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writes: Ok so I like this guy and according to his friends he liked me too. We hung out a lot and he even put his arm around me and held my hand while we watched a movie with a bunch of his friends. Yet two days later I went to his school's hockey game with him and a bunch of our friends and he barely said a word to me. One of his friends said he had been thinking and wasn't sure he liked me but wasn't completely sure. I still like him. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): Hey, well the same exact thing was w/ me me and my b.f were firends 4 2 yrs and i had always like him. We went to 2 a football game alone and he asked me out. So just wait cause his feeling towards you may change!
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reader, SexKitten69 +, writes (27 November 2006):
Hi, i totally agree with ShandyPop. Why do all the chasing if 'He's unsure'? Maybe he didn't talk to you at the Hockey game because he felt a little alkward but if he did really like you he would have spoke.
He's not serious and needs to think about what he wants so just chill out and go with the flow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): I think you need to chill out with this one and act that way. Let him doing the running from now on. If he is keen he will get in touch, but hang back and don't appear too kean. Let him get his head a round the situation, you are not desperate so don't chase after him. If he doesn't come running then he isn't the one and there are plenty more out there who will be just too happy to go out with you.
Take care
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reader, judipsy +, writes (27 November 2006):
if he is still thinking,dat means the love in-between is not so strong.i would advice you hang up now and face life now.it is better you let go now as he is still thinking rather than waiting up till future time and he tells you that he doesn't love you.that wll be the most difficult moment of your life.it's better to let go now than face turmoils in future.
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reader, edmoh20 +, writes (27 November 2006):
Many guys(myself inclusive), will take time before they can actually confess that they have fallen for you. If he didn't say a word to u, it could be that he has a serious crush on you,and he thinks he will be very hurt if u say no to him.I am not ruling out the possibility that he doesn't have plans for you, but I always prefer to look at the positive side of everything.How about if u try to show him that you like him,this will make it easier for him to tell you,if he's kind of shy.Otherwise, do not rule out anything for now.But I have a feeling that he likes yuo but kind of fears to confess it to you.Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): thats cute and all, but you might of read too much into it. boys are unstable about their emotions...cut em some slack. yeah it blows and all, but things will be okay. hangout for a little bit, keep yourself busy. try talking to him when your not so stressed about it- and be open to his feelings. stay neutral, as in dont be extremely disapointed if he ends up not liking you.
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