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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Should I have my boyfriend over and let him tell my dad we'll be out for 2 days?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - For Valentine's, my 33 year-old boyfriend got me a gift voucher, good for a spa day for two, and a night in a hotel, breakfast included. We've gone to the spa (great, by the way), and we will book the night very soon. However, I mentioned this...

He's ten years older , but says he's willing to wait until I'm ready to lose my virginity. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am 17 and still a virgin me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months. He is 27 and already he has a daughter. He says he will wait for me until I'm ready to lose my virginity with him. I'm quite ready,but since he is experienced im kin...

Am I unreasonable as he claims? My 8 years older ex can be thoughtless, inconsiderate, and does not listen.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem with my boyfriend, who is 25 (8 years in my senior). We've been going out since October. Recently we have been having many disagreements and I find myself craving more from him. We split up recently due to that, bu...

Is it wrong for me to have fallen for him? He's 17!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Hi this is a tough one, Im a 27 year old woman and i recently started back at college in september last year, I became close friends with a 17 year old boy we have become really close we get along so well and have same interests and hobbies our ...

52 year old male with 3 late teen daughters seeing a 20 year old woman?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - I'm 52 and divorced with three daughters ages 21, 18, 17. I have been seeing a 20 year old woman. My daughters think this is very bad. The 20 year old wants me to choose her over my daughters. I broke it off with the 20 year old because of my ...

How can I ever believe anything my partner tells me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Ive been with my partner for 10 years. He is 12 years older than me, and we have two children together 5 and 6yrs old. 6 years ago he told me he didnt love me. By this time we had a 5 month old baby and another on the way. We seperated. After the ...

Girl I am dating does not know I am older than she thinks! HELP

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

19 February 2013 (M) - Ok, I met a wonderful woman online, and we really, really hit it off. She is 31, and I am 48. We want the same things. Neither of us have children and both want them, and believe in marriage, commitment etc. Very attracted to each other and both ...

I don't want to start anything with a much older co worker but want to see where it goes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - I've been flirting with a man at work for several months now, he flirts back and has openly told me he likes me, hes quite a bit older tho, im 22 and he is 54, he bought me 12 roses for Valentines day this year, we worked together last night and I ...

Guys: Would you date a freshman if you were a senior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a quick question, mainly for the guys out there. If you were a college senior, would you date a freshman? I'm asking this because the guy I like is going after a girl who is a senior like him. The thing is she looks a lot like me, not to ...

Should I ignore the comment my older boyfriend made about me wanting to be in bed with both him and his son?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - I'm upset about a "joke" that my boyfriend made today. My boyfriend is much older than i am ( he is 21 years older than i am, and i am only a year and a half older than his son!). He hasn't seen his son much though since his son was four years old. ...

My online guy has a girlfriend, why is he on a site for meeting people then? Where should I go from here with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - I've been chatting to a guy for aaaaages online. He's 27, I'm 19 but we really get on... like his sense of humour is completely on track with mine and we chat pretty much everyday. He lives about 3 hours away currently but knows I'm moving up there ...

I can't open up to him because he's always talking about his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - Hey all of you. because i think you all are good people i'm turning my shoulder to you again ... So there's a total mess in my head about my love/boy i'm hanging out ... i won't lie how we met. there was a party and sex. and because it was ...

I am married but sexually frustrated. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

14 February 2013 (F) - I got married with 10 years age difference. Usually I get sex mood but he can't do no longer ..he leaves me a month for job .... Now in my mind I'm full of sex mood with another guy but I did not say to him.... What can i do plz help me....

My much older boyfriend gets frustrated when I ask him why he's with me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

13 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is a lot older (he's 46 I'm 24) and I asked why he was with me. His first response was "I don't know the answer to that" later he said "because I like you". I want to know why he's with me but he just gets frustrated when I ask. I am ...

Is this a good idea? She's never been in a relationship and I want to be her first big crush

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

13 February 2013 (M) - I have a huge crush on a girl in my college. She is my junior. We are good friends. Problem is she is a teenager and i am 21 years old so i dont know how to tell her that i like her. She's never been in a relationship and i want to be her first bi...

I'm starting to think I have more feelings for my girlfriends daughter than for my girlfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

11 February 2013 (M) - I am a 26 yr old man currently dating a 43 yr old that has a 18 yr old daughter and 2 younger boys I am finding a hard time not becoming attracted to her now she is of age me and her mom have been together for a few years now what should I do I am ...

He's 12 years older and divorced. He was my lecturer. Could we make this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

10 February 2013 (F) - Hi, thanks for those who answer my question in advance. Following is the brief intro about the man with whom i have affair. currently i am doing MBA. i met this guy during my year, because he is my lecturer.he taught me one subject,and i ...

She's 19 and I'm 23. If I accept her invitation to go to a nighclub am I likely to have trouble getting her into venues that only accept over 21 year olds?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

10 February 2013 (M) - I've been dating this girl for over a month now and tonight she invited me out to go dancing with her at a nightclub. The issue is I'm not all too familiar with nightclubs as it was never really my thing and the last time I went to one I think I ...

Should I allow him to "brand" me with a tattoo? He's 24. I know he will not take me back if I refuse.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - So, me and this guy have just been through a break up, our relationship was a little rough around the edges mainly because he's 24 and I'm 16. I know I know, forget about the age a second. I'm really desperate to get him back and he says I need to ...

Does this 'relationship' have any potential?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - we've been seeing each other for over a month now. Every week, but usually at his place. We will go out for dinner the odd time. He says he wants it to stay casual as he just got out of a 3 and a half year relationship. In the beginning he woul...

I seem to be angry about something that was an issue a year ago!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

7 February 2013 (F) - Hi. I am 29, and this is my third year with my boyfriend, who is 7 years older and divorced 4 years before we met, he has 1 child. When we met we just had a good connection in terms of interests, personality, company, chemistry, everyting was there. ...

Older boyfriend said he was ready for responsibility but an unplanned pregnancy had him singing a different song!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

7 February 2013 (F) - Please help! my boyfriend is 12 years older than i am.He is ready for any family responsibility.but when i told him i was pregnant,he told me to get and abortion because he want me to finish school.Do you guys think he loves me or was just an abuser ...

Being A Good Agony Aunt or Uncle

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - I have been reading comments and feedback from agony aunts and uncles to queries and questions posted by OPs. Some of the advice, opinions, comments and feedback are encouraging, motivating and insightful But nonetheless many are very negative, j...

Am I reading too much into the actions of my very nice boss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Ok, basically I have a problem at work. From the moment I met my boss, I thought he was familiar and I couldn't place my finger on it, I still can’t. The thing is he's always stared at me, and made a point of talking to me. He made me feel I ...

Is she too young for me to be doing more than flirting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

3 February 2013 (M) - Hi, So before people start calling me things please read everything. I'm currently married but me and my wife are looking to go our separate ways. We had our first child when we were 18 and got pressured into marriage(her family felt very strong...

Will 20 year old b/f get in trouble for being with a 17 year old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

3 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is almost 21 and I'm 17 , we kinda wanna get married. will he get in trouble for Benin with me?...

I love my boyfriend but I think his goals are holding me back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

3 February 2013 (F) - I am in a long term serious relationship, like any relationship we have our ups and downs but we've grown to love and respect one another and have become very close planning a future together. My problem is I am a bit younger, my boyfriend is settl...

I'm in love with him but he has a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

2 February 2013 (F) - Hey guys, I need some help big time. I have a best friend, Of whom is a guy... We met a while back, and we just clicked. I dont think I need to explain how the chemistry works as I'm sure you all understand. He's quite abit older than me (24), bu...

29-year-old man in loving relationship but attracted to older women....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

2 February 2013 (M) - I am a 29-year-old male, in a loving relationship with a 27-year-old female. We've been together for about 5 years. We live together, and have a wonderful time. We never argue (**really**) and we haven't lost any intimacy or closeness. My p...

I can't read him anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

1 February 2013 (F) - Hello all, so I am going to apologize in advance for the length of my story/question. Anyway, so I recently started college last fall and I met this guy in December. We were at a party in the dorms and we were drinking and having a good time and we ...