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*mit thakur
writes:I have a huge crush on a girl in my college. She is my junior. We are good friends. Problem is she is a teenager and i am 21 years old so i dont know how to tell her that i like her.She's never been in a relationship and i want to be her first big crush. I only meet her during college time. We really didnt spend long time together as she always had lectures when we meet and i cant ask her to join me as she her female friends with her.But we had spent time together ocasionaly .We just dont do it regularly. I just dont want to tell her directly that i like her as it could be scary for her.i just want to be her crush first.What should i do to be her big CRUSH
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 February 2013):
 you are 21
is she 17 or 18 or is she 14 or 15 because the difference is huge.
if she's under 18 you need to wait till she is 18
if she's 18 or older, you can't force her to feel about you the way you WANT her to feel but you can assist her by being kind to her and paying attention to her
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reader, llifton +, writes (13 February 2013):
 there's really nothing you can do to MAKE her have a crush on you. if it were that simple, hell, i'd just make everyone have a crush on me. crushes just kind of happen on their own.
you could flirt with her subtly. for example: smile at her a lot, find little excuses to touch her - but not creepily, use her first name a lot when you speak to her (i know this sounds weird, but it makes people feel good and important), ask her to hang out with you one on one, etc.
i definitely don't see any reason you shouldn't ever ask her out. what could it hurt. but i would definitely wait until you two get to know each other a bit better. and like i said, drop some subtle hints about how you feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2013): When you say she is a teenager, how old do you mean exactly? If she's below 18 then you need to forget all about her. If she is 18+, in terms of her getting a crush on you there isn't anything you can do to make that happen. She will either like you that way or she won't. Just be yourself.
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