I liked my teacher in school but of course nothing could happen then. Now I'm 19, should I take a chance on going back to see him?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So there is a teacher who is 8 years older than me which is not that bad and i like older guys anyway...hes a special ed teacher and he was NEVER my teacher when i went to high school. When I was in school we flirted and I felt like he payed more attention to me than many other gurls but he wasnt really inappropriat but some things he would do led me to think we def had an attraction to each other and after i graduated we kept in touch and i visited him in school throughout my freshmen year of college..we got more personal and we were talking about relationships and he was like o we need to set u up with a an older guy who has a good job and i shook my head and he like no cant do that right...what am i supposed to say o this is britney and i met her at school? And i just left it at that because i then knew that he thought about me in that way and i wasnt just going to crazy. That day i emailed him and i told him how i felt and he said he was a professional and he couldnt persue anything to that extent which i respect and then the next time i went to visit..he was like o u understand why right and i was like i know. And then he said maybe in a few years ill run into u at a club. Now im 19 and a sophmore in college and i still have feelings for him...i feel like he basically admitted that he liked me and ive tried to get over him and ive been meeting other people but at the end of the day..i still think about him. Is that wrong that i like him and should i visit him again..i saw about a month ago but didnt get a chance to really speak to him and i want to visit him at school and see how hes doing and if the sparks are still there. Does anyone think that something could happen in the near future or should i just try to move on?

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