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writes: Ive started in a new school, i like a lad, but I've just found out hes my best mates cousin in my old school, and everyone in my new school think hes a dick, i don't wanna embarrass myself by asking him out, how do i know he wont laugh?? and say no?? x-sid-x
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (25 January 2007):
 Well if you really like him then that's just a risk you'll have to take. I'm not sure if it's a good idea to go for the guy who everyone describes as a 'dick' but if you like him then go for it. Would you rather regret that you didn't ask him and have the 'what if' question stuck in your mind OR would you rather be totally embarrassed and feel rejected if he says no? Which one is worse? If he rejects you then you can just move on from him and feel better knowing that everyone thought he was a 'dick' anyway. So it won't be the end of the world if he does say no. It's not like there aren't other better guys you can date right? So think about it and make your decison.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (24 January 2007):
 You can't know that he won't laugh and say no but if he laughs he's obviously not mature enough to be with a great girl like you. There are no guarantees in love. Sometimes you're rejected and sometimes you're accepted but you'll never be accepted if you don't try. If he laughs you're embarassed for a few seconds and then you move on.
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