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writes: I don't understand men sometimes or do I not understand their texting habits. Or just texting? Or are my expectations too high?My BF texted me to say he misses me and that he is turned on and wanting to have sex with me. I responded back to that text pretty quickly as you would guess being sexual and all. And then he went MIA.It's been an hour and still no response.I mean why initiate a text like that and then disappear?I told him I was turned on too and that I hope he can make time to see me this weekend. And I told him what I want to do to him. That part is x-rated. LolI am trying not to be upset.Should I be?He just made a statement and added a kissy face.Doesn't seem like him.Just weird that the content is sexual and he bails on the conversation?So it starts out great that he sends me the text but doesn't respond back?He usually responds back.Now I feel like crap.What do you think?Will he respond? Should I feel like crap over this?Texting can leave you feeling bad and sometimes I hate it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2016): I can't be arsed with all the text play, I much prefer jumping straight in to a human situation where you can feel the heat on your face. Guessing games get boring and so does let's pretend. Face to face, 'fancy a role in the hay, does me fine, no time wasters'.Patience is not my best quality,and wondering 'if' is certainly off the agenda.Don't waste your life hanging on to text messages, strike while your hot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2016): It's the OP.
Oops! LOL
Hope I don't look like a fool trying to have started a conversation!!!
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (2 January 2016):
 Texting is a more informal means of communication. 'On my way'. 'Running late. Be there in 5.' 'Hi, just wanted you to know I was thinking about you'. That sort of thing.Sometimes people do have conversations, yes, but the unspoken understanding seems to be that if someone suddenly stops answering, don't think anything of it.I would have taken your boyfriend's text, not as an invitation to a conversation, but as a quick 'thinking of you' type of message. So, no, I wouldn't feel like crap over this.
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