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I have a big crush on my Teacher... should I tell her ?
Q. i am in love with my english teacher i even dream about her she is so nice to me in class. should i tell i tell her that i love her or not....
A. 26 August 2006: You don't say how old you are, but teenagers often have crushes on teachers. Don't tell her as it will be embarrassing for both of you. Some day you will meet and fall in love with a girl who is available to you and you will be grateful you kept ... (read in full...)
My husband is trying to meet girls on the interweb!
Q. My husband is trying to meet with girls on the net. I know cause I go through his emails without him knowing of course. Me and my husband have been going through some problems and im not sure if this is why he's doin this. To be honest, I dont think ...
A. 26 August 2006: A close friend of mine had this problem and this had been going on before their marriage and continued after it. Some people think that cheating through cyberspace is ok because there is no physical touching. They are deluding themselves as putting ... (read in full...)
Sometimes feels like we're back together... but we aren't.
Q. I am not sure what I should do! Basically I split up with my ex over a year ago and then when I went out on my birthday I saw him again and we didnt argue or anything it was actually a laugh, he got my mobile number and we have seen each other as ...
A. 26 August 2006: I have the exact same problem and I wish I could tell you what to do. My ex says he wants us to be friends (he really means it to, it is not just a guilt trip) and we spend every lunchtime together - the only thing that is changed is that there is ... (read in full...)
Does he really want to help me...or is he stringing me along?
Q. I have asked this guy that I care about for help on a professional basis, he said ring me 4 weeks time so I did, then he said due to work priorties ring me back in another 3 weeks times I even said it's alright if he can't help (it isn't really!!) ...
A. 26 August 2006: Reminds me of my husband. He hates to say no to anyone who needs help and promises things he cannot possibly deliver. When this happens, the people who he lets down are more annoyed than they would have been had he said I am sorry I can't help! Is ... (read in full...)
Went to see my bf, 50 miles away. And he treated me, horridly! What's going on?
Q. Hi I have just been to my long distance(50 miles return trip by car) boy friend of 2 months house for the first time and how he treated me was very strange 1)there was no hot water or heating and it got cold at night in the highlands 2)there ...
A. 26 August 2006: If he chose to punish you on the strength of what someone said, and the method of punishment was by ignoring you rather than talking it through then I think he has problems with how to conduct relationships and you could be in for a bumpy ride if ... (read in full...)
Mixed feelings for my bf...I dumped him but now I miss him!
Q. I have been getting mixed feelings for my boyfriend since sort of the beginning. So, i broke up with him today for good because i figured, he loves me but i don't love him. So, that is not fair to him. Now, that I broke up with him, i thought i ...
A. 26 August 2006: I have been on the other end of this and it is not pleasant. A boyfriend kept dumping me and taking me back. It was painful to be dumped and painful when I went back to him because I hated myself for being so weak and going back to him (this went on ... (read in full...)
My best gal pal has gone cold toward me...all because of a guy that likes me!
Q. Hi i'm new to these sites, i need advice, my mate has met this lad and she's become friends with him, the other week she asked me to come with her to meet him. I met him for the first time and he took a real shine to me, i wasnt so keen cos i ...
A. 26 August 2006: Ask her why she he is being cold with her. If she admits it is because of this guy then decide how much you value your friendship. 14 years is a long time to be friends and is not worth risking over some guy that 'might be the one'. Don't hate your ... (read in full...)
My bf has been edgy with me lately. So do I: a) dump him b) make it work or c) cheat on him??
Q. i no you probably get this alot but im seriously dont know what to do. my boyfriend is a gem he treats me like a princess but lately things havent been the same between us and work puts him in a bad mood and often snaps and starts arguments over the ...
A. 26 August 2006: Do you want to keep him? If so then you must try and get him to talk to you. Tell him how much you care and how worried you are about him and that you will always be there to listen. If you don't want to make that kind of an effort maybe the ... (read in full...)
Which orgasm is better?
Q. Does a Clitoral orgasm feel different from a vaginal orgasm. Which one is better?...
A. 18 August 2006: I've never managed a vaginal orgasm so I wouldn't know. My orgasms come from clitoral stimulation and they are very nice and satisfying.... (read in full...)
Is there a difference in being "wet" or "cumming"
Q. This might sound really wierd and im a little embarrassed to say it but hey. When my boyfriend fingers me he asked me if i "came" yet. He says that I am very wet, but the truth is I have No IDEA if i had "cum" or not. How do you know if you "cum...
A. 18 August 2006: When people talk about cumming they usually mean orgasm and you will know if that ever happens to you. You get wet when you are aroused as it aids penetration. Orgasm is not essential to enjoying sex although men often want to claim a woman's orgasm ... (read in full...)
He is afraid of commitment?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship and i love my partner very much but he seems to be afraid of a commitment...
A. 18 August 2006: I am always suspicious of long-distance relationships as couples need to spend a lot of time together for that relationship to grow. Why is it long-distance, will that part of it never change? If you are looking for a long term committed ... (read in full...)
How quick or long does it take for a woman to reach her climax?
Q. As a matter of interest, some men last a few seconds to a minute before they orgasm, and sometimes go for hours. Now how quick does a woman reach her climax, and her orgasm, or do some woman last longer or do they come in a matter on seconds or mi...
A. 18 August 2006: Takes me anything from 2 to 10 minutes depending on how tired I am and how horny I was to begin with. It can take up to 40 minutes and still be normal. Can some men go on for hours before climaxing? I'd like to meet one. Point is it doesn't matter ... (read in full...)
He's unhappy and texting other girls!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together 3 years and have 2 beautiful kids but since the birth of our 2nd child things have been different. he stays out all the time and is always textin other girls who he says are just friends. he says he still loves ...
A. 18 August 2006: I'm sure he does know why, but he may think telling you would hurt you. Counselling may help you both work this out together. My guess is he has developed feelings for someone and is trying to suppress them but it is only a guess, there are lots of ... (read in full...)
I had an affair now my marriage has changed and my daughter was there...
Q. I was just beginning to get a normal happy life back and for some odd reason I wanted an affair one day. I had sex with another guy and destroyed my marriage. My husband does not know yet and it was only a week ago, but I can already tell my ...
A. 18 August 2006: I know I am in a minority here, but I don't believe you should tell your husband about the affair. Try to figure out what was going wrong with your marriage that you felt you had to stray and work on that.... (read in full...)
Just a friend or does she want more??? Women respond please....
Q. Can someone please clear this up for me!!! I just came out of a relationship were I still to this day have feelings for my ex. I'm coping and trying to move on with my life. Anyway, I met someone who works in the same building with me and she is ...
A. 18 August 2006: I think she is in to you and you need to be subtle. You could try dropping a sentence into the conversation like 'it is so nice to spend time with a female who just likes you as a friend as I am not looking for a relationship at the moment' or ... (read in full...)
Date My Mate?
Q. well my prob is that ive met this girl, who is a friend of a friend, but is younger than we are, we are both 21, nearly 22, and she is only 17, since meeting her, i've been out with her in a group a few times and been to her house and met her ...
A. 18 August 2006: My experience of life has been that you always regret what you don't do more than what you do. All relationships are a gamble so why not take a chance? You could ask her straight out for a date or just focus on the friendship for a while and see if ... (read in full...)
Why are my orgasms different when I masturbate than during intercourse?
Q. My orgasms are different with my bf to how they are when i masturbate. Is this normal? They're so much better when i do them myself even though he uses the exact same technique. Or is it just that I'm not actually having an orgasm with him? He does ...
A. 17 August 2006: That is perfectly normal. He cannot use the exact same technique because you can feel exactly when to change spped/pressure etc whereas he can only guess. There is also the stress of wanting to orgasm for your partner to boost his ego. Sex with ... (read in full...)
Any ideas how I can orgasm through penetrative sex?
Q. I find it really hard to have an orgasm when I have penetrative sex. In fact, I have only ever come once doing this. I find it hard to come at all in front of someone so this was the only time. I want to start getting out of sex what my partner ...
A. 17 August 2006: I have never managed to achieve an orgasm through penetrative sex so I have stopped trying. I orgasm using clitoral stimulation (I usually do this myself for a deeper orgasm); then my partner penetrates me and the sensitivity caused by the orgasm ... (read in full...)
Im only 19 and really want a baby, is this a wise thing to do ?
Q. i have wanted a baby now for about 3 years and whilst going out with my boyfriend we had been trying for one however i just couldnt get pregnant. I was so into the idea for having a baby because now i feel that i am ready, even though im only 19. I ...
A. 17 August 2006: It is easy to get so wrapped up in one idea that the rest of the world passes you by. At 19 there is plenty of time. You can give more to a child if you truly know yourself and this will come with time. Becoming stressed out about not getting ... (read in full...)
Lost in the crowd
Q. hi i'm 15, whats wrong with me!?! I hate going round in a big group of friends and i go really quiet when i go down town and just hang out wiv a big group of people even if they are all my friends. But the wierd thing is i am great at talking to j...
A. 17 August 2006: I am exactly the same. My secret fear is that I will say something and people will ignore me - something less likely to happen when there are less of you. When I am in a big group, I try to engage the person next to me in one on one conversation. ... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty that I have to tell my bf I want to go and see my family? I fear he will flip out!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and I am ment to be going back to my home country [Australia] for Christmas this year. The trip will be about 5 weeks in total and im not sure how my boyfriend will react when i tell him. I havent ...
A. 17 August 2006: Tell him you are going and if he is worth keeping then he won't mind at all. Five weeks isn't very long. A compromise could be that he go with you, if that is possible.... (read in full...)
He had an affair and hasnt broken off contact with her, what should I do ?
Q. my husband has had a affair which I have forgiven but he cannot seem to break off contact with her, advice please....
A. 17 August 2006: Will he go for councilling? If so a third person's perspective might be useful. Do you want him to break off all relations with this person? If so you must tell him, but be prepared for him to continue to see her without your knowledge unless you ... (read in full...)
My good friends are backing away from me because I don't look that cool. What should I do?
Q. i have a bunch of really good friends at school..im 15 by the way. But recently we are not that close anymore and they dont really want to go anywhere with me..i think it is because they want me to look a bit "cooler" in public ..please help! ...
A. 17 August 2006: Question is, are you happy with the way you look? If so, your friends should accept you for how you are, if not then try some new clothes/hairstyles. If money is an issue try charity shops and trainee hairdressers for some budget looks. The better ... (read in full...)
Two days after our son was diagnosed with autism, my husband left
Q. My husband and i have been married 9 months he has some huge mental health problems and is seeing a counsellor two weeks ago out the blue he didnt come home then told me he was moving out two weeks before that he smashed the house up and i called ...
A. 15 August 2006: My son is autistic (he is 21 now) so I know how tough life can be after the diagnosis. I was lucky, my husband stayed but I have many friends with autistic children whose husband's just upped and left. They managed to raise their child alone and so ... (read in full...)
Boy moved on after I said no to sex. Depressed and feel down :(
Q. I have a problem dating men most times, because a boy I liked very very much asked me for sex on our second or third date while I keep telling him I liked him but that I preferred knowing them better to see if we could have a relationship and this ...
A. 15 August 2006: Boy have you had a narrow escape. I think he would probably have had sex with you and just moved on to the next girl. There are men out there who will be happy to wait until you are ready - lets hope your next date will be one of them... (read in full...)
Could someone please tell me what sperm is supposed to taste like ?
Q. This is a very weird question to ask just anyone but I was wandering what sperm is supposed to taste like? I dont want guys to answer this question just women... Please I really need help with this..?...
A. 15 August 2006: Anything from no taste at all to something I call peppermint seaweed. It depends on diet, length of time between ejaculations, whether you drink or smoke. It looks different as well. Anything from bright white and blobby to completely clear.... (read in full...)
My ex is threatening to tell my new bf about my past cheating! What can I do?
Q. i have a 2 year ld daughter with my ex but now am living with my new partner who has taken my child on as his own. I have cheated several times with my ex, even in our house! Now i swore it wouldn`t happen again and it hasn`t and i wanna be faithful ...
A. 15 August 2006: Tell him first and risk being dumped. If you give him the reasons why and tell him you would never do that to him, he should give you a second chance. If he doesn't then he can't be that into you in the first place. PS Your ex is a louse... (read in full...)
She's got me confused, so what do you think is going on here? Is she interested?
Q. i have NO idea what to make of this girl. i can't read her. we've hooked up before but decided it was a bad idea to do it again because the timing wasn't right. she was in a relationship. anyway, now she's talking to me about how her ...
A. 15 August 2006: Ask her. Second-guessing never works. She may be seeing you as a close friend she can open up to, or she may be dropping hints. You will never know until you ask.... (read in full...)
I like him and he likes me but he is dating my sister who has another boyfriend...
Q. Im 15 and i really like this boy who is lets call(N)he is 15 to but my sister is going out with(N)she however is 17.They have been going out a few weeks but have never kissed or anything.The most they have done is held hands.When i see him he looks ...
A. 15 August 2006: Your relationship with your sister is more important than any guy. Don't over complicate your life by making a play for him. She may be two-timing, but it is not your place to spill the beans. Find yourself a guy that comes without all the ... (read in full...)
My obsession is scary...I can't get over his past....
Q. I have been acting a bit strange lately and have no idea why! Here's a bit of background: me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and he has had a lot of sexual partners before me. This really hurts me and it's caused a lot of ...
A. 15 August 2006: Anything that happens in the bedroom is fine if you are both OK with it. Many women fantasize about being disrespected in the bedroom and if you think it is safe for him to do this then he is probably a real gentlemen out of it. We all have twinges ... (read in full...)
If you're married would you always wear your wedding ring?
Q. Hey guys, its me bonym!!!! Just a quick question about something that has been bugging me for ages!!! Ok, its really for married men, but I dont really mind who replies!!! Ok, so here is the deal, if you are married, would you always wear your...
A. 15 August 2006: I'm female and I never wear my ring because I am interested to find out who would flirt with me if I was single! I can always mention how much I love my husband if I think things are going too far!... (read in full...)
Is he after an affair?
Q. A married man keeps winking at me and telling me i've seen his 'nice side'.... do you think hes after an affair?...
A. 15 August 2006: He may be, or he may just be a natural flirt. Enjoy the flirting, but draw the line on having an affair - if he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you too!
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How can I over come feeling needy and insecure, when I know my ex is having a wonderful life?
Q. I'm female, 19 and going to university this september. I had a relationship with a teacher at school when i was 16/17 which lasted a year, this teacher was also female and 18 years older than me. The relationship ended before i finished college ...
A. 15 August 2006: Your teacher took advantage of you. She is a selfish uncaring person and you are better off without her. It is easier to move on when you are older as you have more responsibilites. Don't try and get over this, you are grieving in just the same way ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my manager....
Q. I am pretty low at the minute which is highly unlike me! I'm a lesbian and I have developed this enormous crush on my manager at work. I am pretty sure she is gay but not so sure she would be interested in me. She is amazing.I only get to see her ...
A. 15 August 2006: There are lots of clubs/groups for Lesbians. Find someone else and you will soon see your manager as a normal person and not wonder woman. Power is a natural aphrodesiac for all women gay and straight and this could be what is driving you on. How ... (read in full...)
Sis steals my friends!
Q. My sister always steals my friends. For the last year she has been dating my neighbor who has been my friend for like 10 years. It drives me nuts when I come home and her and him are there. I feel angry at him for ignoring me when she's around. I ...
A. 15 August 2006: She is probably jealous of you and thinks if you have something then it must be good. If he is your friend of 10 years then he should be able to find some time for you. On the other hand, if he is really happy right now, you should be happy for him. ... (read in full...)
I thought the guy was 17, like me... but he's only 12!
Q. I'm 17 and I met this guy who I presumed was the same age as he looked so old, but then I found out he was 12! I'm so confused as he looks and acts my age. He's so sweet, I've never met anyone like him before, but I can't help thinking it's wrong as ...
A. 15 August 2006: I don't know where you live, but where I come from any sexual activity would be illegal. There is no reason why you can't be friends. He is probably putting on an older guy act and as you spend more time with him his mask will slip. Perhaps he wants ... (read in full...)
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