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Midnightsama13
writes:I guess im stuck.Just out of luck.He's going to retire, and I don't know what to do. This isn't some question on what I should do to stop him, this is something about me.I can't live without him. Mr.Syre, the most amazing man of my life, though he is one exceptionaly hot health teacher, he's something more than that to me.He was the first male teacher to ever look at me, and talk about other things, and want to talk with me evven when class was over. He stopped kids from being rude to me when i was near him. He was like an angel.Kid's found out about me liking him, they made fun of me, asked me distugsting, rude things about what I would want to do with him, like would I have sex with him, and other nasty things, when he was near me. It hurt a lot for me to physically have to endure the way he looked at me when he thought that's all I ever wanted from him.But now since it's the end, and i'll never get to see him again. I feel dead in side, Iv'e een crying my eyes out for the past two weeks, clutching a pillow to my chest. My heart tells me to be with him, but my brain is telling me it will never happen, it can't happen, and it wont happen.I'm torn up on the inside, im so confused, so lost. I know there's other fish in the sea, but I want this one fish. I need him. I honestly don't know what to do anymore. Help me. Tell me what I should do! I may end up hurting myself....I know that's stupid to say, but it's true. I don't think i can make it any more without getting to see him..Help me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): hey :)i can say i understand how you feel, except my teacher isn't about to retire, so even though i think about when i have to leave him, i can't imagine what it must be like knowing you won't be able to see him soon. It must be so hard, and im sorry. remember to keep your friends close, they will help you. i'm lucky becasue one of my best friends feels the same, but if you eve need to talk friendsare there for you, they will listen and comfort you.anyway, sorry for rambling lol. thing is, do you think he may feel the same way about you? because if you've had signs that he does or you know for sure that he does, he is leaving school, and according to your profile your between the ages of 18-21, which technically means if you wanted to see him outside of schoool or date him then you wouldn't really be doing anything illegal.if you know for sure there is something there that there isn't with the other teachers from him to you, them maybe suggest something to him on his own before he leaves, even if nothing becomes of it, i know it will hurt, so much, but at least you won't be wondering for the rest of your life 'i wonder what he would have said if i asked him?' and if it DOES turn out for the best, then i bet you'll be the happiest girl in the world :Dsorry my advice isn't that good, but maybe you should try it, that is only if you think he feels the same, because even though it might not go the way you want, theres would be chance that it could. sorry if you feel im giving you false hope and shooting you down at the same time :/. but if you love this guy, isn't it worth a shot?best of luck to you. x
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reader, Bindum  +, writes (7 May 2009):
Hay dear, This is called infatuation! You will get over this in some time. Involve yourself in your hobbies( sketching, reading books, listening to music, shopping whaterever makes you feel good, thats what u need now) at this moment and go out with your good friends and try not to discuss about your teacher to any body any one not even yourself.Please try!! Nothing will happen to u, u will not die or kill yourself. Life goes on. Keep your teacher as a sweet memory in your closed book of your heart. Take care
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reader, Tevote  +, writes (7 May 2009):
 Hey there
So he's retiring soon?
I understand how you feel, and it will be very hard for you to let go.
I know these feelings will play on you and make you feel regret for quite some time.
You could always speak to him in person and apologize for the things that were said and just let him know that you'll miss him. NOTHING MORE...
It's hard for teachers to accept these kinds of things without looking at other intentions and because of what has happened with you he may have the wrong idea.
If you wish to, you can apologize and hope that he accepts it. I'm sure he will...
Goodluck
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reader, carolinee +, writes (7 May 2009):
WOW! a crush on your teacher, um thats kind of weird! im pretty sure that you dont need need him, maybe you just love seeing him everyday! that doesnt mean you love him or anything. you just have a crush on him and thats all. But you really should get over it, because dating a teacher could cause many problems(even if retired) just get over him
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reader, louise100  +, writes (6 May 2009):
Oh dear. You have a big crush. It happens to all of us at some time or other and when you are old a grey (like me!) you will look back and laugh at this - I PROMISE!
You have fallen head over heels in love but unfortuately with someone you cant have - it happens to a lot of people.
Your teacher is not allowed to get involved with students even when he retires - it could get him into a lot of trouble - and you would not want that. besides you would have nothing in common as you are both at different stage of your life.
I know its difficult but hang out with people your own age with whom you have something in common and eventually you will feel better.
My late Mother used to tell me that time heals everthing and she was right
take care x
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