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I like my long distance friend but I still have feelings for my ex!

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Question - (26 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *elplessgirl writes:

Ok my current boyfriend is my long distance relationship, and my ex lives right down the street. I like both of them a lot and my ex was my first love. We still have a lot of feelings for each other after so long and it's hard because I miss him a lot. And my current boyfriend said he would kill himself if he lost me and that's really hard on me, I love him a lot but I still have feelings for my ex. I don't know what to do?!

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A female reader, superrrshawna United States +, writes (26 March 2009):

superrrshawna agony auntYou are going to need to choose between them. You can't be with your current boyfriend if old feelings are keeping you from having a real relationship with him. And you can't be with your ex if you have a boyfriend. You need to figure out who you have stronger feelings for, and which would make a better relationship, and follow that.

I'm worried your LDR is saying he'll kill himself if you two don't work out. That is NOT the sign of a healthy relationship. Do you think he is serious?

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