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writes:so i have been with this guy for 3 years and i love him so much. the thing is we havent been the same, he cheasted when we first started to date and ive forgave him for that but now i cant realy trust him, and on top of that last year i left him for 7months because he constantly abused me and threated me.... i came back because i really want things to work and this past week he told me that "he wasnt ready for a long term relationship and that he wanted to be single for awhile", so i packed up and left. i mean he helped me pack and move out he even went as far as driving me to my parents house.well today im watching his niece while he is at work and he's been telling me that he 3s me and he made a mistake that he wants me to move back, but im so confused should i or not....i kind of want to because my 3 is with him but i dont because i dont ever want to feel this heart broken feeling again....serously i need help im a good gf whos alsways been faithful and this time im confused i dont wanna feel like he can just play with me when he wants!!!!! i make my deision today help
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): Cheating and abusive and you upset... sound like you are better off without him.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (1 December 2010):
 HAHAHAHA, sorry OP. I guess the little "carrot" character doesn't publish. I guess all the more reason to use words instead of symbols.
I like what CG said. You're a good girlfriend, so find a good boyfriend instead of a bad one.
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reader, lightshadow +, writes (1 December 2010):
Man don't take him back I was in the same situation and my girl wanted to get back me yoi will just be putting yoyrslef trough more suffering
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reader, dirtball +, writes (1 December 2010):
He "3s" you? WTF is that? Oh wait, you're trying to do the whole "heart" thing I think. That's 3... I don't get why you can't type the word "love." It would be easier to read.
ANYWAY...
Walk away. He was an abusive partner and that will continue. You need to get away from him now. He will cheat again. He will abuse you again. He has NOT changed and he will not change. He doesn't have to. I seriously don't understand why you would even consider for one second getting back with this criminal.
GET OUT NOW! Keep him as an ex.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 December 2010):
He cheated on you, he abused you, he threatened you.
You'd be mad to go back to him. Mad. He hasn't changed. He'll treat you exactly the same way, and you'll get hurt again.
You're a good girlfriend, so find a good boyfriend instead of a bad one.
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reader, coolcatgracie +, writes (1 December 2010):
Seriously sweetheart... my ex who I won't lie I love SO much still cheated on me with 2 of my best friends, and the villiage bike. I KEPT getting back with him hoping he'd change, kept playing silly little mind games and what not... but this went on for 3 years aswell, and my life was awful. I was self harming, crying myself to sleep, on anti depressents... it really does take over you. Just don't let him think he can make you come crawling back whenever he wants you. Just remember... he did it once, what makes you think he won't do it again. Keep strong :) I hope it all works out for you xxx
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 You will be making a big mistake by going back with him just because he snapped his fingers and said I want things to be like they use to be. If you want to have a relationship with this man my suggestion would be for him to court you again. Have him date you again, have him take you out to the movies, to dinner, to the park don't just move in with him. For him to just dump you and take you back home was a very bad thing because this showed his immaturity. You were living with him not just dating, he owed it to you to try and work it out but didn't he did the chicken thing to do and made it your parents problem.
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