He wants to meet me but I am scared he will be disappointed. How do I stop thinking this way?
Q. I met this guy last summer,and we talk a lot on the phone and on the internet even still now this long on. He keeps saying he wants to meet up with me but also says he loves me so much and I'm so sexy, I'm scared he will be disapointed, and another ...
A. 7 February 2007: Oops my bad...you did say you met in the summer but we just assumed that you meant you met online on a certain website or something. You didn't say you met in person. ... (read in full...)
He wants to meet me but I am scared he will be disappointed. How do I stop thinking this way?
Q. I met this guy last summer,and we talk a lot on the phone and on the internet even still now this long on. He keeps saying he wants to meet up with me but also says he loves me so much and I'm so sexy, I'm scared he will be disapointed, and another ...
A. 7 February 2007: Well if you've already met him in person what are you worried about? LOL Stop with the insecurities already. Of course he won't be dissapointed. He's already met you, he knows what you're like already. There is nothing to worry about! :) Do you mean ... (read in full...)
I want to fall in love so bad, but I can't! Is thinking this way a hinderance?
Q. heya im 16 and me and my boyfriend have been datimg for over a month now, its going really well and for some reason i just really want to fall in love with him! I keep thinking to myself "i really just wanna fall in love with him cos everyone say...
A. 6 February 2007: Love is not instant, love is not guaranteed, love comes naturally. You can't force it, you can't rush it, you just have to let it be. Love comes in its own sweet time and when you least suspect it. But you'll know when it arrives.
Is he your firs... (read in full...)
He wants to meet me but I am scared he will be disappointed. How do I stop thinking this way?
Q. I met this guy last summer,and we talk a lot on the phone and on the internet even still now this long on. He keeps saying he wants to meet up with me but also says he loves me so much and I'm so sexy, I'm scared he will be disapointed, and another ...
A. 5 February 2007: Well if you're certain he loves you as you say then I don't think he'd be too dissapointed in you in any major way. If you really are worrying about it how about you take some pictures of yourself (recent ones) and send them to him. Or do you have ... (read in full...)
Is Valentine's Day important to girls?
Q. is valentines day important to girls? ...
A. 5 February 2007: Its not really that important to me but personally...just to be on the safe side you might wanna get your special lady friend a box of chocolates or something. Everyone is different, some think it's a big deal others think its just another day. But ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I am thinking of giving him my virginity on Valentine's Day! Got any sex tips?
Q. hello i 14 and still a virgin, by bf is 16 cummin on 17( not a virgin) i reali reali lyk im n we av been totching each other and so on, n he sed e wud neva kiss and tell (all his mates say e wodnt as well) i thinking of losin my virginity to him on ...
A. 2 February 2007: 14 is a bit young to be having sex. 4 months isn't really long ewnough to know a person well. I take it you want to loose your virginity to your boyfriend because you think he's the one? But how do you know that? it's only been 4 months. If you ... (read in full...)
My friends are all having sex and I've never even been kissed!
Q. I am 15 and i have never kissed a boy before. All my friends are now having sex and i have never even kissed one. They always tease me and i dont like being round them when they are talking about things like that. Do you have any suggestions about ...
A. 1 February 2007: Hi there. Please do not feel pressured into having sex just because all your friends are doing it. Can I also say that a lot of girls at that age lie abot what they have done sexually just to impress people and to look cool. So a lot of those girls ... (read in full...)
The look the lips the tits the taste... the hair the eye the skin the waist?
Q. What do you think are the ideal measurements for a woman? Such as height, bust, waist hips etc. ...
A. 1 February 2007: Very good answer by the anonymous male reader! I'm impressed. And to the other male I do wonder why not a lot of males have responded to this. ... (read in full...)
I get emotional about small things and fear being taken advantage of - how can I stop this behavior?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 25 years old guy and am planning to settle down. It seems i get emotional about small things and fear that i would be taken advantage of by people because of this. One big threat i have is that of getting forced to do something ...
A. 1 February 2007: Has anyone ever taken advantage of you before? If a woman has hurt you in the past that does not mean to say that every woman you date after that will do the same. You cannot let bad experiences put you off. Give yourself a chance and when a woman ... (read in full...)
I love him but I think he's ashamed of me!
Q. Hi, this is kind of embarassing. I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years, and he hasnt introduced me to any of his friends (he says he hardly sees them because he spends all his free time with me, which could be true). He also never includes ...
A. 31 January 2007: Why don't you try telling him how you are feeling? How is he ever going to know if you do not tell him? If he is upsetting you, he probably wouldn't want to do it on purpose and maybe he doesn't know what effect his actions are having on you.
B... (read in full...)
How do you get rid of bum hair?
Q. Hi I have a question. I need to know how to get rid of bum hair. It might sound stupid but I don't know how to remove it. Could someone help me please? ...
A. 31 January 2007: Stina? Willywombat when did I become Stina? lol. She must be on your mind. :P... (read in full...)
What perfume turns a guy on?
Q. What perfume turns a man on? I love cotton candy would guys like that? I have a new date and don't know what perfume guys really like. I heard it's better to go w/out, something about pheromones or something. Any ideas guys? ...
A. 30 January 2007: I'm a female but I do recommend: Carolina Herrera 'Chic.' It depends on the guy though, every guy has different tastes. But I think this one is nice, up to you if you wanna try it.... (read in full...)
How do you get rid of bum hair?
Q. Hi I have a question. I need to know how to get rid of bum hair. It might sound stupid but I don't know how to remove it. Could someone help me please? ...
A. 30 January 2007: The easy, pain free, Quick and relatively cheap way to do it is....HAIR REMOVAL CREAM. Takes 15 minutes max. Apply to area where there is unwanted hair (in this case your err..bum)and leave it on for 15 minutes or less and rinse off. Your skin will ... (read in full...)
The look the lips the tits the taste... the hair the eye the skin the waist?
Q. What do you think are the ideal measurements for a woman? Such as height, bust, waist hips etc. ...
A. 30 January 2007: In my opinion: Ideal would be whatever is healthy for that woman in particular. Ideal measurements cannot be applied to every woman as there are many individual differences and preferences. A generalisation cannot be made.
As long as the woma... (read in full...)
He wants to meet me but I told him such outrageous, huge lies about myself...how do I deal with this?
Q. hi, i've been speaking to a guy off the internet for almost 2 years, first we text for almost a year then we progressed to talking on the phone, over the past few weeks we've got really close and now this guy wants too meet me, which under normal ...
A. 28 January 2007: Ok well since you've spun yourself into such a tangled mess, the only way to get out of it is to confess. BUT do not confess everything. Tell him the picture wasn't you and tell him that you cannot meet with him because you only wanted it to be an ... (read in full...)
He used my best friend and he cheated on his gf...should I date him anyways?
Q. Dear Cupid... having a lil bit of trouble, i really like this guy ( I'm 16 and he is 14) and i know he likes me as he has told me he loves me, the thing is my best friend went out with him and he used her, now he has another gf and he cheated o...
A. 28 January 2007: Well liking a guy who cheated on his girlfriend with you is not a good start. If he cheated on her what makes you think he won't do it to you? I know you didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know he had a girlfriend at the time but if he'd do ... (read in full...)
I need tips on 'French-kissing.' I have no idea how to do it!
Q. hello me and my boyfriend have been together for a month now and i think im ready to kiss him (i mean with tongues). how far am i ment to put my tongue in his mouth? do i just put the tip of my tongue on his or do i put it fully in? thanks for the...
A. 28 January 2007: If in doubt, (even after this advice) you could always practice on your hand! The only guideline to follow with this method of practicing is: If there is too much spit on your hand, you ain't doin' it right.Wipe it off and try again.
Practice make... (read in full...)
I need tips on 'French-kissing.' I have no idea how to do it!
Q. hello me and my boyfriend have been together for a month now and i think im ready to kiss him (i mean with tongues). how far am i ment to put my tongue in his mouth? do i just put the tip of my tongue on his or do i put it fully in? thanks for the...
A. 28 January 2007: Kiss your boyfriend like normal and then slip your tongue into his mouth. Find his tongue and gently move your tongue up and down and side to side (touching his tongue all the while). Basically, play with eachothers tongues. But avoid the ... (read in full...)
I address my boyfriend as "sir" he seems to like this but everyone thinks he's controlling me. What do you think?
Q. Everyone thinks he over-powers me and tells me what to do, but that's not true! I call him 'sir', but that's of my own will. He'll call my name from the next room and I'll obnoxiously and jokingly answer 'Yessuh' or 'Sir.' and they look at me like ...
A. 27 January 2007: It's fine if you mean it in a joking way and if he actually isn't forcing you to say it. If you want to call him 'sir' you can, I don't see much wrong with that he is your boyfriend after all. It's the same way how other couples give eachother pet ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has gained weight, but if I say something she'll hate me! How do I tell her?!
Q. My girlfriend is gaining weight and won’t do anything about it. I need help with my communication. How can I help her? I have a wonderful girlfriend whom I’ve been dating now for the past 13 months. Since the day we met she has slowly been gaining ...
A. 26 January 2007: I see your point cd but I do disagree with you a little bit. I think he does love her but because he loves her he wants to see her looking her best. Very few like to admit it but appearance is very important. One of the main reasons for being ... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're ready for sex?
Q. How do you know if you are ready for sex? Because i want to and i feel like im ready but i have a really big problem with a fear of pain! ...
A. 25 January 2007: First of all how old are you? Second of all: A good indicator of being ready is not having to ask people on the internet. But I'm glad you asked. :)
Ok the pain part... It's really not that bad. Obviously it's not nice but it's not as bad as you'... (read in full...)
I have a crush on this really fit hockey player but I have no way of contacting him. Would it be wrong of me to get his email address from his coach?
Q. i met this guy awhile back at a hockey game, we saw each other but it was through a crowd of girls (he was one of the players and he's quite popular). He smiled at me (and i know it was at me because i was the only girl standing on that side)... and ...
A. 25 January 2007: Don't do he free website thing because it's not very likely that he'll search for it is it? You could get his email address from the coach but...wouldn't he a little weirded out that some random girl has got hold of his email address? In the same ... (read in full...)
I fancy my best friend/ex bf but he's got a new girlfriend now! What do I do?
Q. Well its pretty simple... I fancy my best frind who is also my ex. We went out for a few weeks in June then i split up with him. Since then he has been obsessed with me an after everything we are now best friends. But he started going out with s...
A. 25 January 2007: Maybe he's on the rebound, since you say he's obsessed over you. But also, maybe he and his new girlfriend are happy together and he just sees you as a friend now. Or is this a case of wanting him back now that someone else has him or do you ... (read in full...)
I'm a 16 year old virgin. How do I show my 19 year old boyfriend that I'm ready for sex?
Q. I'm nearly 16 and i have an older boyfriend who is 19, nearly 20. I'm still a virgin and he is very understanding of that and never pressures me into anything that i don't want to do. We've been together for 6 months, i trust him with my life, and i ...
A. 25 January 2007: Assuming that you're as ready as you say you are...You could indirectly flirt with him and be very suggestive or you could just talk to him about it and tell him you're ready. Say basically everything you've just said here and then see what he says. ... (read in full...)
I'm 11 and I'm worried..he never says he loves me! What's wrong?
Q. Hi. I am 11 years old and I am really upset. I asked my boyfriend to the movies. He said 'yeah, i was going to ask you anyway' so i got all excited, this being my first date with him, (i've been on others) but then he ruins the moment by telling me ...
A. 25 January 2007: What's your definition of love? Just because someone doesn't hold you during a scary movie does that automatically mean that that person doesn't love you? No. So from reading your post I think you are quite young and not old enough to really know ... (read in full...)
I don't wanna embarrass myself by asking him out, so how do I know he won't laugh and say no?
Q. Ive started in a new school, i like a lad, but I've just found out hes my best mates cousin in my old school, and everyone in my new school think hes a dick, i don't wanna embarrass myself by asking him out, how do i know he wont laugh?? and say ...
A. 25 January 2007: Well if you really like him then that's just a risk you'll have to take. I'm not sure if it's a good idea to go for the guy who everyone describes as a 'dick' but if you like him then go for it. Would you rather regret that you didn't ask him and ... (read in full...)
She was asked if she would date me and she said "eww no." Is this my fault??
Q. So... I think I've totally screwed up my chances with a girl, and want to know if there is ANY chance that she'll even consider dating me now. Thing is, she's apparantly a manipulator sort of. If she knows a guy likes her, she uses it to get t...
A. 25 January 2007: Please forget about her.She insulted you. When asked about dating you she replied "eew no." Now who would still want to be with a girl like that? She wasn't worth it. And she used you to do things for her. She doesn't seem like a very nice person ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get rid of the acne scarring left behind on my face?
Q. I have acne scarring and want to do something about it. It's not bumpy or anything, they're just red marks where serious spots were on my cheeks. Does anyone know of any treatments that work for this kind of scar? Thanks...
A. 24 January 2007: Ok, you're in the UK right? So go to Boots and buy "Palmer's Cocoa Butter Formula." It's a scar serum made with cocoa butter and shark liver oil. It sounds gross but it doesn't smell gross or look gross. It actually works. It costs £9.99 for a 3oml ... (read in full...)
My ex gf has moved on, she wants me to leave her alone. It hurts so bad! Help!
Q. me and my girlfriend broke up recently after 11 months, we fought a lot, bt we always seemed to make up. We both did things we weren't proud of, but recently she decided she wanted it to be over. She went out within a few days and has already kissed ...
A. 24 January 2007: You two have broken up now so she doesn't need your permission to kiss other guys. Sad but true. You have to accept it. You're not doing yourself any favours by hanging on to her when she's already let you go. The last thing you want to do is make ... (read in full...)
I used fake pics on myspace and met a guy. He knows the truth, but loves me for my personality. But now, he wants nothing to do with me.
Q. I recently met a fantastic man over the net (myspace) but i made the stupid mistake of using someone elses pics as im a little insecure on how i look! we chatted over the phone for 4 months and hes just found out about me lying over the ...
A. 24 January 2007: How can you love him if you've never even met him? What he's like on the internet might be completely different to what he is in real life. Or how you percieve him now, your opinion of him might change for the worse when you meet him in real life. ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know any websites regarding sex education or masturbation?
Q. I need help. I'm 20 live in the UK and have had virtually no sex education. It was poorly talked about in class, and I'm too embarrassed to talk to my parents about it. Can anyone give any websites about sex ed, masturbating etc....
A. 24 January 2007: Why don't you do a google search or ask jeeves? Then you can pick out the best ones. ... (read in full...)
I feel inadequate after seeing a photograph of my boyfriend's ex. But am I just being silly?
Q. I've been in a reltionship with my boyfriend for 4 months. We love each other very much, and I am completely open with him. His last relationship was with a girl that lasted 2 years, and they were engaged. He told me he broke up with her because he ...
A. 23 January 2007: Hey, don't feel bad. He's with you now. He dumped her for a reason. I'm sure there are loads of good qualities about you that he couldn't find in her. and I'm pretty sure your boyfriend isn't shallow enough to date someone because of the material ... (read in full...)
During sex, when a guy goes too deep it really hurts. Is this normal?
Q. Does anyone know what if this is normal or not? When i have sex its fine but if they push too hard or especially too deep inside me it really really hurts! i have recently had a full STI/STD screening and everything come back negative....so i dont ...
A. 23 January 2007: Yes you are normal and this is normal. If a guy goes too deep or too far it will hurt. It's not really your fault he just needs to be a bit more gentle and know when he's hurting you. And also if he has a particularly 'long john' it is almost ... (read in full...)
During sex I enjoy being urinated on. Am I strange?
Q. Hi, I'm a girl in my twenties and I get very aroused when a guy urinates on me. I've seen it in porn and find it quite arousing. My boyfriend and I have tried it once and I enjoyed it very much. Am I strange? Can anyone else relate to this? Is ...
A. 22 January 2007: Like I always say..."If it turns you on, then ain't nothing wrong." Well to an extent. lol I wouldn't do it but that's just me and everyone is different so go ahead and do what you do. You're not hurting anyone so as far as I can see there is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has changed for the worse. Please help me I'm so confused!
Q. dear cupid, i had this hard time with my boyfriend for 7 months and as time goes by, he changes. like he used to call me and send me text messages almost everyday, but now he just sends me messages twice a day and gets angry when i send h...
A. 22 January 2007: What should you do? You should talk to him and tell him how you are feeling and ask him why he has changed. Communication. There must be a reason for why he is acting like this and you want to know what the reason is right? So ask him. By the ... (read in full...)
He's seems really interested in her, but he denies it! Should I break up with him?
Q. I think my boyfriend is interested in this girl. I have seen on his computer that he searched for her information, and i asked him why. He told me that he just wanted to know what kind of volunteer or fund raising that she did. But I don't think he ...
A. 22 January 2007: To break up with him would be a bit drastic but you're right, he shouldn't really be taking such an interest in this girl if he's with you. Another thing... You shouldn't really be looking at what he does on the internet. That's the equivalent to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cries in public !
Q. Last night whilst out for a meal, my girlfriend of just over a year began too cry randomly. This is now the second time she has cried in public and the fourth she has cried in front of me. I had not seen her for a week before this so had obviously ...
A. 22 January 2007: She can't keep crying about little things like this. It's ridiculous. There has to be some reason behind it. No grown woman is silly enough to cry over little things so easily. And I don't think your girlfriend is silly I just think there is ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and having Quads ..please help !
Q. i was with my boyfriend daniel for 1 year. and last year when i was 13 we decided to have sex. we used the pull-out method but it obviously didn't work. i kept on being sick so dad took me to the doctors. that was when they told me that i was ...
A. 20 January 2007: Visit your nearest clinic or book an appointment with a doctor and tell them about your situation. Since you're in the UK and if you're not sure where your nearset doctors is maybe you should look in the yellow pages for a doctor or call 118-118. A ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cries in public !
Q. Last night whilst out for a meal, my girlfriend of just over a year began too cry randomly. This is now the second time she has cried in public and the fourth she has cried in front of me. I had not seen her for a week before this so had obviously ...
A. 20 January 2007: Ok Ponungalungb...It's official. I'm the only female in the world who doesn't get PMS. No seriously, I think I am (that's probably why I'm not as understanding). This is just my opinion but... I think SOME women use it as an excuse to lash out or ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cries in public !
Q. Last night whilst out for a meal, my girlfriend of just over a year began too cry randomly. This is now the second time she has cried in public and the fourth she has cried in front of me. I had not seen her for a week before this so had obviously ...
A. 20 January 2007: She's got issues. Do not blame yourself for her problems. She is the one with the problem. I think she is being really attention seeking and she just wants pity, smypathy and attention so that she can feel loved. That's the only reason why I think ... (read in full...)
Why can't I experience orgasms like the girls in porn? Any thoughts?
Q. I keep watching porn and seeing these girls come loads! I mean like waterfalls of come! Is this real or fake? Why can't I do it? Thanks...
A. 20 January 2007: You do know that porn is sometimes fake right? It's like watching any other movie- it has special effects. It's not 100% real. That's the thing with porn it gives us unrealistic (sometimes unattainable) expectations and wants. Appreciate who you are ... (read in full...)
Why do girls back off from me? Any advice?
Q. Hi. I have had issuses with my love life i dont seem to be able to hook up with someone.Recently i met this girl i tot we would hit it off , all of a sudden she backs out for no reason at all.....such has been the story of my life. Now i there is ...
A. 20 January 2007: Just because a girl didn't like you in the past doesn't mean girls won't like you in the future. Don't judge this girl based on what happened before you met her. If you have negative expectations the chances of things turning out negative will ... (read in full...)
I'm a terrible housekeeper and I need tips...badly!
Q. I was diagnosed some years back with attention deficit disorder...it has not be a big hindrance to me professionally but I have paid a price in my private life. I struggle with keeping my condo neat and clean...no matter what I do I cannot seem to ...
A. 20 January 2007: Well you should do the cleaning in little chunks. When you notice something doesn't look too tidy then clean it at that moment (if you can). Don't give yourself too much tasks to do at one time. And when you put things 'down' try and put them ... (read in full...)
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