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writes:Hi I'm in a relationship which up until recently was going really well my boyfriend is 29 but will not grow up he acts like a kid lately. I've been feeling very neglected by him as he makes no time for me at all we live together but I feel like we live separate lives I have tried talking to him but he just goes really quiet and won't say anything. I feel so frustrated. I love him, but don't know how much more I can take. Any ideas what I can do to get our relationship back on track thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 January 2016):
 Put your foot down, you need to work together as a couple especially if you both have a child together. You need to tell him that his behavior is upsetting you, ask him does he want to be part of this family or does he want to leave. Remember that it is your place so if he is not being the man you need him to be then tell him he will need to move out and mean it, if he wants to be with you he will fight for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2016): I have thought that already I will give it a try he moved in with me we also have a 1 yr old little girl
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 January 2016):
 Gave you considered that he is pulling away because he is not happy in the relationship, but incapable of expressing it?
How can you fix it? You can't, not alone. And he won't talk about it.
So maybe... do what he is doing. Get busy with your own circle of friends, be a little unavailable. Normally I'm not big on game-play - but there are times where SHOWING someone how they make you feel (instead of telling them) works better.
And did he move in with you, or you with him?
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