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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why can't my folks just accept that I love another man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6974 days ago

6 October 2005 (M) - I'm in a relationship with a man with whom i want to spend the rest of my life with , and he feels the exact same way. If society didn't have such a negative view of homosexuality i would walk down the street holding his hand and declairing my love for him on tree tops. Howe... (499 words)

Can I make her chase me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6981 days ago

6 October 2005 (M) - I know right now, that the girl I'm talking to and I'm very interested in, is what I'm after. She is what I desire. Through some research, I've learned that it should be her after me, so she will actively desire to be and talk with me. How do I go about making this happen?... (55 words)

My new guy is so much better than my ex. So why do I still want my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - dear cupid I am a 20 year old girl and I have some relationship problems. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and started dating a new guy. The new guy is totally different from my ex, all the things that I wanted from my ex but I miss my ex so much and want to get back wit... (67 words)

Want to do a threesome with another girl. Good idea or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - I had brought the idea of having a threesome to my boyfriend. I have been with girls before and it doesn't bother me. He said that it could be fun and asked if I wanted him to join or stay out of it. I told him to join. We have spoke to the other girl and she like the idea as ... (88 words)

I'm afraid my future husband will be turned off by my scar and stretch marks...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6975 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - I'm 16 years old and I am still a virgin. Well see, this is how it is, I'm saving myself till marriage. The thing is though, when I do get married I don't want my husband to see my body because I think my body is ugly. I have stretch marks on my sides, not that you can really ... (150 words)

He's said he's not sure he loves me any more. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6982 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - I have 3 kids and recently my told me he's not sure he wants to be with me or not. Also he's not sure if he loves me or not. Please help me understand why or what I should do. I love him so much. I don't want to lose him. Thank you for some help.... (58 words)

Was she telling the truth about no longer enjoying sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6936 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - Hello, I have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly 2 years. We have overcome a lot to get to where we are today, but as of late we have been arguing about everything and anything and last night during a heated row my partner said to me that she'd had enough of ... (316 words)

Eight years ago, he thought I was "beautiful" and sexy. Now he says I just don't do it for him. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6967 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - I've been in a relationship for over 8 yrs. I really love my BF but am a bit disappointed in the way he allows me to be the man/women in the relationship. I feel I do everything. I would like to take a step back and let him look after me for a while but that'll never happen, ... (375 words)

Shouldn't I be able to bring my invited partner for the weekend, regardless of Mom's feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6985 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - My question involves dealing with my mother's disapproval of my 8-month gay relationship with Mary. My brother Tom has invited Mary and me to join him, his family and my parents for the weekend at his beach house. I am not yet out with anyone in my family except Mom. I would ... (144 words)

He told me he wasn't friends with his ex. Then I found out they'd been emailing back and forth!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6984 days ago

6 October 2005 (F)

- Ok, I need to know if I'm overreacting or being just a normal woman on this. I've been dating someone for 7 months, but we were seeing each other for a 1 1/2 years before that. He told me how his ex cheated on him and I'm only his second girlfriend. Well, I thought that we ... (419 words)

My husband's affair with a much older woman has been going on for 4 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6984 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - I'm 23, my husband is 25. I found out he was having an affair with a 63-year-old woman who lives down the road with us after a friend who worked at a hotel told me he'd seen my husband kissing an old woman in the restaurant. I feel disgusted and sick. I also have a youn... (112 words)

His mum is controlling our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6985 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend's mother won't let us have a proper relationship. It has been four months now. I moved to another state to live with my boyfriend. He still lives with his mother and refuses to move out. She controls every aspect of his life, including when we talk. We're not ... (144 words)

Stay with my very possessive guy? Or try to have a go with the new man who keeps SMSing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6985 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - I'm 21 year old, going out with this guy I lost my virginity to in 2002. I love the guy but he is too busy to spend time with me let alone to call me. I've tried telling him to let go but he just become too possessive and tells me our contract will be terminated by death. L... (128 words)

My girlfriend found out about my sexual past and now she thinks I'm a "whore"!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6983 days ago

6 October 2005 (M) - I am a 27 yr old male and my girlfriend is 21. We have been together for 8 months. I have been with 35 partners and she has been with 6. We continue to have problems with the fact that I have been with more people than her. I always reassure her that she means more to me than ... (181 words)

I've told my boyfriend the truth now, but he still thinks I'm hiding things and lying to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6985 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - I just met my boyfriend about three months ago. We met on-line on a singles dating service. We started dating seriously after two weeks but before we started dating I told him that I had lied to him about the number of sexual partners I had in my past. He was very upset th... (336 words)