. The second date will be the following tuesday. However, i have found out she has lied to me about...

Am I still a virgin after finger sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2202 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - i had figer sex with my guy for some week, he only used one of his figer, i did not see any blood when he was doing it, but have stop it i want to no if am stil a vigin becos i have never had opposit sex with him. thanks ...

My husband has had numerous affairs and somehow it's all my fault! Will he ever accept me and make me feel good about myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2203 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - I am the most pathetic person I have been married for 28 years. When we met we lived a long way from each other and eventually I moved 250 miles to where he lived. At the time this was because his job was better paid than mine but I now realise ...

Should I go back, I just miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2203 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year nearby and I've been apart from him for a year in a long distance relationship since I've been away from him I can't think straight I just miss him and think of him everyday I've never really felt like this and ...

He's extremely possessive and mentally abusive but I still love him. Advice please!!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2187 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - Hi. I am new to this so very nervous. I really need some advice about my partner. I have been with him for just over a year and I feel like I can't do anything right. He mentally abuses me constantly..well this is what I'm guessing it is?! He will ...

I'm married and in (unrequited) love with someone else for years. How can I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2201 days ago

12 November 2018 (M) - Hello aunts. I am almost 35 and married, but deeply in love with someone else who does not feel the same way about me. For the long story, please read below. Year 1: A few years ago, halfway through a master’s degree, I had to quit school and ...

I don’t know if I should date my coworker!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2205 days ago

11 November 2018 (F) - UI think I know the answer to this, but I’m looking for someone to confirm that I’m doing the right thing. I’ve been in my current job for a year, and have sat right next to a man who is around my age. He’s not my normal type physically, but ...

A month in, I hate my new career!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2201 days ago

11 November 2018 (F) - Dear cupid, Not really a relationship question, more a career related. Hi I’m nearly 30 years old and have been working self employed/contracting to employers in the construction field since I finished school. I have always liked my job but it’...

I've got a crush on the check out chck!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2206 days ago

11 November 2018 (M) - Over the last couple of months i have been getting very friendly with a girl who works on the checkout at my local supermarket. We chat a lot and share lots of eye contact, and when i am walking away with my trolley after paying i look back and she ...

Worst mistake of my life!! Don’t know what to do

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2190 days ago

11 November 2018 (F) - I’m in the worst situation I could ever be in in my life I’ve made the biggest mistake ever and now I don’t know what to do I am suffering badly! I am 14 weeks pregnant but ended up cheating the night before I found out I was pregnant I know how bad ...

I'm not in lov with him but scared of his reaction if I tell him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2206 days ago

11 November 2018 (F) - How do you break up with someone your not in love with without hurting them?I think my new boyfriend is obsessed with me and something just doesn't feel right. About a year ago I had a hurtful breakup with my ex boyfriend of 3 years who I deep...

My girlfriend is perfect, but I want an open relationship.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2188 days ago

11 November 2018 (M) - Hi people. I met my current girlfriend a little over two years ago and I was not the social type back then. I never really went out a lot and hanging out with friends was pretty much 'indoor'. After I met her I became very outgoing. We went t...

My head is everywhere and I can't make a decision.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2206 days ago

10 November 2018 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 16 months and he left to go Australia in Feb this year, I knew from the start that that was his plans and I was fine with it and both decided to keep things the same way knowing with it being a long distance ...

Should I be strong and not burden people with my problems?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2206 days ago

10 November 2018 (F) - I'm really upset but wondering if I have every right to be or if my boyfriend was spot on and I need to get a grip. I have two children with my ex, we were together 8 years but then he cheated with his now wife. They got married within months of...

Sometimes I feel lost about who I am.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2207 days ago

9 November 2018 (F) - Hi All, Might sound like a silly issue raised, but I have a problem trying to have self belief sometimes. I feel I have come from a relatively tough background (in comparison to most people around me) divorced immature parents, a mother with a pe...

I'm 20 yet my parents don't want me to date.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2207 days ago

9 November 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, this might get quite lengthy as there are back stories to the issues. Bear with me! First of all, I’m 20 years old in my 2nd year of university and I come from a Chinese family. And yes, the typical stereotypes of asian households...

I cheated, fell pregnant, boyfriend left, I believe its his baby.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2206 days ago

9 November 2018 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend and I found out I was pregnant in a month time. When I told my boyfriend about it he told me to give birth but after he will have a DNA test. I had to tell him the truth that I cheated on him.he then said he is not ...

She seems open but what if she is telling me lies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2205 days ago

9 November 2018 (M) - Been single now for about 5 months after a long term relationship, and met someone a few weeks ago that i hit it off with, it happend very randomly and out of the blue. being careful, or at least trying to be ive had my guard up. but it feels right ...

I'm sick of this man being a ghost in our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2208 days ago

8 November 2018 (M) - Early this year my girlfriend did an internship in another city. I was too busy to visit and she didn't have much time either, so she only travelled back here a couple of times. I missed her and was looking forward to her getting back. Then she ...

My boyfriend doesn't want children, my mother is heartbroken.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2207 days ago

8 November 2018 (F) - I met my boyfriend 1 year ago. He is 40 and I am 30. He told me about 3 months into the relationship that he does not want to have any children. I am confused because I am not sure if I want to have any. I know that my current circumstances will not ...

My ex girlfriend wants to be reimbursed for gifts she gave me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

7 November 2018 (M) - I have recently broke up with my girlfriend after nine months together, a couple of weeks before we separated she bought me a present but now we're not together she's asking me to give her back the money she spent on that present, I don't think ...

I'm vegetarian, he's not. How can we compromise better?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2208 days ago

7 November 2018 (F) - I've been vegetarian for 4 years, since before I met my boyfriend. He's a big meat eater, and I honestly don't mind what he eats. I've never tried to convert him. We've found some common ground - we cook a couple of great vegetarian dishes together ...

We are on a break but working on our relationship ... he doesn't understand how his actions affected me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

7 November 2018 (F) - 7 months ago, my ex and I broke up, mutually. Our relationship was long-term. A few days after our breakup I accidentally read a conversation in his facebook account between him and a female friend. The conversation was very intimate, and almost ...

She loves me but has a LDR boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

7 November 2018 (M) - A girl has a boyfriend but she loves me. Her boyfriend lives far than Im living close to me. We had sex several times and we both promise to get married but she is yet break up with him? I need some advice.....

Should I confess I'm gay, would it get him in trouble?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

4 November 2018 (M) - I've been online friends with another guy who lives in the UAE that I am 90 percent sure has feelings for me, and while I feel the same way I am unsure if he would get into any type of trouble if I were to confess my feelings for him and he were to ...

Does this mean he likes me, or am I friend zoned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

4 November 2018 (F) - Might be a bit young, but I’m a freshman who likes a sophomore. Now last year he started giving me hugs when ever I’m about to leave, same this year. (Extra information: Our school is small, so I see him often the the hallways or after school.) I’m ...

This friend intimidates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2212 days ago

2 November 2018 (F) - I have been friends with someone for about 9 years now , in the years ive been friends with her , I always enjoy being with her ,she makes me smile , I look forward to seeing her , enjoy her company , we get along really well , have the same sense ...

How can I deal with racism/ignorance in the workplace and in personal life ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2212 days ago

1 November 2018 (F) - I am a white southwestern european woman that has been in this country for almost all my life - I wasn’t born here but I am very Americanized and do not relate to my cultural upbringings (Balkan peninsula area) - I did all my education in the states ...