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writes: I would like to have a G Spot orgasm. I've been very close of having an orgasm by only stimulating the G Spot with a partner at intercourse or with his hands, but I've never been able to reach a full orgasm without stimulating the clitoris at the end. I tried to explore all the sensitive areas around this point myself but I still don't know how to get an orgasm with only the G Spot. Any females who succeeded please let me know how... Thanks.
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reader, Rommana +, writes (10 October 2005):
Right - 1st thing don't try to hard it's so frustrating when you don't get that feeling,the best orgasm you can get is all by yourself,all i can say it spend some time on your own,buy a vibrator if needed - not to put it inside you but to caress the outside of you vagina and explore yourself be relaxed and always love your body regardless of size or shape.Touch yourself in all places gently and keep touching until you get aroused.Try trusting again someting until you get the tingle then work with that feeling,sounds embarrassing but so what!It's all great if you can find your own pleasure think how mind blowing it'll be to show your man,
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reader, Rommana +, writes (10 October 2005):
Right - 1st thing don't try to hard it's so frustrating when you don't get that feeling,the best orgasm you can get is all by yourself,all i can say it spend some time on your own,buy a vibrator if needed - not to put it inside you but to caress the outside of you vagina and explore yourself be relaxed and always love your body regardless of size or shape.Touch yourself in all places gently and keep touching until you get aroused.Try trusting again someting until you get the tingle then work with that feeling,sounds embarrassing but so what!It's all great if you can find your own pleasure think how mind blowing it'll be to show your man,
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reader, schlottjl  +, writes (10 October 2005):
 Usually, it occurs through intercourse since it is so out of reach. (JIK- it is about a full finger up and to the front and feels like a rough patch on the wall of your vaginal canal.)
You can try a vibrator. However, in my opinion, our bodies have these erog. zones and we all have something like a weighted scale of usability for each area. A clitoral O vs a G spot O is basically the same thing as far as feeling goes.
And what a trooper. Conquering you sexuality like a real soldier. Perhaps if you tried to relax and enjoy the person you are with, it could sneak up on you and take you by surprise.
As a woman, I also think that our O's are mental first and if the mind is ready, the rest of the mechanical stuff is only then possible. (This is what men really don't get _ Not Size_ romance!) If you are under 30 years old you may not succeed no matter what you do. If you don't trust your partner, it will be next to impossible. The first is because we hit our prime in our mid thirties. (Men at about 18)
I suggest trying a vibrator and not caring so much about exact how’s and where’s as much as focusing on what feels good and giving yourself a break. You can totally enjoy sex and build to increasingly pleasurable encounters as you mature. That is how our bodies are made. Mens were made to O every time and ours are doing well (preforming) so long as we lube and are having fun. In fact, about 20% or more (possibly 33%) will NEVER have a real O. There are many reasons for this and you can look it up (but the main reason is that men must in order for the survival of the species and there is no biological reason for women to ever.) You are much less likely to do so when it is your sole focus.
In fact if you think about it, that is a very good thing. Men hit prime young and women older. Men cum quickly and women NOT. Men go once and must reload, women go in waves and might not actually hit the very, very top, but they will get close. And if you ask me, that is good enough for today. It gives us something to aspire to... Besides, I used to think I had them all the time but since there is not real evidence one way or another (unless you have hyper-glandular secretion,) You never can really know for sure until you top it. I was sooooooo naieve. It hit me all at once at about the age of 33. Every thing felt different and I have been with my bf (at the time) for 8 years. No change except time passing. So I am happy to just focus on him and what we want and how we feel. The more we relax and trust, the better it gets (and it will be 10 years together in 10 more days!)
If your boyfriend thinks you not having one is a problem, share this with him. Nothing is wrong with a slow building of the fun.
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