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anonymous
writes: I am pretty low at the minute which is highly unlike me! I'm a lesbian and I have developed this enormous crush on my manager at work. I am pretty sure she is gay but not so sure she would be interested in me. She is amazing.I only get to see her one week a month (ish) as the company I work for is large and being relief I travel all over the south east. I talk to her on the phone and whilst i don't show it am absolutely nervous of her dulcate tones. Today she sent me and the other girl I work with home leaving her with our female admin after hours. I don't suppose for one second that there is anything going on with them but the very thought there might be made me physically sic all the way home. All 60 miles! Sad i know! We share jokes and look at each other in what i consider to be a special way but is that cause i'm wanting to see that?? you look for the positive! I want so much to find out exactly what goes through her head when our eyes meet with a large smile, when our hands brush against each other. I know realistically though risking that I could loose my job if the response is negative. I am at my wits end as to what to do.
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reader, seenitdoneit +, writes (15 August 2006):
There are lots of clubs/groups for Lesbians. Find someone else and you will soon see your manager as a normal person and not wonder woman. Power is a natural aphrodesiac for all women gay and straight and this could be what is driving you on. How much do you like your job? Office romances usually mean one ends up leaving their job.
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