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Archived questions from: December, 2009 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Its been a year of unrequited love, now my teacher seems to be deliberately avoiding me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - OKay, I have written on this before, but decided to stay anonymous, some people may recognize the story. I am in year 12 studying A Levels. I am 16 year old girl. I have had feelings for a teacher at my school for a year now. He was my former He...

Is it alright for a 16 year old to live with a 20 year old??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Is it ok for a 16 year old to live with a 20 year old? ...

More questions than answers...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5428 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Over vacation I've been thinking about me and my best friend who I have known for 2 years. I really think our friendship can last through anything. A couple of months ago I told him that I liked him and he still stuck around. sure he hasn't asked me ...

I'm worried about a 2 year age gap

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - G'day... A girl and I like eachother- a lot. However, I am 15 and she is 13. When we are out together, it seems right and all that jazz. But the only thing im worried about is the two year age gap. Would be greatful for any advice! Thanks :)....

If I end up with my Spanish teacher in the end, would I still be considered straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

30 December 2009 (?) - I know what love is despite what everyone will say. Yes, I'm just a 17 year old girl, but there's not a certain age that breaks the barrier of being able to be in love or not. Anyways, I'm in love with my Spanish teacher. That's not the problem. ...

Age difference and disapproving parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - i decided to go back to college and further my education. I am a bit older than normal college age (late 30's). While there I've met a woman that I fell for. She tells me that she has the same feelings for me, but her family disapproves of it ...

I lied about my virginity so what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5429 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I am sort of seeing this boy who is 20 even though i am 15 and we are thinking about having sex, the bottom line is i told him i was not a virgin and i dont know what to do. plz help xx...

Why does he lose his erection during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - im 24 years old and my boyfriend is 42 when we have sex he loses his erection why is this? he stays hard when we have foreplay...

Why do I feel jealous when my teacher talks to other girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

29 December 2009 (?) - I've had this teacher last year now I have him this year. I've caught him looking at me and we talk for ages and we have walked out of school together laughing and joking on numerous ocasions we are interested in the same things and we make each ...

An older man I fancy is sending me mixed messages

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Right, Im 18 years old and in June i met a guy in the army who was 25 when i was 17. He came onto me, kissed me and asked me for my number etc. I wanted to see him again so text him the next day asking if he wanted to go for drinks. He said due to ...

What do I do...i can't change my age.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - She's 2 years older than me and told me she likes me I mean I like her but what should I do now? She wishes I was 2 yrs older and we get close holding hands leaning on each other but... She told me in a txt but wHat should I do now I'm sure she has ...

I'm confused, does he still have feeling for me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ok, so i dated this guy for maybe.....2 months. When we met we had an instant, phenominal conection. Like, its wierd to explain, it was like we had known each other all of our lives. Thing is....is that he's 18 and im 16....legally, we cant date. ...

I've been sleeping with a younger man who has a boyfriend, I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I'm a older woman I haven't been in a relationship for two years but I have been sleeping with this younger man off and on for six years he has a girlfriend and sometimes when he calls I don't answer I think I'm starting to really like him I don't ...

Why does my husband think showing me his flaccid penis is a turn on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1170 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Married 6 years and very happy. My husband is 15 years older than me but eveyone who knows would say I am the mature party in our relationship. We have a toddler and our sex life is gearing back up now that nights are less interrupted and back to ...

Do I shave it all off or leave some?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hello Right, i am 16,, female and i am with a 20 year old. We are ready for sex but i keep putting it off because of my down below.. i have been shaving it off for so long, and i dont know weather or not he will like it, and i want it to be ...

Long distance and younger/older relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - A while back, I met this guy online. Since then, we have been talking and we both believe that the relationship we have is real and it's begun to get really hard to cope when we aren't talking. We have a lot in common and what should be considered a ...

Do I wait and hope or try to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5435 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - i fell in love like probley last christmas i met him on the 12 of december at work an he was the most amazing guy we were always firlting an i fell for him an he love me just he was going to the amry an i felt my heart just drop. so on the 15th of ...

How do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I really need advice on aproaching a girl.I'll just explain my situation first.I'm 16 and female,I dont much care for labels,all I know is I definatly like girls,and I definaltly like guys.I had a boyfreind not long ago bout found it very..very ...

Can't get her off my mind. What is this all about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - I am over 50. Married for over 25 yrs. A stranger approached me on a flight. She wanted to sit in unoccupied seat on my row,she was sitting one row back. She was talkative, possibly looking for a husband, she's divorced with 3 kids. E- mail r...

How should I tell him I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5436 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - There's this guy and lately we've been getting pretty close, like going on late night walks together and talking allot. I think he likes me, quite a few others say that he does and I know I defiantly like him but I don't now how or even if I should ...

Should we stay together even though we are in different places in our lives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

25 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I am in a long term relationship with my partner but we seem to be in different places in our lives. I am a student and in my early twenties. I want to travel and see the world before I settle down. He is in his late 30's has a son from a...

I want to kiss my teacher.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

24 December 2009 (F) - hey, k I'm a girl going to school and i have this hot teacher. when i have him by me in class all i want to do is kiss him. I'm always smiling at him. i go to his class when he doesn't have students so we can talk. i want to kiss him and i t...

I love my dad and my boyfriend. Why is he making me choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

24 December 2009 (F) - I've been dating my current boyfriend for 5 months. He works for my dad and my father hates him (and that's an understatement). My father forbade all contact with him even when we weren't dating. We were just sitting on the hood of his car at a ...

I'm dating a 50 year old man and my parents don't understand.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - need your advice. my parents have recently found out that i'm going out with a 50 yr old (and have been for a year). i love him dearly and can't imagine life without him by my side. my parents are devastated, the last thing i want to do was hurt ...

Is there something wrong with me for being in love with a much younger girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - [Moderator note: The OP is not asking for advice on how to pursue a young girl. He just wants reassurance that he's normal for fantasizing about being with her when she's older.] Hi I really like this 10 year old girl I dream about her that she is ...

11 year age gap plus baggage, can this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Me and this guy met on a dating site,started chatting and exchanged numbers.We decided to meet.Im 20 and he is 31.When he saw me he said I was perfect and I liked his very genuine sweet personality and he was quite good looking,after meeting up a ...

My boyfriend is 10 years older, and my male friend called him a cradle robber!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Earlier today, my boyfriend and my two best friends were hanging out at my house. My boyfriend was playing with my hair and watching my friend playing video games. My other friend was being very emo (aka emotional) and he wouldn't look or talk to ...

Should I ask a sophmore out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - I am fourteen years old, and there is this really pretty, and nice girl who sits next to me in Geometry. She is a sophmore and turning 16 in February. Should I ask her out? I feel like she flirts with me, but it might be wishful thinking. Please ...

Is he too young for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - one of my friends on facebook asked me to add there brother coz they wanted me to add them so i did (on 12 December) and then as we started chatting. he then said that he could not help his feelings for me so i just replied ok coz i didnt know what ...

My boyfriend is 8 years older then me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - i am 15 and i love this guy i think he loves me to but the problem is he is 23 and everyone is saying he is too old for me and only wants one thing but we have been together for 3 months now and he havn't had sex or anything i now that it will be ...

The love of my life is 24 years younger than me, but age is only a number.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I am 41 and have had only a few relationships. I met an absolutely beautiful girl about 3 years ago, she is autistic, yet only on a small level. I connected with her immediately, which is unusual for an autistic person to do. I looked on the net ...

Age gap

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - Im a nineteen year old male who has always been into girls my own age or older. Recently a girl of 15 has started flirting and asking to date. I know her pretty well and she isn't a typical teen - she has a very mature personality and doesn't look ...

Young girl with a big problem...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I seriously need help. And I have absolutley nobody to talk to so if u could, tell me ur advice. I turned 18 and moved a state away from my whole family to be with a 34 year old man. Now, don't get me wrong, I love him with all of my heart. And I ...

Tell me the psychology behind this type of behavior man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - Hey! I met a guy about 11 months ago and from day 1 he came on very strong, telling me only after 2 weeks he felt love for me, he smothered me and completely lusted over me, this completely freaked me out understandably so i regected his effections ...

Will I fit into his circle of high class friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

21 December 2009 (F) - i met a guy a couple of days ago. hes awesome hes the type i go for. im 22 i dnt like dating younger guys my age because i dont find them in my level. so therefore i always go for older guys. so about this guy i met he 55 years old and hes a doctor ...

Unrequited teacher crush has spiralled me into depression!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I have been in love with my teacher for the past 2 years. Please don't sigh and raise your eyebrows and think "Oh not another pupil-teacher crush, she'll get over it it" and then move on because I desperately need some advice. It did only start o...

What do I do about this online, long distance guy that just wants friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I like this guy so much that I'm jealous. :( I've known this guy for a a year and he's helped me through so much, he's like a best mate, the only problem is that he lives in Edinburgh which is 200 miles away from me, a few months ago we started ...

How do I ever trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Ive, been in a relationship for 18 years, we have three children. My partner has always flirted with other women even in front of me which has been hurtful but when he kissed a girl in front of me four years ago I told him to leave, he swore it ...

Will I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Ok,(I gotta give some background here) so I was with this guy, lets call him Bob for this, for 8 months. It was absolutely amazing. He changed my life. Literally. He loved me, I loved and still love him. It was a great relationship. We never really ...

She wants to meet up with her ex, should I feel anything?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - I'm new to the site, I have a situation which is making me anxious. I met a girl in Feb of this year and we started dating. I was reluctant to at first as she was a lot younger than me, there's an age gap of 16 years, I'm 39. My friends convinced me ...

So much differenece and so much alike!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Okay I have a big problem. Like a year ago I start going out with a man youngest than me,exactly half of my age. We did have so much good time and we still have it but I know we cant stay together for long because I just don't want nobody in my ...

She is more concerned about the age difference than I am, how can I help her get over it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - Im a 21 year old and I met this beautiful waitress at a local club(didnt know her age at the time). She had a great personality and she was really easy to talk to. I could really tell that she was into me so i asked her for her number and she asked ...

17 and a 40 year old having sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hello. I was just wondering if it's ok for a seventeen year old girl to have sex with a forty year old man? I've known him for a few months and we've been talking a lot. I really like him and want him. I know that it is a significant age difference, ...

Help..how to seduce my cousin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hey, So my cousin's really hot. He's 17 and I'm 14. We chat sometimes but we never flirt, and he has a girlfriend. But I really want to get him to notice me! How can I do so? Please don't say "you're too young" or "it's your COUSIN get real". F...

Why am I attracted to older men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi. I am seventeen and a senior in high school. I have a little bit of a problem. I'm only attracted to older men. My friends try to set me up with people in my grade, but I always say no. They ask me why not and I have to lie to them, because I'm ...

I beleive a three year gap is appropriate.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - *I want to preface this article by saying I do not condone nor do I oppose the dating of under age women/men, unless of course we are talking about molestation in which case you can burn in hell.* I often time hear people say "I really like this ...

Is an age gap of 6 years at age 16 and 22 immoral in the UK?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - Hi there. I am a gay 22 year old and I live in England. There is a guy who has liked me for months, I've only liked him for a week (before last week I really wasnt interested despite him telling me how much he cares for me as a friend and a romantic ...

I don't know how to tell to my hubby that I don't love him anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - i am married and i felt i don't love my hubby since i gave birth to my first son. and we were married for 6 years now, and now i am having friends online, there is someone that caught my attention. he is way older than me, but i have feelings for ...

I had the best sex with my ex, but I feel guilty and don't know whether I should tell my husband or not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

11 December 2009 (?) - Hello Everyone, I'm currently married to my son's father( been knowing each other for 10 yrs, married for 6, together for 3, and separated 1 1/2 years). Anyhow, throughout our relationship, my husband has cheated in my face with 2 other females ...

Can I believe that she has stopped having affairs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, I am hoping someone out their will help me with my dilema. I am a middle age man and has been in relationship with a very young lady half of my age, we have been together for 9 years and blessed with one child, 5 years ago I travel ...