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*elplessgirl
writes: Ok my current boyfriend is my long distance relationship, and my ex lives right down the street. I like both of them a lot and my ex was my first love. We still have a lot of feelings for each other after so long and it's hard because I miss him a lot. And my current boyfriend said he would kill himself if he lost me and that's really hard on me, I love him a lot but I still have feelings for my ex. I don't know what to do?!
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (26 March 2009):
You are going to need to choose between them. You can't be with your current boyfriend if old feelings are keeping you from having a real relationship with him. And you can't be with your ex if you have a boyfriend. You need to figure out who you have stronger feelings for, and which would make a better relationship, and follow that.
I'm worried your LDR is saying he'll kill himself if you two don't work out. That is NOT the sign of a healthy relationship. Do you think he is serious?
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