I want my ex back. Help.
Q. i want to get my ex back...i know he doesn't love me...but takes me only as a friend..we still talk....but the reason he left me was due to my constant questioning about girls messaging him and girls roaming about with him..he didn't have had any ...
A. 29 May 2008: Hi there, I'm affraid that if he doesn't love you there is nothing that you can do! You can't force somebody to love you and that part is the most painful thing in the world. I'm affraid that you have to try to move on with your life, if you l... (read in full...)
I want to end my friendship with my unreliable selfish mate.
Q. hi everyone, ive got problems with my best mate. ive made my mind up im finally finishing our friendship. ive put up with her for years and now realising the same as with loser guys dont change neither do mates! i dont need/want to have her in my ...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi hunn,
Sounds like trying to walk on egg shells around her! I would personally try to keep at a distance! I know this can sometimes be easier said than done....
Keep her at arms length for a while and the friendship might fizzle out on it... (read in full...)
She said she's still recovering from her divorce, to be fair with me, and that she enjoyed our date. What to do next??
Q. Hi, i recently taken a girl out on a date, she's in the middle of a divorce.which went great. To the point of her askin do i want to see her again and do i want to kiss her. I responded with yes to both these questions and was looking forward to the ...
A. 26 March 2008: Hi Hunn, This sounds a like a confusing situation to be in! I have been there too as i had to get divorced. Divorce is complicated and sometimes it's like a greaving process (As in getting over the death of a relationship). Maybe this is cau... (read in full...)
He's with another girl now, but I think I love him... could he feel the same?
Q. I like a guy from work, but recently he was in a car accident with his girlfriend, she drove off the end of a cliff, and he was really hurt. Despite my efforts to get over to the hospital to see him i couldn't manage it before he got discharged, but ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi Hunn, sorry i meant dont think to much about how to act or what to say whenever you see him next
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Why don't I enjoy sex with my bf?
Q. i don't really know how to start this question but hear goes, basically i am 16 and i have recently just lost my virginity i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and i don't really enjoy sex with him, i enjoy the build up the touching, his hand...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi Hunn,
I totally agree with Mandy7, take time out to 'explore' on yourself and once you've found the things that you like show your b/f, he would prob love that !
Take Care, Please Rate :)... (read in full...)
I get too over excited..so how do I make sex last longer?
Q. me and my gf have slowed down on the having sex thing to alot less then we did before and i dont mind that and neither does she, but cus of that now when we do have sex its a lot shorter, my fault of course lol not hers. has anyone got any g...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi Hunn, When you feel yourself getting over excited why not stop and give her some kisses or some extra oral pleasure? My man is the same and he does just that!... Works wonders ;) Take Care, ... (read in full...)
Is she pregnant or trapping him?
Q. I have a problem, I split from my 10 year relationship back in September as I was really unhappy, I was pregnant last year and had a miscarriage I was a emotional wrack and decided to end things with my boyfriend as I did not know what I wanted… A ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi HUnn,
You must be so upset by this...
This other woman sounds very possesive! What i would do in your situation is get my b/f to go see her and pretend to be all excited about maybe being a dad, get him to take a pregnancy test with him so... (read in full...)
He's with another girl now, but I think I love him... could he feel the same?
Q. I like a guy from work, but recently he was in a car accident with his girlfriend, she drove off the end of a cliff, and he was really hurt. Despite my efforts to get over to the hospital to see him i couldn't manage it before he got discharged, but ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi HUnn,
You know that you should just be yourself around him! But make sure to tell him that you were thinking of him in hospital, that way it hints to him that you still hold something for him, tell him u tried to get to see him but couldnt ... (read in full...)
I love her, but she thinks I'd damage her image!
Q. Hi guys,i'm in a big big problem... I love a girl and she's my friend... but when i told her about my feelings she said keh though i really really like you but not this, but as a friend...but i'm not even one of her normal friends...i'm not allowed ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi Hunn, I know that it's hard loving someone that doesn't love you back but unfortunately there is nothing that you can do about that, you can't make somebody love you! I think that you would be much better without this person in your... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like this about my ex, we split up 4 years ago...
Q. I was with my ex boyfriend for 4 years from the age of 15. We broke up 4 years ago, lost touch for 3 years, and got back in touch a year ago. Now through mutual friends and work, I see him, and his family (who I regarded as my family, we were ...
A. 1 March 2008: Hi hunn
I think there is something that you haven't quite let go of. Maybe trying to keep a bit of a distance will help a little and that sound like a hard thing to do if you see him often.
Are these feelings of regret from ending the relation... (read in full...)
Good guys never get the girl !
Q. Ok, now I have been reading through some of the questions and advice that is on this site as to dating. The general idea I get is you need to have confidence when approaching a women. That is all good and well, but I tend to disagree. This has ...
A. 1 March 2008: Hi Hunn,
Well you sound like the perfect date to me but maybe most of these girls dont appreciate that.
It sounds to me that you are too kind and generous for you're own good and there are plenty of people who would take advantage of tha... (read in full...)
Why is he kissing and cuddling me if he doesn't want a relationship?
Q. Im so confused. There's this guy that iv known for 5 months now and we were gettin really close. we would hang out togther, id go over his watch a film..he would ring me a few times a day for a chat, evrything seemed great and knew that he liked me. ...
A. 1 March 2008: Hi HUnn,
It sounds to me that he doesn't really know what he wants and it's not fair that he seems to be keeping you hanging by a thread.
Either you carry on the way that you are or you sit back and think 'no, i'm not letting him use me like ... (read in full...)
I love him too, should I however let him go or hold on?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up 7 months ago but I still love him. When we hang out he'd tell me he loves me still but now that he has a new girlfriend, he can't just leave her and be with me. But he keeps telling me that he's happy with me and he just ...
A. 1 March 2008: Hi hunn,
I totally agree with Laura1318 on this, He is wanting too much.
If you can accept it then fine but otherwise why wait around for someone who may hurt you by doing this behind your back....
Take Care, Please Rate :)... (read in full...)
How can I have my cake and eat it too?
Q. I am growing close to a man who I work with despite us both living with our respective partners. We both know we have feelings for each other, and a greater connection on a mental and spiritual level. The thing is, I don't want a relationship with ...
A. 1 March 2008: Hi there hunn, I have been in a similar situation and it's a very conflicting feeling....
I have to say tho looking back on this situation i would advise against it, if you loe your partner don't risk loosing it all and talk to him.
Why not... (read in full...)
After sex for the first time, I feel a burning sensation downstairs..
Q. i recently had sex for the first time.since then whenever i pee or masturbate it burns.what should i do?or is this something that always occurs?please help...
A. 26 June 2007: Hi,
I can imagine that you are quite worried but to me i have to agree that it sounds like an infection of somekind, it could even be cystitus and i'm affraid that the only thing to do is either go to the doctors and get it checked out properly... (read in full...)
He wont let me finish with him, would he really end his life, or is this emotional blackmail ?
Q. I tried to break up with my fiance on Friday, and like always he tried to talk me out of it. He said he would call me later in the night and told me to answer my phone. I wanted to end it, so I didn't answer. He called and texted me so many times, ...
A. 20 March 2007: Hi, I totally agree and think that this is emotional blackmail. If he cared so much for you and didn't want you to leave he wouldn't shut you out and treat you this way. You have to be happy with your life and you don't sound to be very happy at ... (read in full...)
My friend was sexually abused by her uncle and I don't know what advice to give her, please help me?
Q. A friend of mine has been sexually molested and she doesn't know what to do... She is afraid that it might wreck her family since it was her uncle that did it... please help me... I dont know what I should tell her...?...
A. 16 March 2007: Hi, Firstly I think this issue must be addressed, even if it means sitting down with her mum and dad and explaining what has happened. I think if your friend does decide to do this that you as her friend should be with her and provide her with... (read in full...)
We're engaged with a baby on the way--so what's with these dreams I'm having about her and her ex bf?
Q. i am 22 old male in a relationship for the last year 1\2 iam now engaged and we have a baby on the way and i keep haveing these dreams the she is cheating on me with her ex,The thing is i have full trust in her and she has never given me a reason ...
A. 15 March 2007: Hi,
I think that because you have a serious responsibility about to arrive into your life you could be sub-consiously be worried about the future. I know it is difficult when you have these disturbing dreams - I know it's happened to me.
T... (read in full...)
How he can say he loves somebody and still see and do things with me???
Q. i was with this guy for about 2 and a half years,we split up offically last september but we have always met and and seen each other like we are still together and he would always get angry if he thought another guy would be trying anything on with ...
A. 13 March 2007: Hi, Firstly.... stop! Stop texting him, phoning him etc. You're not toghether anymore but he sounds like he wants everything and it's not fair that you're allowing this! In my opinion yes you can love two people at once but having relationships... (read in full...)
Are fantasies of being with Another Person OK when you're making love?
Q. Can someone give me some feedback on what you think about sexual fantasies; I mean from the point of view of a man or a woman thinking of someone else in order to get turned on when making love to their partner? Do you think this is okay? Do you re...
A. 13 March 2007: Hi, Firstly i don't think it's dis-loyal at all just as long as it is you partner that you want to be with. I sometimes think of Brad Pitt but i'm still married to my hubby! Also men can get turned on from this little fantasy, ask him if there... (read in full...)
Straight to the point or round the houses?
Q. What is a better way of getting laid with someone: playing mind games or asking out straight away?...
A. 13 March 2007: Hi, i don't think you should be playing mind games that's just not fair!! And it can be very offensive to ask just straight out. I think you have to chat and there needs to be a connection before anything else will happen, pay complements to h... (read in full...)
Opened a pandora's box by checking my boyfriend's texts!
Q. I opened a Pandora's box by checking my boyf's text messages. I've been with him a year and never had reson to doubt him but this weekend he went to a party and has been off with me ever since. In his sent items there were dodgy txts to a girl late ...
A. 13 March 2007: Hi, i can imagine that you must be quite disapointed and hurt at the moment. I think that you need to sit and chat with him, i would not mention the text until it was essential and just ask him about the party first then add that you know about h... (read in full...)
He promised not to take any other girls numbers but I found him texting a girl from work!!
Q. My boyfriend previously cheated. We got back and agreed that he wasn't to take girls numbers to earn back trust. But one day whilst at his new job and they were all out on a work nite out they exchanged numbers for a meeting point. Since then I ...
A. 13 March 2007: Hi, You need to think honestly to yourself and hopefully see that he doesn't respect your wishes..... You asked him to stop messing around withpeople and texting and if he respected you and your wishes he wouldn't have done it! I know it's har... (read in full...)
Why should he be the one having the good time!
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago because he cheated on me but now i have to live with him because unfortunately i was very silly having ever got together with him because he is my flatmate in halls. He's now seeing other girls and the re...
A. 10 March 2007: Hi, Personally i think this is quite difficult but if it was me in your situation i would play him at his own games. So what if he's got different girls show him that he's not the only person in the world that can pull! Regards please ra... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend and my best mate but the mate wants to be MORE than friends, I don't want that, what do I do?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now. when we first started going out, things were great, but things have been going downhill for a while now. Im 22, hes 23, we dont live together or have kids (thank god), i honestly can't re...
A. 10 March 2007: Hi there,..... phew what a question! Personally i think if the situation is getting to you that much you need to sit down with your boyfriend and tell him just what is going on in your mind! Fellas are a bit silly when it comes to picking up hi... (read in full...)
I met this guy online, he said sex is necessary in a relationship and if we don't have sex first time then he has no choice but to give up! Does he just want me for sex?
Q. I am a 20-yead-old girl in Asia and I met this 25-year-old guy from Europe on the internet in the end of 2005. After some talks on MSN and phone he asked me to be his gf and I agreed. I know it sounds stupid since we haven't met but my feeling is ...
A. 6 March 2007: hi there, i totally agree with cd206. You should never be forced into sex and please bear in mind that no means no.
If he did really love you he would respect you wishes and take things at your pace.
If you feel right about having sex with him plea... (read in full...)
My wife admitted to sleeping with a guy once. I am willing to try to get through this to save my marriage but she says is there anything to save?
Q. My wife of 14 years recently announced that she is no longer in love with, then i found out she had been texting and spending alot of time with a guy from work, now 3 months later she has admitted to sleeping with him once. Can our marriage get over ...
A. 6 March 2007: Hi there, i can understand that you must be quite upset. The thing that you have to ask yorself is if you try the relationship again if the problem will occur again.
You cannot force someone to love you and that in itself hurts.
I think that you... (read in full...)
The lover I cheated with..owes me money and won't pay me back! Should I let this go or insist on it?
Q. Hi there, I have recently broke off an affair, and the guy that I have been involved with has intially agreed to return the cash he owes me. Now that the time has come to pay me, he has changed his mind. I find this very annoying and mad...
A. 28 November 2006: Hi, it sounds like trying to get blood from a stone, haha.
No seriously, stop being nasty with him because the more you push the more it will wind him up.
Ask him that if it was you who owed him money surely he would be chasing up the s... (read in full...)
He's changing! More tattoos, cut his hair almost off, taking a steroid..what's going on with my bf?
Q. What should I do my guy is getting more tattoos???? He has 6 now and he is wanting a quarter sleeve and that isnt the guy I started dating 6 years ago. WHen we first dated till now he has always wore khakis and stuff preppy. Now he is cutting his ...
A. 28 November 2006: Hi, If they bother you that much you should try to stress to him again about your thoughts on tattoos, i know not everbody likes them but he is right it is his body.
If he loved you enough he would take into consideration you feelings on the matt... (read in full...)
Like her a lot! What should my next move be, how do I know she likes me?
Q. I am 17 and met this girl at a party. We talked until she had to leave about eachother such as where we each work and interests and stuff like habits and experiences, which was a great time and we had alot in common. Next day I surprised her when ...
A. 28 November 2006: Hi, next time you get the chance to be in a less crowded environment with her ask her what the deal was when you saw her and she didnt say anything, if you don't ask, you don't get!
Try to tell her that you like her, i know this can be quite diff... (read in full...)
I want to have a bf, but being a goth doesn't help as the guys I know , all dislike me! What should I do -any tips?
Q. Hey need a lil advice from the guys really.... Um.. how can i start.... ive been single for a while now and i would really like a boyfriend but all the guys in my area/town hate/dislike me because i have a bad reputation (a castrator of all thin...
A. 28 November 2006: Hi, I'd like to start off by saying that the best way to attract a guy is simply to be yourself! Guys should like you for the person you are and not whats on the outside.
Other than a change of image there's not really much else i can suggest,... (read in full...)
He calls me and says he loves me but he lies so much! How do I get over this pain?
Q. Can you please help! I was in a relationship for 3 years and he kept cheating and telling all these people he met that he was single and wasn't with anyone. Then I found out that he was having an emotional relationship with this woman in Florida and ...
A. 28 November 2006: Hi, I really do feel for you.
The only thing to do in this case i think is to forget that looser! Move on (I know it's easier said than done).
I would take ever day one at a time, keep your mind busy and go out and have fun!
Life doesn't ... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid or does my hubby really find me unattractive? What do you think?
Q. hi, I have been married for 4 years and we have a daughter together, i have two children from a previous marriage. when we first met sex was great, then i feel pregnant with our daughter and things were good. as soon as i had my daught...
A. 28 November 2006: HI, Firstly i think you should find time to sit a stress your points to you hubby. I know it's hard work and quite draining having kids so why not try getting a babysitter for a night or weekend (Maybe granparents could help out) and spend a few ... (read in full...)
I'm cheating on my bf with a married man who left his "then' pregnant wife for me.
Q. I don't know what to do, have been cheating on my bf for a year. I love my bf of 6 yrs to bits but he is so cold and unloving towards me. We moved in together a year and a half ago and were happy but he is away alot with work. The guy I am cheating ...
A. 28 November 2006: HI, Trust me it's going to be hard to tell your boyfriend and even though it's probablly not what you want to hear you have to fess up!
The longer you leave this situation the more it's gunna hurt your b/f.
If you really loved your b/f you woul... (read in full...)
He was holding her at a club - I went mental and now we might break up!
Q. Hi everyone, I need help and quick! My partner was in a club last night holding hands with a girl and holding her, but he claims they are just mates. I saw this and went mental and now we're on the verge of splitting up! I want him back but i don't ...
A. 27 November 2006: HI, it sound like a little more than friendship is going on with this 'girl'.
Fact is if you stay together you are going to be constantly paranoid about this girly friend and being paranoid is not the way to live your life!
When you talk to him s... (read in full...)
He has been ignoring me for a couple days - I think he thinks I'm cheating!
Q. ok so iv been with my boyfriend for three weeks n i do admit i love him but for the last couple of days he hasnt said a word to me he wont even go near me i was ment to be going to the local shopping centre with him and a few friends but i went ...
A. 27 November 2006: HI, Firstly i'd like to say the world won't stop turning if you broke up, (Touch wood that won't happen).
You needs to take him to one side and ask him just what is going through his tiny little mind, just because yet set off earlier doesn't mean... (read in full...)
Now he has been thinking and wasn't sure he liked me
Q. Ok so I like this guy and according to his friends he liked me too. We hung out a lot and he even put his arm around me and held my hand while we watched a movie with a bunch of his friends. Yet two days later I went to his school's hockey game with ...
A. 27 November 2006: Hi, i totally agree with ShandyPop. Why do all the chasing if 'He's unsure'? Maybe he didn't talk to you at the Hockey game because he felt a little alkward but if he did really like you he would have spoke.
He's not serious and needs to think abou... (read in full...)
She cheated on me at uni and says not to worry about it happening again - but I'm still going mad!
Q. I have been with my gf, lets call her 'X' for a year and a half - we are both 19!! Shes recently went to uni, where within the first 3 weeks she kissed another guy, then waited two weeks until she came home for my birthday to tell me. I admit that ...
A. 27 November 2006: Hi, I can see you must be confused by this (Well i certainly am!).
I think i would let this one ride out, 'apart' relationships are hard and there needs to be 100% trust between each other, otherwise there is always an element of 'what if this is h... (read in full...)
How can I get my bf to be more open?
Q. I really don't know what to do. I think my bf is sly behind my back. I'm up front and honest and yet it takes him ages to tell me stuff, which i consider to be important. Recently he mentioned a conversation he had with his ex over one week ago, yet ...
A. 27 November 2006: Hi, what a situation! I know if youre anything like me talking about emotional stuff and this kind of subject can be hard but sometimes i think you have to bite the bullet.
If i were you i'd sit down and gently ask him about why he didn't find it i... (read in full...)
Travel anxieties..never been away from home before-any advice?
Q. Ok, not totally about relationship probs buit hopefully some of you guys can help I wanna go away for a night this week I have never really been away from home before and i feel really nervous about the whole thing It will be the furthurest iv ev...
A. 27 November 2006: HI,
I think you should go, it's only for one night! Your family will still be there when you get back.
I can understand how you feel, i moved to a different country after i got married and am still here now! It's difficult but i think it's all... (read in full...)
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