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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Has he been pressured into breaking up with me because of the age gap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm 20 and was seeing a man of 47 years old who is separated with 2 children. We met at work and started seeing each other when he had problems with his wife, who he eventually separated from. For the past year we were seeing each other and got ...

I've tried talking to my best friend who is 14 after she slept with a 27 year old, but she wont listen!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi, my best friend is only 14 she slept with a 27 year old, who has kids, when she was very drunk, she didn't use protection and didn't get the morning after pill. I am worried about her, and not just for the pregnancy side of things. What can i do...

I love him more than anything and don't want our relationship to end but we're at the verge of breaking up please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I am 27 and until last year I'd never kissed anyone, let alone anyone else. When I was at school boys just weren't interested and then when I was older I was so embarrassed by my lack of experience that if guys did show an interest I'd pretend that ...

Do you think he does like me really and if so what should I say to him ?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I am 24 years old soon, and i like a man who is 42. My birthday is coming up soon and he said he will go.He has stared at me and looked at me alot, stood close to me when i have been talking to other people, once he looked at me through the corner ...

My older BF discusses our most private issues with his mates and makes me feel so dirty by improper remarks! Is this all my fault??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i ...

I want to dump him because I think his too old for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - i went out with a boy that is 20 years old and i am 14 years old, he loves me to bits but i dont really know the meaning of love. and i also think that he is playing me because his mates say his a player but he say they are lieing, i told my girl ...

I know it's weird, but I am in love with a stranger!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - This may sound weird, but I don't know of any other way to describe it other than the fact that I'm in love with a man I've never met. The other problem is that he's much older than me. I'm 17, but I'll be 18 the next time I see him, which if I'm ...

I want to be with her, I'm 18 and she's 14.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - I am 18 and my really good friend is 14, I have never had a relationship, and i think i like her. What should I do? I want to be with her??...

He's 40 years older than me, I'm 17 and I love him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Hi! I am just like this girl here too. I am attracted to a guy who is 40 years older than me, i am 17. He is attracted to me too but not for my body. We have alot in common, for example, i am into the era he grew up in which is the 1960s and alot...

I want whoever you are to help me ask her out ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - hey am starting to like this girl and i was just flirting with her to get my mate jealous cause he fancys her am 16 a\nd shes 14 is that too big a age difference? we only talk on the internet because I've left school and i dont have her number b...

I am 18 and he is 27 and we're in love. Could problems arise with this age difference between us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - Hello all, I recently got involved with a man a fair bit older than I. We both new that it was probably not a good idea, but we just fell in love. I am 18 and he is 27. He is very kind and polite, he does not rush me in anything. Are there proble...

Pregnancy risk in case of anal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is 22 years older than me and I am 29 year old female and underweight but healthy. We had anal sex and he ejaculated in me without a condom. He did not ejaculate anywhere else. Is there a pregnancy risk here?...

Confused by the way a teacher acts.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - If one of your teachers makes constant eye contact with you during class and outside of class whenever you see him what could it possibly mean. He blushes whenever you are with him or say hi to him and turns really red even though your behaviour is ...

How can I make a man tell me what he feels about me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - How can make a man tell me what he feel?I mean i understand that he want me..he is flirting me he laugh with me all the time..he smiles to me!and sometimes i catch him looking at me and then he turn his look!That shows that he is shy?But he is ...

Every time we have got back together, it has always ended the same way: he gradually loses interest! I'm trying to understand his behaviour!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - Hi, About 4 years ago I met this guy and we went out for a few weeks. I was a bit dubious about going out with him because he was 8 years younger than me, but he seemed charming so i thought what the hell, age is just a number! Anyway he was re...

I'm nursing a burning, secret passion for a teacher. Should I write him a little note?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - I am 16 years old and practically on the brink of taking my GCSEs (in fact, I've got my first oral on Monday). Problem is, for eight months I haven't been able to stop thinking about a teacher at school. I would estimate him to be in his late ...

He is older and we often don't see things eye to eye. He blames everything on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is older than me and we often don;t see things eye to eye. He's very jealous and don't admit it, and blames everything on me What do i do? ...

This is the first time I've dated a younger man, is the age gap an issue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - I'm a 35 year old woman who's dating a 27 year old guy.We him met through a friend. At first I was kind of skeptical in talking ting to him. He is so mature and we have so many things in common. I am starting to have really strong feelings for him ...

Cold feet or not meant to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm 23, he's 39. It's been one year since we started hanging out just the two of us. We get along very well, we never fight, and we both want to get married someday. My friends and family tell me we look like a real couple, even though we don't ...

I'm not sure if he is flirting me or he just sees me as his student.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Hello,everyone i'm new here and as you can understand is my first message.I want some aswers from you!Please!Well,I'm 21 and i'm in love with my actor-dance teacher..he is 33!I do with him only 1 in a week but i see him the other days (when he has ...

Is a 3 year age gap that big of a deal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - is that okay to continue with my boyfriend who is younger than me? i am 24 and he is 21 what do you think?...

This older man goes hot and cold on me! Now he's interested!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - I am 22 and know this man who is 10 years older than me. We got to know each other through work. He was friendly toward me so I became fond of him. We got on well outside work too until last Christmas when he started going out with a woman. They ...

Older woman is suffocating me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

23 April 2008 (M) - I’m a guy of 22 and met a woman of 43 through work last year. We had lots in common and got on really well until she made a pass at me. I told her that I wanted friendship; that was all. She told me that she loved me and wanted to be with me but I ...

My girl puts up barriers due to our age gap. Do I fight for this or let this go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - I am a 31yr old single guy who has strong feelings for a girl who is 21yrs, I have known her for 4 yrs now and we have been very close for much of this time, an up and down relationship mainly due to her not wanting to accept that she has fallen for ...

My partner speaks his mind, but it comes across as rudeness! How can I make him see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6057 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I'm a 27y/o woman and my partner is 34. My partner is a lovely guy except for one thing- he speaks his mind, and I find it sooo embarrassing, but he sees nothing wrong with it. My partner believes in being honest with people and in many ways tha...

Our relationship is very friendly and sexual but he is also sleeping with other women. If I tell him I fell for him, will he give up this life of freedom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I have had a crush on a guy since I was 16. At 25, I told him that I had a thing for him. He did not seem to interested at the time, but I guess I was ignoring the signals, especially when he asked for my number. We spoke a few times, but I was ...

I think of my teacher as my dad, do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I think of my teacher as my dad...is this normal? Should I tell him?...

My younger boyfriend has cheated and insults me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - i and my honey have been together for almost 2 years. i really love him so much even if he is younger than me. last november he cheated on me and said sorry for that and i did coz i was in love with him but know i am tired of him specially after i ...

I'm going out of my mind for my younger dance teacher! Will he forget me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Ive realized I like my dance teacher who is younger than me... Not allowed to see him but have to or I'll die... If I do see him how can I flirt. N wat can I do to show him that if he asks me out I will say yes.... He flirts with me alot n I've ...

We both like each other but he's older and married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - i like this guy who is 10 years older than me he is married and has 3 kids,he likes me too.what should i do?...

17 with a 25 year old boyfriend. How could he be done for statutory rape?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - Okay, I'm a 17 year old girl and I have a 25 year old boyfriend. We slept together and I really want to know how he could end up being charged for statutory rape. What kind of evidence do they need to support that crime. Could he get into trouble if ...

Due to her mixed signals, I'm not sure where I stand..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

20 April 2008 (M) - I have begun to grow very close to a female coworker of mine over these past several weeks. We talk a lot, spend time with each other outside of the office and genuinely seem to click. We have both been guilty of flirting with each other on a ...

He's 30, and I'm almost 19, the age gap doesn't bother either of us. Given the circumstances, do you think it matters?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - Been meeting up with a 30 year old guy lately in the city. We originally met through work contacts and have kept in touch. I fancied him straight away, he's gorgeous and very funny. I love how sophisiticated he is; he takes me for lovely dinners, ...

At first he "felt sorry for me" but now he wants me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - I have known this guy since working with him during the week, and at first, when I was kinda having problems settling in etc, he took an interest in me cos he 'felt sorry' for me. I found him v supportive and felt great. Downside, I am 22, he's 33. ...

Does he like me or did my friend imagine it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - hey everyone.. i have a problem.. there is this guy who comes to my place everyday to help my father and play with my kid brother..he's been coming for 6 whole months and i never noticed him.. one day a friend of mine came to my place when he wa...

Am I blinded by love for an older man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Hi just need a bit of advice. Im almost 28 and im falling in love with a 43 year old man. Is a 15 year age gap really not and issue or am i just blinded by love? I have been in a fair few bad relationships over the years with guys my own age and ...

People have a big problem with our age difference, how can we solve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

18 April 2008 (M) - i am 43 and she is 18 but we really like each other we have a lot of fun but her parents and other people have a thing about our age difference how do i solve this...

I'm 12yrs old and I like my 38yr old band teacher! I want to kiss him, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - I really like my band teacher. he ALWAYS hugs me and kisses me on the head. he's like 38 and is my neighbor! he's not married. he always really open to me, like he'll tell me if something is bothering him. at the dance a song came on that we love ...

Depressed recently as the babys father, my boyfriend, has been sent to jail!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - wel i dont no wer 2 start! im 16 and 7 months pregnant but thats not the hard bit i feel really depressed recently as the babys father my boyfriend has been sent 2 jail on remand but hes not coming out for a while! but it is for the best in a way bc...

He is two years younger than me..but mature for his age, could it work out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - I have a little problem... My cuzins and I gather together 3 times a week and this guy teaches us dance... Since the first day I realized that he keeps looking at me and flirting with me. Wen he teaches us the dance he keeps coming by me and holding ...

I'm 16 is it possible for me to move in with my 21 y-o boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - Hi ok so there is this guy ive never met him but hell be 21 soon and im 16(5 year age difference)and lately there have been family problems going on and my mom is actiung much of a mom is it possible i can move in with him right now instead of w...

Is this older guy a waste of my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - ok so i sort of started seeing this older guy. i guess i am wondering how to get his attention better? he does work and is busy but, i rarely hear from him by phone mainly text and internet chat. he does say he cares for me but, i will only see him ...

I fantasise about my teacher... should I tell him?...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

16 April 2008 (F) - hiii well i'm a student and im 15 taking my GCSEs and im going to be leaving school in june and going to a diff college. Anyways i really like my english teacher but i'm not sure what to do, i really do like him ive even had dreams which repeat the...

How do I keep my man and control my emotions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

16 April 2008 (F) - im 18 with a 35 year old boy friend, we have lots in comon and get along great i'm about 6 weeks pregnant we're both happy about it, it's both our frist child and really he doesn't know what to expect and i'm trying to help him but it seems he ...

My sister's marrying her BF next year and the family are very uncomfortable with this - he has a record!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a problem, I live with my girlfriend and my family and I'm worried about my sister - she's 18 and her boyfriend is 34. I already think this is a bit wrong but the thing is he's just got out of prison after being there for three months. ...

Are his feelings for me brotherly or more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 April 2008 (F) - there is this guy i've known for 2 years...and i feel this real strong soulmat-y connection with him..as in we generally think on the same wavelength. the problem is that he's 11 years older than me...and has a gf. earlier i used to thin...

Met him online and we've spoken to meet in person. Problems are his age and long distance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 April 2008 (M) - I'm 25 and gay, and I met a guy online, who I really connected with. The problems are, he's 18, and lives halfway across the country. We've spoken of meeting, and I think it's mutual that we both want to. I'm still apprehensive, due to his age, but ...

Am I doing the right thing by waiting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 April 2008 (F) - I have a huge problem. I have a big crush on my best friend's older brother. I'm 16 and he is 22. I have talked to him about it and he told me that he would wait for me to turn 18. Am i wasting my time waiting, or am i doing the right thing? I just...

I need help getting over my teacher - but I don't know whether or not I'm in love with her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I really need help. I really really like my (female) english teacher. She's just so beautiful and kind. She lends me book, and I've never got below a G1 in my marks for my english work. (Our grades go Good Sound Poor, and the lower the number, ...

Is my online friend really starting to fall for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - Well this is kind of a long sry ok i met this guy we can call him B well i met him online and we haven't met in person but we've exchanged photos and i've seen him on cam and things. we've been tlkn since sometime last year n we still are til this ...