Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?
Q. Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...
A. 23 October 2009: Hi there! Ok i'd like to point out my computer is being a complete turtle head and wont let me write anything on here! I've tried 3 times now to reply to your question and my answer doesn't seem to be showing. I'd like to give you some advic... (read in full...)
Why am I attracted to my guitar teacher and older men?
Q. I have a crush on my teacher. He is my guitar teacher and he is awesome and we have so much in common. He does private lessons with me and my best friend and I had a dream yesterday that my best friend was ill and he tought me on my own. He put his ...
A. 27 September 2009: Hi there, Yes it is normal! Just look at all the other questions on here, very similar to yours. http://www.dearcupid.org/keyword/my%20teacher Just look at all of those. It is very normal. Most young girls go through this. You probab... (read in full...)
Falling for my long ago ex-history teacher...is this wrong?
Q. Sorry if this is long...Four years ago, I graduated from a small blended middle/high school in Tennessee. I moved to New York for college, and while I was there, I lost a lot of weight. I look a lot more attractive now than I used to. A couple of ...
A. 19 September 2009: Oooh
I didn't read the age thing. I just assumed you were older because you said you'd left school. ... (read in full...)
Falling for my long ago ex-history teacher...is this wrong?
Q. Sorry if this is long...Four years ago, I graduated from a small blended middle/high school in Tennessee. I moved to New York for college, and while I was there, I lost a lot of weight. I look a lot more attractive now than I used to. A couple of ...
A. 19 September 2009: Hey there,
No this relationship is not wrong, it's perfectly fine!
Although some people will not reccomend it, or they just may not like the idea. It isn't wrong. You're attracted to who you're attracted to. And because you've left school, fou... (read in full...)
Attracted to teacher way more than I should be
Q. I am 16, and I have always had an issue with falling for the wrong guy. I've never had an issue called 'True Love' until my freshmen year when I fell for a jr, ever since then I haven't been able to stop thinking about him even though I moved aw...
A. 30 August 2009: Hi there, yes I have fallen for a teacher before. And let me tell you, it was bliss, I enjoyed every moment of it. NOT because anything happened between he and I, but because of the things he made me feel. I was happy to go to school just t... (read in full...)
Was he interested, and I shot him down?
Q. Was he interested and I shot him down? I was taking private lessons at a school and I started to become attracted to my teacher (were both adults). I thought maybe he was too, but was not sure. I never knew if he was being nice because he was my t...
A. 23 August 2009: Hi there,
well it definitely sounds like he may have been interested.
Usually when a man mentions that he likes saying your name, or says it a lot implies that he has an attraction towards you.
Although it doesn't give him the right to be... (read in full...)
I want to continue my friendship with my teacher but I want it to work romantically too!
Q. I love a teacher of mine. I wasn't even sure what the feeling was until my mom identified it. (I talk about him with her; my age difference with my teacher is the same as my mom's with my dad.) He's 12- 13 years older than me, but even so, we conn...
A. 22 July 2009: Hi there
Sorry but I don't know that you've read all of the questions about teacher/student relationships because i'm quite sure there have been answers to what you're going through.
I'm glad you don't want to get him into trouble, that's ... (read in full...)
He's not my teacher anymore but I cannot stop thinking about him
Q. Hey ... I wrote on here about a year ago that I was leaving my school and couldn't imagine being without my class teacher who was my rock during my last 2 years of high school. I went through a huge depression and he was absolutly fantastic - supp...
A. 12 June 2009: We could all tell you to get a life, that it's just a teenage stage-which it might be.
But you're the only one who can know what you truly feel, when you're older you will look back and understand what this is.
As for now-he isn't your teach... (read in full...)
What should I do to be friends with my teacher?
Q. Sorry it's a bit looong.. Well, I have already finished my last year of high school, there are only some exams to take, but I have a minor crush on a teacher (or not really a crush, I just like him). He's 20 years my senior, has a wife and two kid...
A. 12 May 2009: Hey there
you haven't missed anything if you have his email. You can always email him and just ask how he's doing.
But just send him an email and say something like
" I'd like to keep in touch." Or something in your own words.
If you pre... (read in full...)
My heart is stuck on my teacher.
Q. I guess im stuck. Just out of luck. He's going to retire, and I don't know what to do. This isn't some question on what I should do to stop him, this is something about me. I can't live without him. Mr.Syre, the most amazing man of my life, tho...
A. 7 May 2009: Hey there
So he's retiring soon?
I understand how you feel, and it will be very hard for you to let go.
I know these feelings will play on you and make you feel regret for quite some time.
You could always speak to him in person and apolo... (read in full...)
Told my teacher I love him. What should I do?
Q. Today in math class my friend and I was to lazy to get up and get are paper to our math teacher. Then the other was in there so we asked him to give it to her and he said no you guys are always mean to me. He said we need to be nice then he will. So ...
A. 24 April 2009: Yeah
don't fret, i'm sure a lot of people say it to their teachers.
He probably didn't take it seriously, as everyone else said.
:)... (read in full...)
Stress is really taking a toll on me..should I talk to my teacher?
Q. I am 15 years old and I have really been finding the past few terms at school difficult. I have a lot of stress from exams and courcework (who doesn't!!) and I have a friend who is currently very ill at the moment. I have tried to do everything I ...
A. 18 April 2009: Ok I understand what you're going through, I really do.
But you're going to pull through this.
Yes you could talk to your teacher if you trust them enough and you feel you can express yourself to them. BUt they're likely to suggest you spea... (read in full...)
Family problems and how to tell teacher she is my "mother figure"
Q. Hi, I;m 15 and my family is going through a rough time. Always fighting now. one of our close family friends died last month and our best friends got divorced. My parents are always fighting. Alot of it gets pinned on me. I really want to reach...
A. 17 April 2009: Ok motherly figures are hard to come by when in the situation you yourself is in, but teachers are not the best kind of parental figures... You need to try and connect with your family, make sure your concerns are heard, and you need to speak to... (read in full...)
Is this real? He's my ex high school teacher
Q. Back in high school I had this crush on one of my teachers. I had him as a teacher for 2 years. I tried not to think to much of it but I became really close with him. I found myself taking 3 periods of his classes just to be with him. I never ...
A. 13 April 2009: Hey there, I'm sure you know this man better then any of us-so it's hard to give you our complete opinion, when we don't have a proper one. But from what you've said, he sounds like a decent guy, although he was your teacher, he isn't any more-... (read in full...)
My teacher winks at me. Does it mean he likes me?
Q. Hi, I am kind of confused when it comes to men, so I don't really know what the case is with this. I'm in art school, and I had this teacher in one class last semester who recommended that I take another one he was teaching this year. So I did. I h...
A. 5 April 2009: He may have some romantic feelings towards you but it's hard to tell with the men in this society today-so he could just be being his friendly casual self, or he's flirting with you. Just let it happen, I mean if he does something that clearly ind... (read in full...)
My teacher who I fancy
Q. so i fancy my teacher. he is older than me by quite a margin. i am confused and dont know what to do. he found out i fancied him on a school trip abroud last year from my friends. he smiles at me in the corridors now. he also now notices me more. ...
A. 4 April 2009: Well sounds like there's a bit of subtle flirting going on, and not so subtle.
So i'm guessing he likes you a fair bit. But as you probably know there are a lot of consequences to what you're doing-Sure it could just be the type of people you are ... (read in full...)
Help! I'm in love with my teacher! Please don't try to talk me out of telling him
Q. Hi everyone! I'm fourteen years old and in eighth grade and I am totally in love with my math/advisory teacher (At my school, advisory is a class you go to for fifteen minutes at the beginning of the day and do activities and stuff). I've had a crus...
A. 1 April 2009: Hey there- I know exactly how you feel, you're getting extremely angry at anyone who tells you what you're feeling is just a crush and that nothing can ever happen. Yes something could happen but there's a 99 percent chance it wont. I wa... (read in full...)
Unfortunately, I love him, and that feeling isn't going to go away. What do I do here?
Q. Hi. I am 18 years old and I have liked my teacher since I was 12. I can say honestly and genuinely this is not a wind up or fantasy. I am going to share this in the hope that i might get some advice for myself and also warn others of the potentia...
A. 26 February 2009: OK so I think most of the answers on here are right...Whats been happening is innappropriate. But I suppose we all experience these things throughout our life at some stage, and you need to go with your heart not your head-You learn lessons this way ... (read in full...)
How did you get over your teacher, if you have been in my shoes?
Q. Hey You may remember me from this... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fallen-for-my-math-teacher.html if not then read that and your will get up-to-speed. Anyway.. this post is just an additional cry for help really.. I really cannot...
A. 23 February 2009: Ok well we really can't help you all too much, because everyone deals with these situations differently and it's what you think is best that actually works. MY advice because i've been through this as well is-Just go through with these feelings, ... (read in full...)
I'm replacing Mr. B for Mr. A
Q. Last June, my high school closed down due to lack of enrollment. It upset me, and honestly, I'm still having a hard time adjusting to the new environment of the high school I am attending now. My friend and I had to go our separate ways. This friend ...
A. 11 January 2009: I know exactly what you're going through, i'm actually going through the exact same thing except mine is through mid stage now.
All I can say is, for now you will probably get to know Mr B a lot more and shortly realize that he's nothing like Mr ... (read in full...)
A bit too close for comfort.
Q. Hi. Im a sorry that this is so long but it is really urgent and I could do with the help. Please take the time to read! I thought Id ask to see what people on here think I should do. There is this lad at school (lets call him Fred Flinstone) and h...
A. 1 January 2009: Hey there, I would tell you to do what everyone else has advised you to do.
There isn't a lot you can do now because the emails are gone, if he does email you again and it's a serious email-Print it off immediatly and show the teachers that one... (read in full...)
I'm getting mixed signals from my teacher!
Q. Alright well..I really need an opinion on something that happen just this week. I get so many mixed signals from a former teacher of mine... I recently saw him after classes and we were just talking and then I had him help me with Math..I told, Ohh ...
A. 8 December 2008: Hey there,
I think whatever you choose to do will be fine. I think that something is bound to happen to bring you to closer together some time, and all I can say is goodluck-there is no point in trying to tell you what to do because you have to ... (read in full...)
I'm getting mixed signals from my teacher!
Q. Alright well..I really need an opinion on something that happen just this week. I get so many mixed signals from a former teacher of mine... I recently saw him after classes and we were just talking and then I had him help me with Math..I told, Ohh ...
A. 23 November 2008: Well from what it sounds like-he does like you but is shy. I think that if you have feelings for him, ask him if he wanted to join you for lunch or something? I don't know if you wanted to.
He seems attracted to you but I don't think he would sa... (read in full...)
How can I keep my teacher in my life?
Q. Ok well first off I will refer to my teacher as Mr. Chemistry because it's less confusing for me that way. Anyway, I have had this teacher for several years now and he is also my class advisor. We have grown pretty close and I spend almost eve...
A. 13 November 2008: Hello there :)
Look you have nothing to worry about. It's beautiful if you can find that kind of relationship with someone and i'm sure he feels the same way, really! I mean if you can have that kind of relationship with him and talk to him all ... (read in full...)
I liked my teacher in school but of course nothing could happen then. Now I'm 19, should I take a chance on going back to see him?
Q. So there is a teacher who is 8 years older than me which is not that bad and i like older guys anyway...hes a special ed teacher and he was NEVER my teacher when i went to high school. When I was in school we flirted and I felt like he payed more ...
A. 5 November 2008: Hey, seriously don't worry.
I'm so sorry that you missed him when you went back 20 minutes later!
BUT!
You should just email him and say-
" Hey, Sorry about leaving the other day. I came back but you weren't there, I just assumed I miss... (read in full...)
I liked my teacher in school but of course nothing could happen then. Now I'm 19, should I take a chance on going back to see him?
Q. So there is a teacher who is 8 years older than me which is not that bad and i like older guys anyway...hes a special ed teacher and he was NEVER my teacher when i went to high school. When I was in school we flirted and I felt like he payed more ...
A. 25 October 2008: HEllooo!
I think something could happen in the near future! he obviously does like you :). Try emailing him again and ask him how he's going...or something.
MAybe you could go and visit him?
But if you still have feelings for him don't g... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I still think about my old high school teacher?...
Q. Ok to put it as simple as I can. I graduated high school May of 2007. My junior year I had this teacher all year long for both 4th and 6th period. He was my favorite teacher. He was young, straight out of college, and really good looking. I mean how ...
A. 12 October 2008: Hello! First of all let me say, wow what a situation you have! Well not really. Simply it in all honesty is fine that you might have feelings for him, and him for you considering you have left school now. I think from what you've wri... (read in full...)
My teacher comforts me about my problems, I have started to see him as a man and not a friendly teacher, how can I help this?
Q. I am a 16 years old girl and is in love with my house teacher of a boarding school I live in. He is 38 years old, married, and has a 3 years old son. I was sad in my very first days in school, since I 'm not so fluent with the language of the coun...
A. 28 September 2008: Look no one can truly tell you what exactly to do, or how you should feel. These feelings are natural and they happen, you know very well that you cannot act upon these feelings because it can jeprodize him and yourself.
This does not mean tha... (read in full...)
Should I even risk it since he is, in a way, one of my teachers?
Q. I'm interested in the TA (teaching assistant) for one of my classes. We have a lecture session and then the discussion session for some of my classes. The TA directs and teaches the discussion session. He seems like the type of guy that I'd want...
A. 16 September 2008: Yes it is actually wrong to have a relationship with a teachers assistant. WEll not wrong it's just against the law, if he were to leave then yes you could pursue a relationship with him. Before you do anything though, try flirting with hi... (read in full...)
Is it possible for my husband to fall in love with me again?
Q. We've been married for 4 years. He has left because he says I have changed. He has moved into our other house. He says I am not the same fun, confident woman I was when we got married. I don't know what happened. I hadn't seen it until now. I can't ...
A. 2 September 2008: Hey there.
I am very sorry to hear about your situation-NO this doesn't happen to every woman or every marriage but sometimes it does.
In your case just give your husband some time, don't over think the situation. Marriage is a very hard thin... (read in full...)
A question for men about younger ladies ??
Q. Ok, soooooo... Well, to begin, I kind of really like my teacher... I know there are lots of questions about teacher-crushes on here but mine is different. I know nothing is ever gonna happen, he's happily married and has a baby. I just want to kn...
A. 15 August 2008: Well let me say this, all teachers are human. So in any case of coarse they might feel attracted to a student. Whether they act on that feeling or not is their desision. But yes they can feel attracted to a student, most teachers are unlikely to act ... (read in full...)
I'm being bullied again! What do I do?
Q. Hiya... I'm Being Bullied... AGAIN! The real bad thing is that they've started on my mate as well. I used to just ignore them, but today I went to sit with my friends and some not so friends and they told me, quite bluntly, to go and sit somewher...
A. 6 July 2008: Hey there, I think what most people suggested-talking to a close teacher or something about it could be good. But on the other hand that doesn't always work, usually the people you tell on just get even more angry and bully you more because they ... (read in full...)
Am I having feelings for my teacher because he looks like my ex?
Q. To start with i'm 16. The thing is I have a student teacher in my math class and i'm guessing hes about 25 at the most. Anyway i broke up with my boyfriend at christmas and my teacher looks the spits of him, like he has the same hair and facial ...
A. 11 June 2008: No one can really tell you who you have the feelings for only suggest...It sounds like you may be attracted to your teacher because of the similarities...Then again i'm sure your teacher has some different qualities to your ex-or in time you will ... (read in full...)
Is he just being friendly or is it more ??
Q. i have a thing for my teacher... well it all started off when i started my new school. i spotted a teacher that a few people liked, well 1 or 2 to be honest + me at 1st, he was just a normal teacher i used to get into touble with him, but he used...
A. 24 May 2008: Well I think he definetely has feelings for you. He might be being a little more then friendly, it's not right for teachers to do that. but if you truly have feelings for him let him know at the end of the year, or just keep talking to him and see ... (read in full...)
Please help! Should I tell this amazing man and teacher how I feel if/when I leave school, despite there being a chance that I may be coming back?
Q. I appreciate that there are many posts on here about teacher/student relationships. Please do read this is may appear to be long but I would really appreciate the help! I also have a serious problem with my ex-teacher which has been escalating ...
A. 7 May 2008: awww thats so cute he's such a gentle man!. I understand how hard it is to do your exams when there around because you just cant stop thinking about them, but just tell him when you leave because seriously it will be easier for you. No trouble for u ... (read in full...)
How do I make my teacher kiss me?
Q. how can i get my teacher to kiss me or like be in a relationship with me as im in love with him and i would love to share a kiss with him. im 16 and im leaving in june and i want to share a kiss or more with him at the last day. ...
A. 20 April 2008: Well i would say you shouldn't like most people have suggested on here, but knowing most teenage girls and i do because i am one, you probably wont give up.
And if you're going to do this make sure that he feels the same way because it will be ... (read in full...)
I see my teacher as a regular man with feelings so I don't idealize him. Should I wait to tell him my feelings?
Q. hey i know this is the usual because many girls post this but im 17 and in 11th grade in love with my History teacher (30).... this all started 31/2 years ago....in 9th i would just see him teach lessons in his room....and i thought about nothing ...
A. 20 April 2008: Ok well it sounds like you really care deeply for him. And don't even waste your energy on the other girl. This is your life and about you and him if you want something to be there then forget about her and focus on getting to know him better. Don't ... (read in full...)
I fantasise about my teacher... should I tell him?...
Q. hiii well i'm a student and im 15 taking my GCSEs and im going to be leaving school in june and going to a diff college. Anyways i really like my english teacher but i'm not sure what to do, i really do like him ive even had dreams which repeat the...
A. 20 April 2008: If you're leaving then sure tell him i'm sure he's felt something similar! womans instincts are always strong when it comes to feelings, hopefully he feels the same way and goodluck.... (read in full...)
Please help! Should I tell this amazing man and teacher how I feel if/when I leave school, despite there being a chance that I may be coming back?
Q. I appreciate that there are many posts on here about teacher/student relationships. Please do read this is may appear to be long but I would really appreciate the help! I also have a serious problem with my ex-teacher which has been escalating ...
A. 20 April 2008: Well I think you should tell him...but i'm not exactly sure I mean he could think of it as a father daughter relationship but then again I could be wrong. Only you could really know what he feels about you if not then ask him...and then see what he ... (read in full...)
Please help me out here, I am totally obsessed with my teacher!!
Q. I know there's tons of questions under this topic, but here its goes. I'm sixteen, and absolutely crazy about a teacher in my high school. It's become so bad, i's taken over my life. I can never stop thinking about him. It started about a year ...
A. 20 April 2008: Hmmm i say don't give up because when you do it can make you really depressed....you may or may not understand.anyways, i think if you really really like him then keep sending him small messages that you care, talk to him more. get to know ... (read in full...)
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