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writes: I have known this guy from my drama class and we have been friends (Not best friends or anything) since we were 10 (14 now) and we walk home together after drama and its great and we get on well.Trouble is, I have started to have uh...feelings for him lately and its really hard as I like him a lot and he has no clue. Sometimes I don't even know why I like him as he can be a real idiot sometimes, for example, when I was trying to do an acting duologue and he started laughing. (And this wasnt a funny piece)Also, when we walk home together he tells me about all the girls he likes and asks me for advice about them, and its really hard as I don't know what to say.Should I tell him I like him? if so HOW!? I have never told someone I like them before...Sorry this is quite long, but any help is greatly appreciated!
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reader, kt  +, writes (10 October 2005):
 he sounds to me he could be more than just a friend, more like a best friend. it might not be clear at first, but think about it.
you said that he laughts at you, i dont know about you but when i am with my friends and if she is doing somthing in front of an audients, i will always giggle at her to try and put her off.
and i always ask my friends for advise on relationships and stuff.
maybe he wants to get closer to you as a friend becaues he likes you in the same way you like him. maybe he is too shy to ask you out, so he wants to get closer. there is probley only too ways you can find out, and that is to ask him or hes friends. but if i was you i would wait till the signs get more promising, or you will emmbarrace your self, lol.
if you want him to know how you feel, the best way to do it is,
tell somebody who you know will tell him, and when he asks or one of his friends ask, say "no, well i dont know" and smile, that way the idea will be in his and you being misterious, will be in his head all day!
good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2005): next time you are alone with him like walking home then ask him how he sees you and him this way you will get how he feels about you, altho he may find it hard to be honest with you regarding this so you may find that just telling him how you feel not only will inform him of your feelings but also will get your feelings off your chest and know whether you should move on and start to get over your feelings for him.
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reader, pops +, writes (9 October 2005):
The next time he asks you about other girls, ask him if he likes you? At least you will make him think about you as more than just company on the walk home. If he has any brains, the question will tell him you like him. If he is as slow as you say, then you may just have to tell him, or show him. There is a great scene in the movie, To Catch a Thief, where Cary Grant Walks Grace Kelly to her room. At the door, she suddenly turns and kisses him. Then says nothing and goes into her apartment and closes the door. He is left speechless. Up until then she had been the ice princess around him. Works for me.
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