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anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid,Please give me some insight into a woman’s thought process. What does it really mean when a woman tells a guy “They are really busy” or “They have a lot on their mind” while they are dating. What should a guy do if this is what they are told? How should one take this? Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 November 2005):
 “They are really busy” translates "quit bugging me"
“They have a lot on their mind”translates "quit bugging me"
Clear enough?
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female
reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (10 November 2005):
 It's the nicest way she can think of to say "I'm sorry, but we don't really match in ways that are important to me". She's not interested in continuing dating, but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, either.
Bear in mind that she's only one person of millions of potential partners, so accept that she wasn't the right one for you and move on.
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female
reader, Bev Conolly +, writes (10 November 2005):
It's the nicest way she can think of to say "I'm sorry, but we don't really match in ways that are important to me". She's not interested in continuing dating, but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, either.
Bear in mind that she's only one person of millions of potential partners, so accept that she wasn't the right one for you and move on.
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female
reader, Topps +, writes (10 November 2005):
She is not interested in you! If she was, she wouldn't be 'too busy' and 'YOU would be on her mind' Keep looking ..this girl is not for you.
Good Luck
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