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writes: I was dating this guy (for almost 4 years) who moved in with me and we have 2 wonderful children (ages 2 and 3). We are no longer together and he lives with someone else and her 3 kids, but continues to tell me he loves me and our children and wants us to raise our children together. We broke up due to his lack of responsibility- spending every penny he got a hold of and draining us financially. Now he works hard, saves money and stays home too. He used to stay out all night when he was with me, now he doesn't. I love this man and yes, having children together makes me want to try even more. I asked if we could try again. He says he'll try to do more with us, but then we don't see him for days, sometimes weeks. What do I do? Do I just think I want him back?
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reader, princessgirl1984 +, writes (9 October 2005):
Being with someone that long gave you this feeling of comfort that you may now miss. I can't tell you whether you geninuely want him back or just think you do.... that is a question only you can answer. You do have to realize though that getting back together with him and then it not working out for some reason could wind up hurting your children in the long run. You must be careful of this in your ultimate decison. I say trust your instincts and your heart and they will always lead you to the right thing. If he says he has changed that is one thing, but you must see this in his actions and if you don't right now then don't do it.
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