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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is my boyfriend still hung up on his ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - Hey. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months, but we were "seeing" each other for almost 3 months before that. One of the reasons for us not getting together before we did was because he had recently split with his last girlfriend- they'd been together a few yrs. She ... (161 words)

We met, we clicked, we talked, we cuddled. Then I ran into him a few days later and... nothing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

9 October 2005 (F)

- Hey there ^_^ Please please please please help me out with this problem if you can as I have been boring my flatmates with this for a looong time. OK, I think I know what a lot of you will say but I'm going to tell you guys anyway. Right. I have been at uni for 3 weeks ... (1546 words)

How do I get my girlfriend to understand that I only want her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6654 days ago

9 October 2005 (M) - I've been with my current girlfriend for the last 5 and a half years. Throughout these last few years she has been very jealous of my female friends. Over the years she must of accused me of having affairs or being attracted to almost all of them. I seem to make friends ... (258 words)

Bob's the sort of man I want to marry... just not right now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7011 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I’m 18 years old and trying to figure out the relationships in my life. For instance "Bob". He’s 19 years old and graduated a year before me. I’ve known him for 2 years and have dated him on and off. we've been really good friends forever. We still hang out all the time and ... (484 words)

Why is he doing it? Every time I'm free to visit him, he's "busy"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7012 days ago

9 October 2005 (?)

- Hi there everyone, Over the summer I met a guy who's slightly younger than me (by 2 years) who came to stay at the place I was working whilst on a sporting event. We got on really well and went out together with a few of the friends he was playing sport with after my shift. W... (384 words)

A question about G-spot orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7013 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I would like to have a G Spot orgasm. I've been very close of having an orgasm by only stimulating the G Spot with a partner at intercourse or with his hands, but I've never been able to reach a full orgasm without stimulating the clitoris at the end. I tried to explore all the ... (86 words)

Afraid that my ex will find someone else, while we're still friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7011 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - Hi. I have a question concerning how to take my ex. We have been broken up for 3 months. For a while we hardly talked, now we are starting to date once a week and talk on the phone daily, which I am very happy about. We both talk (as friends) to people of the opposite sex. Me,... (354 words)

Sometimes he acts a bit of an idiot, but I think I like the guy from my drama class...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7012 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I have known this guy from my drama class and we have been friends (Not best friends or anything) since we were 10 (14 now) and we walk home together after drama and its great and we get on well. Trouble is, I have started to have uh...feelings for him lately and its really h... (181 words)

I know we should stay broken up, but can I still talk with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6850 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - Me and my ex just broke up after a year and a half of him lying, cheating, mentally and physically abusing. We still talk on the phone a little and I want to go back with him so bad. But I know I can't. What is the best way for me to let him go and still be able to talk to him?... (63 words)

Is it time to dump my boyfriend?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I cant deal with my boyfriend anymore. He always thinks I'm doing something wrong and picks out things wrong with me and won't let me have male friends, which isnt fair. Do you think I should get rid of him? ... (42 words)

Sex with my new boyfriend can last for hours!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7011 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I have recently started sleeping with my current boyfriend. I have have had sex with people before but sex has never lasted more than 10-15 minutes! My new boyfriend can go for hours and finds it hard to finsh before I get to tired - lol! What can I say or do to make him cum ... (60 words)

I thought his drinking habits would change when we got together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7012 days ago

9 October 2005 (?) - I have not seen my boyfriend for 3 days now because he has been in pubs instead of with me. He was in a long relationship before, and when they finished he turned to the pub. I thought it was going to change when we got together but it hasn't. I understand men do drink ... (83 words)

My wife says she's forgiven me too many times in the past...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7012 days ago

9 October 2005 (M) - Hi all, I am currently going through a seperation with my wife. We just had a daughter together. She left me because we argued a lot and that she felt the trust was no longer there, because of broken promises and stupid lies on my part. So for 2 months she has been tr... (184 words)

Will any boy ever wait for me to be ready for a sexual relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

9 October 2005 (?)

- Hi I am 15. I don't really want sex or anything like that, and I am scared of the next step in a relationship which goes beyond just kissing. I am scared that I will never be able to get into a serious relationship because of this! Everyone says that when you love someone ... (119 words)

My man just tells me that "we're more than sex" and he isn't interested anymore. But I am!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7013 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - Hello, I’m desperately worried that I will end up cheating on my man. We have been together a little over two years and things seem to be a bit strained between us. We love each other very much and have always done everything together the trouble is when it comes to sex, ... (407 words)

If I could get my son's father back with me, things would be the way they're supposed to be...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7013 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - What is it when you love somebody and they don't love you back? After being with my son's father we broke up and still I want him so badly and love him with everything inside of me, and I don't know exactly why. He did me wrong by walking out on us with no explanation why and ... (172 words)

My mind's not made up about what I want in my life. That includes my wonderful, caring boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7013 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I'm 18 and I've been dating a 23 yo guy for 5 mths (1st bf). He's wonderful, trustworthy, caring, loving, committed, willing to do anything for me and wants to marry me after we graduate. I dated him because after 6 wks of knowing him, it got to the point where we couldn'... (151 words)

I think these signs mean that Mike likes me too...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7014 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I really like this guy I have worked with for about 9 months. We will call him Mike. We used to have this really strange relationship where we just picked on each other constantly, and then slowly I started having feelings for him. I was wondering if the feelings were mutual. H... (158 words)

Is having a "connection" on the same level as those Three Little Words..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7013 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - My bf told me he felt a connection with me while we were on a ferris wheel in an amusement park. I felt confused because I felt it was too early in the relationship for him to say anything like that to me--I almost thought that equated to those other three words and that ... (71 words)

Orgasm questions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7013 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - Is there a difference bewteen an orgasm and a climax? What about if you can't get an orgasm vaginally? And is it true that anal sex is dangerous? ... (28 words)

I'm not sure I can express the feelings I have for the man I think I love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7014 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I have been dating this guy for two years now off and on because of our differences. The way I was raised I don't really know what love is so I am not sure how to handle these feelings that are going on inside me. If what I feel is love, how do I express it to this man that I ... (117 words)

My ex is more responsible now and I want him back. Has he really changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7014 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I was dating this guy (for almost 4 years) who moved in with me and we have 2 wonderful children (ages 2 and 3). We are no longer together and he lives with someone else and her 3 kids, but continues to tell me he loves me and our children and wants us to raise our children ... (168 words)

My man and I have been together 10 years, but I'm still in love with my husband...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7013 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I lost my virginity and got pregnant by my high school sweetheart. We only lived together a little over a year. We we were just too young to handle everything then, we split up. I filed for divorce and he refused to sign the papers. This is about 19 years ago. Since then I ... (172 words)

Four years with my husband, and suddenly: No sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7014 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - I hope this is for real. I'm desperate for advice! My husband and I have been together 4 years and suddenly: "no sex". He never caresses or kisses me. I have tried to ignore it when we do try and he can't keep it up but the last time I felt cheap and betrayed. Don't know why! ... (89 words)