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writes:Ok well about a year ago i wrote on this too an di think it really helped me. i was talking about my boyfrend who had pictures of other girls on his phone. i carried on going out with him but we broke up about 7 months ago. we broke up about the most stupidest thing and we both didnt think that we would be seperated for so long. when we did break up we were still really close.we were in a relationship but it wasnt official if you get me. we had arguments n that when we broke up but i still really loved him. about 3 weeks ago we were talking and telling eahother we love each other the day before i went on holiday. i texted him when i was tehre and i told him i missed him and everything, and then he texted bak, 'hi u alrite?' and other things but i realised something was wrong. i came back two weeks later and he told me we should go our seperate ways because hes been thinking a lot, and he's close to deelin with some other girl. however we didnt really move on, we were still close and went back to how we were. he called me his wifey and i told him he was still my baby. however a week after he started going out iwth another girl and it really upset me because it was shocking, and i didnt think he would do that to me. i no he dosent like her and he told me that he just wanted to see if our love was true, and i no deep down that he dosent like her the way he liked me...but if he really loved me why would he even think or consider leaving me? I started to like this other boy and he asked me out but i started to relise that i would only go out with him because my x is going out with someone so it wouldnt be right. me and my x boyfrend still tell eachotehr we love eachother but im still confused about why he would leave me and go out and ask someone else to be his girlfrend.i dnt no wt do do....help?!!
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reader, talissa +, writes (6 October 2008):
well i will say to move on because i think that your using the word "love" to loosely because if he did love you he wouldnt b with anuva girl now would he? trust me ive bin dere. there are other guys out dere datll b good for you, if u no dat deres people dat like u dat u can trust and are your friends, give them a shot, (go for da cute and sweet people dat actully like u n will wait for u if ur not ready to get into a relationship)if hes not thinking bout u i dnt think u shud waste ur time with ur x. coz if he wanted to get bak wid u he wudve tried alredy
n if he tries now(if ur wid sum1, hes only jealous) ill say its 2 l8 hes had his chance. well thats wot i think
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (11 September 2008):
 guys are stupid. that's the only reason haha. and i might get crap for saying that, but it's true. i've been through the exact same thing.
he wanted to have a cake and eat it too. he wanted to keep you but date another girl at the same time.
your first mistake was keeping things unofficial because it gave him leeway to "technically" get away with this! i say give him what he deserves, tell him how you feel, then give him a choice. if he keeps dating the girl, you're dating this boy and cutting things off with him. if he breaks things off with her, you'll consider getting back together with him.
it's the only way, sweetheart.
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