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writes:Well I just got done talking to my gf and she seems to not want this relationship, she always changing pictures, and then she told me her dad does not want her to stay with me for even 2 weeks. Then she wants to blame me for getting offended by this and gets mad, I am 21 deployed and I dont know about this relationship, somethings do not add up at all. Anyone got any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, HardTimeBreathing +, writes (1 December 2010):
If you have a feeling this relationship isn't going to work, then it probably won't. Plus, if this is how you feel, then she's probably not your priority anyway.
As for your girlfriend, she doesn't seem like she wants it, like you said. If she gets offended then maybe she's trying to end it and blaming it on so it could be your fault. Or she could also try to push you to break up with her so she doesn't have to do it. The issue of her dad shouldn't be an issue at all. If she really wanted to be with you, then she would try to work things out with her dad.
Not all relationships can be a smooth journey. It's the ability to make past the obstacles that makes a relationship strong and long lasting. If she doesn't even want to try and help this relationship along, then it's probably not worth it. She's probably not worth your worry.
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 well bud it sounds like shes too immature for you. i dont know how long you guys have been together or how old you are but she sounds quite childish. she has no right to be offended when you have been hurt and probably embarassed by having this thrown in your face, especially about her father. id say let her go and be an idiot, and you will find someone who is a good match and thinks about YOU not just herself.
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