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anonymous
writes:i was with this guy for about 2 and a half years,we split up offically last september but we have always met and and seen each other like we are still together and he would always get angry if he thought another guy would be trying anything on with me,in other words he still acted like he was my boyfriend..even though we wernt together..but a few months ago he met somebody else i only found out after a month or so after he had met her,and i also found out she is only just 16 and hes 21.he did say its perfect and hes in love with her etc,but hes still talking to me like its still me and him and he says hes still got feelings for me,and we have met up alot and had sexual relations with eachother,its just anything we do together even if its just a kiss it feels so right between us like i shouldn't be doing it to anyone else.i just dont understand how he can do all this and say he loves somebody else.there was never any reason for us to split up so i guess thats why we are still not over each other.i dont know what to do anymore, i met him last thurs and i havnt heard off him since.i dont know what to do....and i dont understand whats going on in his head..how he can say he loves somebody and still see and do things with me???please help!!! x
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reader, SexKitten69 +, writes (13 March 2007):
 Hi,Firstly.... stop! Stop texting him, phoning him etc. You're not toghether anymore but he sounds like he wants everything and it's not fair that you're allowing this!In my opinion yes you can love two people at once but having relationships and seeing them at the same time is a deffinate no no!Maybe this other relationship that he's having is just a fling but it shouldn't involve you if you're not even together! If he asks why you're not texting/phoning etc you should tell him straight.... you're not an official couple anymore and it's deffinately not fair that he's playing with you both.I think he is very greedy and no-one wants to be with a greedy person!!Take careRegards(Please rate this response) :)
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