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writes: I have been getting mixed feelings for my boyfriend since sort of the beginning. So, i broke up with him today for good because i figured, he loves me but i don't love him. So, that is not fair to him. Now, that I broke up with him, i thought i would be happy and relieved but now i am just cranky and i was looking at his picture and picturing me kiss him again. He is a amazing guy. Please help a desperate girl out.
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reader, let me help! +, writes (26 August 2006):
Well.... you thought things will be better if you both split up. But you are also having second thoughts. When you see him, ask him for another chance. tell him you needed to sort things out. If he agrees, you and your boyfriend go and talk to a consellor, it will help you. xxx frm paula.
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reader, seenitdoneit +, writes (26 August 2006):
I have been on the other end of this and it is not pleasant. A boyfriend kept dumping me and taking me back. It was painful to be dumped and painful when I went back to him because I hated myself for being so weak and going back to him (this went on for 3 years). It is the old can't live with him, can't live without him syndrome. The reason you broke up with him in the first place will still be there if you take him back. Only go back if you can be sure you won't be dumping him again in a few weeks time. Of-course he may not have you back no matter how much he wants you his pride may prevent it.
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