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writes: I lost my virginity and got pregnant by my high school sweetheart. We only lived together a little over a year. We we were just too young to handle everything then, we split up. I filed for divorce and he refused to sign the papers. This is about 19 years ago. Since then I have lived with 3 different men and had child by 2 of them. I don't feel the way I do about their fathers as I do about my husband. I have always loved him. The man I am with now I love too. Although we have no children together. We have been together for 10 years, and he is good to me and to my children. My husband calls me ever year to say Happy Anniversary. He called this morning and said Happy 20th Baby.I hope you have a great day. Is it possible to love 2 men?Who should I spend my life with.
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reader, pops +, writes (9 October 2005):
I don't know where you live, but in most countries, today, not twenty years ago, you don't need your husband's permission to get divorced. See a new lawyer, and terminate that marriage for both of your sakes. Yes, you can be in love with two people, but you will not love both of them the same, unless you are a very shallow, and stupid person. You will always have a place in your heart for past loves. Accept that, and move on. Put your energy into the relationship with the man you are with.
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