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male
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36-40,
*irForceSP35
writes:Im a 21 year old and I met this beautiful waitress at a local club(didnt know her age at the time). She had a great personality and she was really easy to talk to. I could really tell that she was into me so i asked her for her number and she asked me for mine instead so I gave it to her. The next day she called me up and asked me if I would go with her to a party for work that she didnt have a date to and I said I would go. I went to pick her up at her house and when I walked in she had two what seemed to be teenage girls in her house, so I asked her if she had two daughters and she said yes. She asked me if I was ok with that and I said yes, cause I was in a relationship with someone that had a son also. We went to the party and had a great time. Had a few drinks and got a ride home so we wouldnt have to drive back. When we got back at her place I was in no ability to drive home so she said I could spend the night. She came in to sleep beside me and said that she wanted to tell me everything. She said she just got a divorce a year ago to an abusive husband of 18 years and that she was 35 years old. I really like this woman and she looks like she is at the most 25. I dont have a problem with the age difference cause my father is 13 years older than my mother so its not like there is anything wrong with any age difference. But the problem is she worries about what everyone might say about the age difference. Its like she is self-conscious about what everyone thinks when they see us together. What should I do to help her get over it? Will it pass? Anything would really help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Hi. My partner is 15 years younger than me and i was a little worried about what people would think. He kept telling me it was fine and i shouldnt worry about others. In time i got used to us being together and its not a problem anymore, ive been with him 3 years and its all really good, so hang in there if you like each other.
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