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I thought the guy was 17, like me... but he's only 12!

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Question - (15 August 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I'm 17 and I met this guy who I presumed was the same age as he looked so old, but then I found out he was 12! I'm so confused as he looks and acts my age. He's so sweet, I've never met anyone like him before, but I can't help thinking it's wrong as he's so young.

What do you think about the situatuion? Should I not bother as the age gap is too wide?

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (26 August 2006):

bonym agony auntMerciful God, of course he is sweet, he is 12!!!!! My dear girl, I know you didnt know he was 12 until afterwards but seriously, his voice probably hasnt even broken yet, he is way too young right now anyway. Take care. xXx

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A female reader, seenitdoneit +, writes (15 August 2006):

I don't know where you live, but where I come from any sexual activity would be illegal. There is no reason why you can't be friends. He is probably putting on an older guy act and as you spend more time with him his mask will slip. Perhaps he wants a big sister, that is all you can offer.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2006):

You should pinch his cheek and smile sweetie saying "aww, arn't you a cutie" or "my little sister would love you!"

ie - he is too young!

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A female reader, Mushgirl United Kingdom +, writes (15 August 2006):

Mushgirl agony auntNothing's wrong, so long as you're in love...

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A female reader, GM +, writes (15 August 2006):

You are far to young to think about involvement, make him a good friend, but make sure you do not encourage him to think it is more. Good Luck GM

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