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This older man goes hot and cold on me! Now he's interested!

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Question - (23 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am 22 and know this man who is 10 years older than me. We got to know each other through work. He was friendly toward me so I became fond of him. We got on well outside work too until last Christmas when he started going out with a woman. They have now split and the guy seems to be interested in me again. We've been texting each other lately but he goes hot and cold on me. I'm not too keen on him now and he agrees that we can just be friends. But I don't know whether he fancies me or not? Please advise.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008):

Just be friends. That's all he wants. If he wanted more, you would know it. He'd make sure of that...men are hunters by nature.

God Bless You!

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2008):

smeedle agony auntSounds like you have moved on, he didnt want you at christmas and so you got over him and that is that.

He now is alone and wants you again, dont be tempted he is just filling a gap.

Not sure being friends is such a good idea but if that is what you want and think that you can handle this then go for it, but be careful you dont go with him just because he is persuasive, it just wont last!!

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