A
male
age
41-50,
*saac800
writes:Hi,I have a relationship question. For almost a month, I shared a house with guys and ladies. I happened to notice another girl, she's very beautiful in my opinion. She came down in the living room and in front of the mirror, she started combing her hair, I checked her out, I think she noticed that I was checking her out. The other night I went down to the kitchen around 9:00 pm, I found her washing dishes, she asked me to help with cleaning the fridge (remember this is a communal house), I agreed. She told me her name and I told her mine. And she kept asking me if I had enough cleaning papers or needed some other things. She thanked me about twice when I completed her assignment.She found me in the living room and she re-asserted my name, "Isaac, isn't it?" I nodded and said yes. She went on combing her hair. The next thing I heard some of her friends saying bad things about her. I wrote her a note and told her that she should be careful with who she thinks her friends are. She came back and as I was sitting in the living room, she nodded (like saying thanks). She kept that note, at night she came back with that same note I gave her and asked me to explain what I meant, I resisted but she interpreted the note herself in my presence and I agreed to the meaning.Another man who was close by, asked her to sit with us, she came close to where I was sitting and was looking at me straight but purposely I decided to fix my eyes on the man who was asking her to sit down, She said she was busy, couldn't sit. He asked for her name, she went away and said, " Isaac would tell you name?!? "Every time she sees me, she'd say hey, or lean to make eye contact. She came to the living room and we sort of made two uncomfortable eye contact. I think she wanted to make sure I was checking her.Now the thing is we have both left the house because the government decided that it was illegal for us to stay in those conditions. On the morning I was leaving the house, I gave her a letter, telling her what I do professionally, and my aspirations for the future. I talked vaguely about friendship or love in that letter. I never gave her my number or any other contact details yet in the letter I said I was hoping to hear from her soon.1. Do you think she might be interested in exploring something in the future?2. The landlord is ready to give me her number or to give her my number. I think she hasn't asked because I sent her thanksgiving wishes and the landlord only told me that he told her. What would you recommend that I do? Ask the landlord for her number or Ask the landlord to ask her to send me her number?3. If I ask her for friendship, will she read that I am interested in more than friendship? Please send me some strategy!Sorry for the long letter.Isaac Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 December 2010):
 1. Yes well it sounds like she might like you, but you need to get to know each other more before knowing if anything can happen in the future.
2. I think you should leave it up to her, contact the landlord and ask him to pass on your details to her, ask him would he tell her that you would like her to contact you and leave it at that. If she contacts you then its a sure sign that she wants to get to know you more. If she doesnt then it means she is not interested therefore you should move on.
3. If she does get in contact with you, tell her that you would like to get to know her better. And arrange to meet up.
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