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Archived questions from: July, 2017 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Was substitute dad trying too hard or did he overstep the mark?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

31 July 2017 (F) - So my ? is Can substitute dad put down ground rules on date night when i am 19 and will not graduate high school until January. My father is no longer living with us-Due to my dads meanness we have never been close. anyways, my step mom is now ...

I'm straight so why do gay women always hit on me? Am I giving off some kind of vibes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

28 July 2017 (F) - now a lot of women hit on me...why I don't know, I am straight....anyway here's my issue so i needed 2 use another coworkers comp so I found one which was unfortunately by my freaky coworker and she just said 2 me, so you are going be my cute desk ...

I'm dating a guy who's rather pushy and doesn't want to compromise on even the smallest of things

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

28 July 2017 (F) - There's this guy I have been dating and he is overall wonderful. However, he's done things here and there that has shown me that maybe he can't really compromise. Once, we went dancing at a restaurant with a live band. We had a great time had s...

Does she want space or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

27 July 2017 (M) - Six months ago I re-established contact with a girl who I had a thing for when we were young. She is in a relationship but unhappy. I was coming out of a break-up and she was a pillar of support for me when I needed it most. We'd text each other ...

My friend just featured in my dream and I wonder if that means anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2713 days ago

25 July 2017 (F) - Hi! So I once had a dream about watching sunset in the middle of the sea (it's really weird but all my dreams are like that) with a guy but he had no face, and in my dream I think we are in a relationship (because we are doing sweet acts with each ...

Which expression is more of a compliment?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2713 days ago

24 July 2017 (F) - I'm just wanting opinions on the difference between the terms of "amazing woman" - "awesome chicky" and "chicky babe". For example, is there certain levels of intimacy involved in calling a girl this when you are interested, if you are interested? ...

Is my boyfriend being wise and protecting himself? Or is there more to the story?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

24 July 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a very happy relationship, we spend a lot of our time together, we go out, stay in, and we have a lot of sex and we're very affectionate towards one another. We are in the process of selling our houses separately and buying ...

Why do these ladies not make eye contact when I am speaking to them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

22 July 2017 (M) - Hello, This is not really a relationship question as such, but something that can be a little annoying sometimes. Pretty much every time I am with another male friend or colleague, and I have a conversation with a female, whether she be a friend, ...

Why do men think its alright to comment on a woman's nether regions?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

22 July 2017 (F) - This is probably more of a rant than anything, but what is up with some men thinking it's ok to comment on the look of a woman's vagina/vulva?! Whether it's not neat enough, 'beef curtains', too hairy, it 'looks loose'... the list goes on! My m...

I'm feeling very low. Is it too much to ask to have what everyone else has?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2714 days ago

22 July 2017 (F) - I just wanted to preface what I'm about to say by just saying thank you for all the times you've listened to me bitch, which I do a lot. I know. It means so much to me that you've heard me out, more than you'll ever know. I'm sorry I complain so ...

How do I appraoch being a step-father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

21 July 2017 (M) - Hi There is this girl which we have a lot in common with...she is single mother to 4yr old girl but her dad has nothing to do with them from day she was born. What're your thoughts about being a step dad? I don't have kids of my own either, ...

I'm ready to walk, am I just being used as a babysitter?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2716 days ago

20 July 2017 (M) - hey, my partner sits on her phone all day does the odd chore round the house i mean when one of the babies does a dirty nappy she doesnt get down to cleaning it up she tells me babies pood so i end up doing it and been like that for years im a stay ...

I'm lost in feelings about my cousin. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

20 July 2017 (M) - Well as my title states I'm lost on my feelings about my cousin. It first started out when we were kids and we were both very close. Then we both learned out sex. We experimented quite a bit. To tell you the truth it made us even closer. From there ...

I like him but scared I wil lose the friendship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

19 July 2017 (F) - Hi, so, I'm a 14y/o female. So I go to karate and there's this guy (14 too) who I get along with really well. I kinda think I have a crush on him. I end up thinking about him randomly and whenever I go anywhere I always hope I could see him ...

I'm stuck and not sure what to do about my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

17 July 2017 (M) - struggling with my own business I've always lived with the head frame of going after what you want... I wanted to be a singer songwriter.... I got near places then my grandad died and I had another vision.... owning a business and living the s...

Is there anything in this astrology thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

15 July 2017 (F) - Do any aunts and uncle believe in fortune teller? Are there any experience from aunts and uncle here? As a chinese, many of us believe in fortune teller and physic reading. But i was raised in an atheist family and not a believer of mystical thin...

What signs should I look for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

13 July 2017 (F) - Is it normal to look for signs that point to more than friendship? I've had this sort of thing going on with a guy I really like and we do lots of things and spend lots of time together, and there are lots of signs that it is something more but we ...

I'm very uncomfortable around my colleague who has made advances at me. Did I deal with him in the right way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

13 July 2017 (F) - An older male colleague made advances towards me in a (in my opinion) really creepy and passive aggressive way, half a year ago. I shut him down, almost got HR involved and we had a long frank discussion where I told him not to call me anymore, not ...

My boyfriend is a good guy but I'm not in love with him anymore. There's also a new man on the scene but he's in a relationship. I'm clueless about what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

13 July 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'm posting this here because I have always had good advice here before and I have no one I can speak to about this. I feel like such an awful person for what I am about to write but I can't go on keeping it in my head. It's ...

How do I go back to being who I was while at Korea? I'm stuck in a weird slump

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

13 July 2017 (M) - Okay, I am a 20 year old guy who just returned to my middle of nowhere hometown after the most amazing year abroad in Seoul, South Korea studying at a University that I've always dreamed of attending and it finished, AN incredible, what i thought to ...

Is this happening too quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

12 July 2017 (F) - Preface: So, 11 weeks ago I posted a question on this website to seek help with an (almost) four-year-old relationship. Two wise people gave me the advice to end the relationship - advice I ignored until about a month ago when I finally made the...

Should I take the risk for Mr Perfect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2726 days ago

12 July 2017 (F) - I've never met a guy who is finally.... finally the guy of my dreams acquiring everything! I could ever ask for (looks, persona, charm, demeanor, intelligence etc). At first when he came to me I would always feel like the situation is too good to be ...

She still seems to want me. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2717 days ago

12 July 2017 (M) - Hello, I was in a relationship for ten years with a woman we will call Sally (not her real name). It was rocky from the start but we stuck together although we never lived together. She stood by me through a lot of personal trials and family d...

Indian wedding problem- I was happy with the guy that my parents had seen for me but now they say our horoscopes don't match!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2727 days ago

11 July 2017 (F) - Hi I met a guy arranged by my parents for matrimony.i ended up liking him a lot....everything was going on smoothly n we were about to plan our wedding but now my parents say that we can't go ahead because the horoscopes do not match and the ...

Are all men vain?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2727 days ago

11 July 2017 (F) - Are guys really vain? I'm an insecure female and I have from what most men say and ideal face and body and I get complimented a lot- I don't share a lot of myself with the men I've been because it takes time - they also have been really bad men- my ...

Will a guy wait for sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2684 days ago

10 July 2017 (F) - How long will men wait to have sex? I am 31 and I have had only two boyfriends - I suffer from obsessive compulsive disorder and it's hard for me to be intimate because I always fear catching diseases. I am always mostly been celibate because of ...

How can I get my emotional life in order?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

9 July 2017 (F) - How does one start believe the positive affirmations - for example I'm reading a lot of self help books that say speak to the universe And it will give it back - it's logical if I say I would like to be successful and calm - or I would like to be ab...

How to cope with abuse for mixed race relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

9 July 2017 (F) - Hello, I have been with my amazing boyfriend of 3 and a half years and we are more than happy. I am a black female and he is a white male and we constantly receive horrible comments and a few uncomfortable stares in restaurants, beaches, cinemas ...

Does love happen when u stop looking for it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

8 July 2017 (F) - Has anyone had bad luck left and right in dating - I feel like I'm at my end of trying that I just don't know if there is such a thing if the universe aligning u with someone - I've tried online- abstinence - a one night stand - a relationship and ...

Is it normal for eyes to wander in long term relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

8 July 2017 (M) - I have been with my gf 5 years now and over that time things have never been smooth sailing but lately and this is something I feel guilty about my eyes have begun to wonder i would love to say I would never cheat and I am 99% sure I wouldn't but I ...

I think he's been swapping explicit pics of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

7 July 2017 (F) - I need some advice and don't normally do this but I've been with this guy for nearly 2 years and had a gut feeling he's been up to somthing odd! I logged into his emails today and found messages between him and a random person on cragslist asking ...

Should I back of and give her time to deal with things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

7 July 2017 (M) - So for the past month or so I've been sleeping with this girl I know through mutual friends. We always have a lot of fun together when we hang out. She's just getting out of a seven year relationship and is currently in the process of moving out of ...

How can I deal with bad female bosses

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

7 July 2017 (F) - A year ago I was working for a large publicly held company - when they hired a senior manager and let go my original manager that hired me. As soon as she started working no more than two months in the job she started criticizing my work- micro ...

How do I deal with creepy older men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - I live in a small rich town where there are a LOT of people in their 50s and 60s, I'm here because it's cheaper and nicer than the nearby city. I'm a female student in my 20s. I get hit on regularly by older guys (I'm talking the ones in the 50s ...

I am much less experienced sexually and it bothers me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

6 July 2017 (M) - I am a lot less experienced sexually than my girlfriend. She has had atleast 13 past sexual partners aswell as a long term boyfriend. Unfortunately her efforts to try and be open and honest about her sexual past (which I respect her for) led to me ...

Online dating. He's not just chatting to me. Should I start chatting to others?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - Online dating. I've had both good and bad experiences doing this . I've been chatting with a guy for a couple of week and we are meeting in a few days for our first date . He's told me the lines how he's hoping i'm the one and what he hopes will h...

Nothing ever goes right in our relationship. Should I stay with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

6 July 2017 (F) - I have been with my partner for over 2 years and it just seems nothing EVER goes right in our relationship. There is no such thing as peaceful, pleasant times for us. It has never been like that, unfortunately. When we got together, instea...

Who do I help, the one who relies on me or myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2733 days ago

5 July 2017 (M) - I have a strained relationship with my girlfriend of five years. There's a lot of love and care there. She'll shower me with it, thank me and bless me. She has me on a pedestal and I shelter her from life. There's a lot of love but I feel trapped. ...

Is he cheating with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2733 days ago

5 July 2017 (F) - Is my partner cheating??????????? He says he needs 2 clear his head is he cheating with his ex and only talking 2 his daughter his smashed his phone up so no one can get hold off him but I think his stopping at his ex house cos he knows were not ...

She says he wants to groom me. What is that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2734 days ago

4 July 2017 (F) - What does it mean when a man is grooming a women? What is it he is grooming her for? Is this a form of manipulation if so then why? I was seeing n (and) (sic) talking lots to with a guy a really like and I left cause he beat his ex' others say. ...

Trivial Fights getting out of control

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2733 days ago

4 July 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have had our ups and downs. When it is good it is REALLY good. The passion is high. We share a lot and are similar in many ways. But we have had our share of down-at-the mouth fights. Somehow we ...

I am involved with a married woman.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

3 July 2017 (M) - So first off let’s just get the I’m an idiot, I’m a horrible person, I’m naïve, I need to grow up, and all that out of the way. I am an idiot for this and I didn’t want to let my emotions get involved but I let my guard down and now I’m lost. Ju...

She strung me along to cancel three times ...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2662 days ago

3 July 2017 (M) - Hello everyone, so about 2 years ago I was in a short film with an actress and we hit it off really well, great chemistry. There was a kissing scene but it wasn't awkward at all. She even suggested "practice kissing" during rehearsal. However, ...

I feel like I am a mistake and that everybody knows it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

2 July 2017 (M) - Am i stupid, or just living in the past. I am gay and i don't think i have ever said that before. i have always been scared and think of other peoples feelings rather then my own. I avoid social situations and even family stuff because everybody is ...

I'm keeping him at a distance so I wont fall in love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - Does everyone really maybe not know where things will go when you start hanging out with someone you like??? I mean right now of course we like each other and he says a connection is there he just dont know what it is yet.... So yea we had good ...

How can I stop living inside my head ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - I have been told that I have an obsessive personality by my doctor- I suffer from OCD but mostly obsessive thoughts- my worries don't go away - I worry about saying the wrong things in meetings when I'm silent all the way to thinking "what if I ...

My LDR girlfriend gets obsessive when I am with my family or friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

2 July 2017 (F) - So long story short ive been in this relationship and it started off perfectly fine until she got obsessively clingy. Everytime i go out with my parents/friends/family and I'm too busy to respond (I should include this is a long distance ...

Would you feel left out if your comments on social media were not commented on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

1 July 2017 (F) - Would you feel left out if work colleagues commented on on everyones social media posts but yours? Why/why not? I know it's stupid butsocial media is part of life now. Feel unwanted....