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*aridisepassion
writes:I believe my ex is gay..only been together a month and a half before he said he can't be with me at all he's not the one for me and how I need attention..Besides looking exactly like a girl in features with a lot of hair and being a model..through the entire month he said things like..I was gay before I met you, you turned me straight..something about the gay parade..he accept gay requests on facebook but wouldn't add me..one time this guy said he will pay him to suck his d*ck..he also said he's should be with a man because at least they won't get pregnant..I aked him if he was and he got mad didn't speak for days..but the crazy thing is he has a best girlfriend that I think he's in love with and shes in love with him..She has a boyfriend but they have pictures unlimited of each other in her facebook and so does he along with videos..When we argue he says he has his gf his bestie and I should find my man..next argument he said his bestie is his favorite personI confronted him about this and he said don't ever talk about my bestie like that you don't know her..IM CONFUSEDIs he gay or in love with his bestie ?I just want to know to move on
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reader, Paridisepassion +, writes (1 December 2010):
Paridisepassion is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe person that says its happening to them now..can you messege me please
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reader, dirtball +, writes (1 December 2010):
 I don't know who "they" are, but "they" are wrong. PLENTY of people are bi.
Again, I just don't get why this matters at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): LIsten up. Basically this same thing is happening to me and pretty sure... he's just gay. So... buy him some roses and call him pretty. And he'll divorce his ex bestie and marry you one day when he decides he wants children. For now, just allow him to do whatever the... he wants and just stalk him on facebook, hack into his account and laugh at all of the homosexual messages he is sending to gays. Best of luck.
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reader, Paridisepassion +, writes (1 December 2010):
Paridisepassion is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThdy say a person can't be just bi..what you think he's leaning more on?
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reader, AgonyAuntiee93  +, writes (1 December 2010):
Well, in my opinion, i would say that even he doesnt really know wether he is gay or not. Or if that isnt the answer, then maybe he is bisexual, and he is in love with he bestie but gay at the same time?
I dont want to put you down or anything, but i think you should move on and put it behind you... You shouldnt live in the past, so hunnie, get with a man that will care for you, love you and is actually straight. So, i hope i helped you?
Rateee me please? xxx
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reader, dirtball +, writes (1 December 2010):
Why can't he be bi and in love with his bestie? He sounds like he has a thing for her, but also guys. Sounds bi to me.
Whatever the case, he's not in love with you, so you know the important piece that relates to you. The rest doesn't matter.
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