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writes:Okay so, my (first) boyfriend of 18 months just left me. He was the first and only person i've had sex with. But now i havent had sex for a couple of months and i really want to :S i'm worried i'll end up having sex with someone i don't know very well. Theres a guy who's really nice and he's one of my best friends friends, but i've only met him a couple of times. my friend has told me he likes me, and i feel like i should try to move on as im finding it really hard to get over my ex. i don't want to come on too strong and i don't know if i should have sex with him or not.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 Try masturbating. It should satisfy some of your urges, and yes I know it's not the same, but it takes the edge off.
Keep that good attitude about not jumping into sex. It's important to take your time with sex because it's a big step for any relationship.
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 You should first go out with him and before you have sex with him figure out if all you want from him is sex without being in a relationship than go for it. But if there is a small chance of you liking him more than just a booty call, than hold on on the sex and go out with him and date him and when the moment is right go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): Go out with him. Why not? I don't think you should have sex with him just for the sake of it but if you date him a few times and you feel you like each other why not. He doesn't have to be The One.
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