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im kirsty, im 20 and yeah im just ur normal friendly person. People say im too nice ( cant help it though lol ) but yeh im a very good listener, i like helping people out and try to give the best advice as possible..i have been through a number of things so hopefully i can go by them ad help u lot out if uv had simular problems as me.
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Where did I go wrong? Why doesn't he respond?
Q. where did i go wrong? should i give him time or just move on? I recently start dating this guy, we get on really well. I felt that we know each other for sometime. We went for a drink then decide to go back to mine and watch a DVD. I suggeste...
A. 9 May 2008: Hi Hun
my best advice for you is to not contact him, give him some space and if he wants to get in touch with you, he'll phone or text you. If he dont then you will know he has moved on.
take care x... (read in full...)
I want him in my life, I couldnt bare it if I never heard from him again
Q. Hi im not really gd at explaining myself but il try. This guy who i completely think the world of has gone all distant on me. we clicked str8 away.. we met up for about 6 months..we got intimate..we were so close now its changed. He says he hasnt...
A. 9 May 2008: thanks for ur replies,u know where uv all said about not texting.. well i do that but i still dont hear from him. Im afraid iv ruined our friendhsip. im blaming myself all the time..but people keep saying i havnt. I dont know what to beleive ... (read in full...)
Do guys think I'm a loser because I'm a virgin?
Q. I am 20 years old, and I am still a virgin. It's not because of religious reasons; I have dated before but I just haven't found the person to do it with. What I am fearing now is how guys see virgins. I have always watched TV and movies that basi...
A. 11 April 2008: Hiya Hun.
I can understand why your fearing that but you are not a loser. If anyone said or thought that of you then they r clearly a horrible person and aint worth it.
The 'right' person who you will meet sooner or later will admire you for wait... (read in full...)
I lied to him about my age and I'm scared to tell him now in case he dumps me!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, we are deeply in love, but there's a problem, I'm starting to feel guilty as I've been lying to him this whole time. Basicly he thinks I'm older than what I am, I'm starting to feel guilty for lying as I lov...
A. 26 March 2008: Hun, its best to tell him the truth now because the longer you leave it the worse it will get. Its only a 2 year age gap.. thats nothing to worry about, im sure he wont go funny with that.
I had it done to me, the guy lied to me about his age ... (read in full...)
How can I stay strong?
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years he cheated over ten times! I finally kicked him out. I don't wanna be stupid anymore I see now that he will never change. I thought I could help him change and now I know he can only change his self! So ...
A. 26 March 2008: hey hun
im sorry to hear what's happened! you've done the right thing though by kicking him out, someone like that will never change.
keep doing what you're doing though, ignore his texts and calls, he will soon leave you alone and then you can ... (read in full...)
He's seeing new people and is happy without me. Will I ever get over him?
Q. Hi Im 18 and me and my ex have recently broken up. I thought I was fine for about a week but then I realised that he is happy without me and is seeing other girls. I feel terrible, I was nearly physically sick when I found out. Many think that our ...
A. 25 March 2008: Hun i feel for u, i really do! i know how it feels to lose someone you love. When i was going through it..i thought il never get over him..il never cope..il never find any1 else like him, But eventually i forgot about him. I had to keep busy, it was ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend would tell people he was my uncle, why is he behaving like this?
Q. Hey Everyone :) iv posted a couple of time about this Guy i really like, i think so much of him. for sum who dont know iv bn seein him for 6 months, yet not in arelationship bcoz he's told me he aint ready for 1 or hasnt got the time bcause of w...
A. 23 March 2008: LazyGuy - no this hospital i was in allows any1 to see me, my other mates came in..so theres no problem..and this guy im off about isnt my boyfriend, we aint in a relationship because he says he aint ready but i beleive it's because im 19 and he's ... (read in full...)
Is it worth just keeping on 'meeting' with him in the hope that it may go right or do I just walk away??
Q. I was seeing a guy who was hurt badly by his ex. They were together 5 years and she cheated on him, and now he just doesn't trust anyone for fear of getting hurt.. So we stopped seeing each other as I couldnt hack the fact that he was distant ...
A. 10 March 2008: Hey Hun
im in the same situation as you, well not so much of 'lack of trust' but just the fact he doesnt want a relationship yet' and he's being alot distant cause he knows i want more. I keep meeting up with him hoping it will change..i should r... (read in full...)
When I hint I like a guy nothing happens..so I have decided it is time to take action.
Q. My self esteem has reached an all time high and I feel great! :D Guy's are flirting with me and I am flirting back. I feel very attracted to some of the guys and when I really, really hint that I like them, nothing happens. and I've realized...
A. 8 March 2008: Its not wrong at all :D
I say "go girl" lol
Just be cool about it, just ask him 'oh i fancy going out on the weekend - would u like to go for a drink or something, if not then thats ok'
U gotta take a chance, you wont know til u find out.
good... (read in full...)
If I just drink Fanta and Coke till Easter Sunday and eat nothing will I lose weight??
Q. Dear Cupid, what will happen to me if i only drink fanta or coke zero til easter sunday? And eat nothing? I just have one can a day (330 ml) and that it. Will i lose any weight? What side effects would it cause me to have? Is this an awful idea? T...
A. 7 March 2008: This is very wrong!
Coke and fanta are full of sugar - too much sugar is very bad for you health!
also, by not eating any food will make you ill, ul have no energy and so on and when u do start eating your body will only put the wight on much qui... (read in full...)
Does joining an adult dating site make me look desperate??
Q. I'm considering joining one of those websites where you find people who are looking for intimate/sexual relationships... But I'm a bit concerned about how that may look and how people look at me. I know it shouldn't matter, but I worry it would make ...
A. 7 March 2008: No you wont be looked upon as desperate!
Alot of people meet people over the net nowadays.
I have myself.. i find it easier because you can chat to them and get to know them alot before u decide to meet. I know alot of people who are together... (read in full...)
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