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writes:I am taking care of my father who is in his eighties and recently came out of the hospital. I am not so worried about taking time off from work, but I worry that my boyfriend is lonely (now two states away) and though he understands, I wonder if anyone can give me any advise about how to attempt to be in two places at once.(?) My father needs me more, obviously, but I miss my boyfriend and he calls me for a very long time on the phone, and it's miserable. Reply to this Question
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (1 December 2010):
 Your boyfriend needs to understand that you are taking care of your father right now, as yes, he obviously needs you more right now. I'm sure your boyfriend understands that.
Perhaps he could come visit you and meet your Dad if he hasn't already for a weekend. You two can spend some time together and your Dad can get to know him.
Long distance relationships are very hard, but you can make them work if you really want to.
Talk to your boyfriend if you are that worried about it and see if he will come visit you for a weekend or something.
Good luck.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 It's just one of those life events that has to be dealt with unfortunately...you shouldn't worry, I am sure your boyfriend understands and will be patient. He could always visit for a few weekends so you can see eachother. If he begins to grumble about the situation then he is being a little selfish and he's just going to have to suck it up.
Many partners and boyfriends may come and go...you've only got one dad, so he should come first.
xxx
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